Girls, is it a turn off if a guy is afraid of things like roller coasters zip lines, sky diving, etc?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's a turn off

No, that's not a turn off

If he's working on overcoming it, its not a turnoff. Otherwise it is

[Daniela1982]

What a Wuss! I guess he wouldn't want to ride with me in my Dodge Charger then.

[Anonymous]

No, a fear is a fear. I guess a turn off would be how he talks about it or handles it. I would be fine if he just said “not for me” or gives a valid reason why like it makes him dizzy or sick to his stomach. If he’s all whiny and weird, that’s sort of a turn off.

[DizzyDesii]

He’d have to at least try rollercoasters with me. If one freaks him out, i wouldn't have him try more. I’d like to skydive but I don't know if i’d actually try it so thats not a must. I am also afraid to zipline

[brightpapaya]

Not at all, as I'm afraid of them too. Trying to overcome that fear together would be great!

[Asker]

The girl I'm seeing has always really loved roller coasters and can't relate to my fear :(

[brightpapaya]

Has she told you it's a dealbreaker/turn off for you to be afraid of them or are you simply assuming that'll be her reaction?

[Asker]

Long story short, she seemed to get a lot less responsive to me after that conversation (though we also had many other conversations that day), and she said I'm the only guy she knows who's afraid of roller coasters. I called her and said I'd like to move on if we're not gonna communicate, so I said to please let me know when I can get my gloves back that she borrowed, and she said she'd let me know. So whether or not that's the reason I don't think we're talking anymore

[BuffTaco]

No, we don't have to like ALL the same things as long as we like a lot of the same things! I like mice and rats but I've still dated people who were scared of them.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I don't like that stuff either (heights) so it's a nope.

[electromagnetic]

No cause I am too. Fest is not exclusive to one gender.

[electromagnetic]

Fear*

[Jessica405]

No. We can't all like these adrenalin pumping escapades.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Not necessarily turned off but more likely disappointed, especially since I like thrilling activities.

It's more enjoyable to share the thrills & chills together.

[Blessedme]

He is not my guy if he afraid of those things which I like.

[Asker]

Even if he wants to work on overcoming it?

[Blessedme]

If he wants to overcome then fine that will be cute to see & I would support him yeah

[WhitneySnow]

No. It’s fine. I am too. Although I do kinda like roller coasters even though I’m also scared of them.

[Anonymous]

You can't really help what you're afraid of.

[LolaDumero]

I’d think it’s pretty cute

[Asker]

Interesting

[LaurenM1997]

No it’s ok to be afraid

[XXblack88]

I don't see it as a true off

[BigGirlblue]

No doesn't bother me