In the last month I’ve had 4 different women try to use me. Told them all NO and cut them off. But I’m getting very bitter?

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In the last month I’ve had four different women try to get money and/or one way favors out of me. I called them all out on their bs and cut them all off. One was a platonic situation the other three were via dating scenarios.

While I am not stupid enough to fall for their crap it’s just depressing the hell out of me. In the last few years I’ve seen more and more women trying to take advantage of my kind nature. But I got radar for bs and when a line is crossed I will cut them off and never look back.

But I have a lot of resentment and deepening depression over this. I unfortunately give off a “nice guy” vibe but I wised up a long time ago to women looking to exploit that. I got a “trust but verify” attitude with them.

However it’s been many years since any of them have gotten away with some crap. But still it’s just depressing I can’t trust anyone. Depressing that most women I have interact with have self centered agendas.

How can I stay optimistic? It’s tough. I just feel this is a wider societal “dog eat dog” problem.

In the last month I’ve had 4 different women try to use me. Told them all NO and cut them off. But I’m getting very bitter?
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