Accidentally left a girl I like on delivered for a whole day, she did the exact same thing to me the next day. Does this mean she’s not interested?

[Anonymous]

I feel bad but I got super busy yesterday and dipped out midway through a conversation with a girl I’m dating. Didn’t respond for an entire day, which is the first time it’s happened. We usually talk every day all the time, and she has said she is into me the same way I am to her.

Anyway, I asked her how she’s doing yesterday morning and she essentially copied me by also taking an entire day to respond. Does this mean she doesn’t like me anymore? I’m going to write this post and then apologise for the delay, but did I screw things up here?

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Sorry I meant I got super busy 2 days ago, not yesterday.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she’s just being petty bcs she felt like you left her hanging. Doesn’t necessarily mean that she lost interest though, it might actually show that she was looking forward to your response but she never got any so now she’s pissed. All you can do is briefly apologize and give her an explanation for why you left so suddenly and just try to pick up the conversation where you left off.

[Anonymous]

Some people will have to learn the hard way.

[Asker]

What is the lesson here exactly?

[Lokiion]

I think she just wants you to call instead

[ChicoFromThe305]

She's just mad at you for "ignoring" her, even tho ahe didn't bring it up, You should, bring up the situation where you accidentally left mid convo cause you forgot or whatnot, whatever she was overthinking, she will forget

[Asker]

Yeah I apologised but I didn’t want to give her some canned excuse. Just said that it wasn’t intentional.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea that's perfect, no need to do too much either lol

[Asker]

Also, do you think it’s kind of better that she’s being petty like this for me ignoring her? I feel like if she wasn’t into me she wouldn’t have even cared and would have just responded whenever to my text.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I believe in a way it is, it means she felt a type of way and most likely caused her to overthink, someone would only overthink when they worry and someone only worries when they care.

[TommyMountainFigure]

She was just trying to teach you a lesson as not to do it to her again. You haven't blown it. She still feels the same as she did before. Just apologise and give her time to calm down!

[Asker]

Why would she be trying to do that though? It was an accident.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Some people can go into vindictive mode when they feel wronged. Doesn't matter that it was an accident to them.