Is it okay to feel like karma got her?

[Anonymous]

I’m doing my best to move on, after my best friend dumped me over her jealousy that her crush wants me. Ten years of good friendship when I was there through everything and he wasn’t. A few days later, her crush contacted me. I told him about her feelings for him after he asked me to be his girlfriend and he won’t speak of her and changed the subject, back to me, immediately. I am trying to move on and keep everything as neutral as possible with everyone, no dramas, no competitions, no bad feeling, but I felt a jolt of unholy glee upon feeling that karma got her. Knowing that she’s dumped all her only real friends for a guy who doesn’t care about her.

[Anonymous]

Dude you’re a grown up, act like one. At first I thought you were a teenager talking about having a crush, but you’re in your 30s. What is this “Mean Girls” the midlife edition? She probably realizes she made a mistake, people make mistakes all the time. Let it go.

[Asker]

I still think she got what she deserved and it only happened a few days ago. Currently getting rid of every gift she gave me. No, she’ll spend her life chasing this guy.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Well don’t be surprised if something comes back your way.

[Asker]

Something already has. I’ve been stalked by this guy for two years and she sided with him because of her need for sex.

[Roudyrebel8]

Forgive her move on with your life

[Anonymous]

All this talk about crushes from someone in their 30s is so cringy. You should be well past this stage by now.

[Asker]

Lol being in your thirties doesn’t make you dead from the waist down.

[Asker]

I assume she still has feelings and needs and they’re not diminished just because she’s not five anymore.