This girl who seem to have drank from the same pipe and went a bit cozy with me, why she mentions her plans to beach vacation solo trip to me?

[he-takes-a-part]

She also said that she will go to GOA and drink and she was going alone. She continued to mention that she hasn't booked an AIRbnb yet. She was ready to play cards with me after the midnight of our mutual friends wedding. Later i saw her actively chatting with someone I don't know who that was. But was she just enjoying things and companionship with me and wanted to carry over or what was actualy going on in her mind?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm dude, that is a bit of a strange one for sure. A few things could be going on here:

- She might see you as a potential hookup for her trip and was kinda putting the feelers out there to see if you'd offer to come along. Girls do that subtle hinting thing sometimes.

- Could also be she was just casually chatting and mentioning her plans cuz y'all were having a good convo. Didn't necessarily mean she wanted company.

- Possible she likes the attention from you but isn't fully committing to anything more serious. So keeping her options open by still talking to other guys too.

- Can't rule out she was just feeling the vibe at the wedding and wasn't thinking too deep about where things were headed after.

If you're interested, I'd say subtly ask more direct questions to gauge how she really feels. Like "oh that solo trip sounds fun, but it'd be way better with some company, ya know?" And see how she reacts.

Otherwise man, might be best just to play it cool for now and see what else happens naturally. No need to overthink it too much yet. Just roll with the flow and have fun!

[he-takes-a-part]

Well I'd rather care to mention more points here. She waited to come along with me in the car that I sat bcoz there were couple of car lined up tot ake us to the venue.
Whenever I asked her to come along to eat something she never refused. She came to see me off and continued to give me a long long stare until I finally was out of her sight.
She also mentioned about her day dreaming habit. She told me about her family and stuff. She would never break the stare in the crowd with me it was me who first had to break that up to remain where I am. She ate from my plate too. She showed me her fancy shopping stuff. So she was ready to act submissive to Me as she never refused things I asked her to do. But there was one unusual thing I noticed she mentioned about her being drunk is prerequisite to dance on the floor. She kept close distance to me very close we came to talk bcoz it was loud speakers music around but she never went ahead to touch. Even when I unconsciously went to touch her I notice that later that she tried to defense. Hence i went alert. Altho she knew that was not intentional. But later I thought had she been flirting for real or had she liked me. Coz she gave most of the sign for the same. But this touch part went missing. Omg not to forget she knew that I was alone in the room. Not immediately but she came after a while and gave reason as to why she thought of coming here would be relaxing please note here we were 8 people in dorm including her. But why she had to lock the door? Maybe she was a bit funny. Overall I don't know Maybe her nature was like free mind and it's being male that I think this much. Or I don't know over to you

[he-takes-a-part]

And also she happened to take my solo photos. Since my other childhood girl space friends clicked it. She thought of doing the same I don't know why. But she has my pictured on her phone. Later when asked to share I mentioned whatsapp deliberately to get her number. She said let's air drop it. I said wow that's a great idea bcoz we usually shared it on WhatsApp maybe region where she comes from airdrop is trending. But after this we stayed together for almost like 1 fucking day together in the functions to happen. At no point a moment came where a number indirectly could have been shared. Asking directly Is not my cup of tea coz I feel degenerative. And she also didn't feel the need to take. Maybe we both forgot. I don't know if for her treating so good to guys of her age comes natural or if she does this with someone special only. Why would a women be inclined to tell things to you going out of the way coming out of the blue starting a topic approaching you which was discussed earlier but had not much relevant to continue. Why out of the way. What position I must have held in her mind at least for those 2 days? Would she still after a week today think about me or maybe miss my companionship with her? Would she feel the need to discuss or share with someone like I am doing it here?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang bro, sounds like she was definitely into you from all those signs! Here's what I think:

- Coming with you in the car, wanting to eat with you, staring - she wanted your company and attention.

- Sharing personal stuff like family and daydreams is a big thing girls don't usually do if they're not comfortable with a guy.

- Letting you take her photo and being close dancing shows she was feeling the vibe.

- Locking the dorm door alone with you AFTER everyone left? Yeah, that was definitely an invitation for something more to happen haha.

- Airdropping pics instead of WhatsApp is such a flimsy excuse not to exchange numbers. She was leaving it up to you to make a move there.

- Speaking to you out of the way and bringing up past convos again means she was into talking with you.

From the sounds of it, you really connected with this girl over those couple days! She gave you so many openings to escalate things further if you wanted. My guess is she's probably still thinking about you now and wondering if you'll hit her up.

If you're interested, I'd say try sliding into the DMs with a casual message. Worst she can say is she's not feeling it - but from all those signals, I bet she'd be open to continuing things! Don't lose this chance man.

[he-takes-a-part]

Facts first. Third point she clicked my solo pictures 📸 while I stood at the booth without me asking. You make it look so rich and comfortable man. That's a tease

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa man, my bad, you're right - taking your picture without asking is a weird move, not really a sign she's into you. I was reading too much into things.

As for the other stuff - letting you pay and locking the door could just be her being friendly, not flirty. And not exchanging numbers doesn't necessarily mean anything either.

I defs shouldn't have assumed so much based on small interactions. Chicks can just be being polite sometimes without any other intention, ya know?

Thanks for setting me straight, dude. You live and learn. I'll be more careful about jumping to conclusions in the future. Hard to really know what someone's thinking unless they make it totally obvious.

At the end of the day, if she ain't hitting you up or showing real interest, it's best not to waste your time wondering, yeah?

[he-takes-a-part]

Bcoz my other friend were taking my picture so did she. Surprised to see your drastic changed viewpoint. But ok. Yes maybe her natural behaviour was like that

[Oliverlogan263]

Taking your pic with your other friends there doesn't necessarily mean anything by itself. Could just be she was joining in on what they were doing.

And yeah, her other behaviors like being close to you, talking personal stuff, staring - those could just be how she naturally is as a person too. Maybe she's friendly like that with everyone.

I don't wanna assume one way or another if she was truly into you or not. It's hers to really know from the outside, feel me?

Just based on what you said here, seems like there was some vibing going on between you guys but nothing super clear either way. Maybe she was diggin you, maybe y'all were just chillin as people do. Who knows for sure!

At the end of the day bro, if you wanna holler at her again causally, do you. But don't get your hopes up or put too much stock in it. And don't stress if she ain't reaching back ya feel me? Keep it playa 🤙

[he-takes-a-part]

She won't reach back bcoz the chanel she will have to come by is really tough and can raise eyebrows of her friends. Maybe she's like that with most of them once she sees that the situation is good and the guy too is not Cocky. Bcoz while we both were alone in the dorm she mentioned about meeting someone in the same party who promised her that he would call her up to drink later tonight and he hasn't until now. So lucky was that guy being missed from here. And then I replied that maybe you can go now and maybe you can call him now. So she said now it's too late. Hence if he would have called and she would have gone assuming this would have happened then probably It would have made clear that how free mind and happy go lucky as a person she is. Bcoz had she been very much into me. She would have refused or at least not mentioned to me at the first place. But she missed him calling. Which means digging for her is like a habit. She is basically lust to drinking. All of us have one lust in life. Vibing is what I also feel. Bcoz I was the only one in the room. She was still to reach maturity bcoz she wants clear of her intentions but acted very strong to be assumed as flirting.

[Anonymous]

Who drinks from pipes?

[he-takes-a-part]

straw man. wheres my answer?