What does my friend want?

[Anonymous]

I had a very close friend (female) who was engaged but occasionally sent me nude photos and videos. Then his fiancé found out about it and we stopped talking, it's been 5 months. A few days ago, she sent me a message saying I miss you while I was sleeping, but when I looked at the message, I saw that she had closed her account and she is still engaged. What do you think is its purpose? What does she want to do?

[OlderAndWiser]

She is violating the trust of her fiancé and will do the same in her next relationship. Is this the kind of girl you would want in your life as a long term partner, or would you just like to fuck her a few times?

[Asker]

I honestly think she's a great sex partner, but I haven't had sex with her yet

[OlderAndWiser]

So you just want sex?

[Asker]

Why not

[OlderAndWiser]

I am not being critical. I am only suggesting that she would not be a good partner for a LTR.

[Asker]

Maybe

[OlderAndWiser]

If she feels comfortable violating the trust of her current fiancee, she will most likely repeat that beahvior in the future. How would you feel if you two were in an "exclsuive" relationship and she was sending naked pictures to another guy?

[Asker]

I dont know. But I'm sure she'd make a very good sex partner lol

[OlderAndWiser]

She probably isn't wanting to get into another relationship and sex may be all she wants, too. Tell her to leave the guy and you promise to give her what she obviously wants. And when that happens, fuck her until her eyes pop out!

[Asker]

She probably finds things in me that he doesn't give

[Tomisworthless]

Dudes a loser for marrying her guess he's willingly walking towards destruction and misery, poor fool.

[Asker]

I dont understand explain it little bit please?

[Tomisworthless]

Try rereading it a second time

[Asker]

Lol ok

[cherriibly]

She wants attention

[Asker]

Is she asking me to do this even though she's engaged?

[cherriibly]

yeah and what she's doing is not a good thing, she's betraying her fiancée

[Asker]

I offered her sex a few times, but she reluctantly refused

[cherriibly]

Because she is engaged

[Asker]

Yes 🤷‍♂️