I’m wondering if this coworker is attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so here’s what happened right so I work with her we talk quite often I’m quiet usually so it’s unusual for me to talk at work especially since I don’t really like it she gave me a ride home one day bc we are friends we went to the smoke shop she doesn’t smoke weed like I do she says it makes her nauseas I had a weed pen on me it doesn’t smell nor taste like weed but it’ll get you high moral to the story I told her that it doesn’t smell or taste like weed I set it down for 1 second she picked it up hit it and was talking way more I think she likes me we had a very good conversation after that like on a kinda deep level I just could use some more input on it

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Okay so I asked her to draw me a tattoo idea of mine bc I’m thinking about getting one and she instantly started drawing it I’m pretty confident she likes me now

[ManOnFire]

Mmmmm kinda hard to tell. Not sure I'd put a whole lot of stock in it just because you gave her weed and she opened up like a river to you. I don't smoke, but I know people who do and say that's an effect of marijuana, making you comfortable and opening up about shit I suppose. But then it also makes people quiet too, and you already said you don't talk much.

The only part I might say is a possible indicator that she likes you - and this is a big Maybe - is that when she gave you the ride she went into the smoke shop with you, even though she doesn't smoke. That is a significant instance of solidarity. Now whether it's because she likes you as more than friends or not is still unclear.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true

[Asker]

She also states a lot at me when I’m working lol

[ManOnFire]

That too is a possible indication that she likes you. People do often watch those they're interested in.

[Asker]

Yeah I meant stare lol

[Avicenna]

Maybe. You need to spend more time with her to be sure though.

[Asker]

Yeah that is true

[Anonymous]

It’s hard to know whether that is romantic interest or just friends, but I would steer clear of that with a coworker unless one of you are leaving.

[bobinnes00]

Yeah, if it was a co worker I wouldn't be wondering anything at all...

If you do still wonder and act on it, get a good lawyer first! :D