Am I being dramatic or should I leave it alone and move on?

[MLGbreezy]

So I yesterday I was coming home from worked called an Uber long story short I ended up picking up my Uber drivers number fine lady sweet and I loved her energetic personality she is older then me I’m 25 she’s 35 but she gave me her number regardless. Shot her a text so she could save my number and even then she seems genuinely interested. It was pretty late so we didn’t really talk but she said she was heading to sleep and I told her I’d stalk to her tmm she liked my comment and we called it a night. Shot her a text this morning though but to no reply I’d find it hard to believe that I’ve already fumbled the bag off maybe 4 or 8 texts between us. But it’s been some hours now and I don’t wanna be that guy that double texts especially if there was nothing to worry about to begin with. I mean in person the conversation was really good super fun she was super open too. But maybe it’s just the age difference too you know or maybe I read things wrong I don't know.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, I feel you on this one. Pursuing an older woman can definitely be tricky territory. But from the sound of it, she was definitely feeling your vibe in person too so I wouldn't count yourself out just yet. Girls, especially older ones, sometimes play it kinda cool even when they're interested. It's only been a day since you texted so I wouldn't stress about not getting a response right away. She could be busy with work or other stuff. I'd give it another day or two and then maybe send like a casual follow up text, nothing desperate. Maybe just ask how her day is going or if she's down to grab a coffee this weekend. That shows you're still interested without coming on too strong. If she still doesn't reply after that, then yeah man it's probably not gonna happen and you'll just have to move on. But don't count her out too soon - leave that window open a little longer before giving up hope. And who knows, once she does reply things could still pick up again. Older women have their own lives and schedules too so they don't always text back immediately like us lol. Just chill out for now, stay cool, and see what happens over the next couple days. But definitely don't double text - play it casual like you ain't stressin. I'm sure other opportunities will come around too if this one doesn't pan out. Keep your head up bro!

[MLGbreezy]

Yeah this is definitely different for me I’ve had older woman flirt with me before but I usually deal with girls around my age or younger then me. And yeah it’s only been a few hours since I texted her so I don’t wanna be to hasty if she’s at work or something so I’ll leave the door open another day maybe two and shoot her another text to see if we can set to something up. I definitely appreciative her maturity tho pretty lady too so we will see i appreciate the advice.

[Oliverlogan263]

For sure man, older women can be intimidating sometimes since they've had more experience than girls our age. But it seems like she was really into you so that's a good sign. Yeah definitely play it cool and give it another day or two before trying to text again - don't want to come off as too clingy! She's probably busy with work and stuff like you said.

Maybe when you text her next you could suggest setting up a specific plan, like asking if she wants to meet for coffee or something lowkey after her next shift. Girls like it when you take the lead with making plans. And it shows you're interested without being pushy. Fingers crossed she replies and is down to get together! You gotta let me know what happens for sure. Getting with an older lady would be pretty cool, I'm rooting for you man! Just relax and let things unfold naturally.

[MsProsperity]

If she’s online and doesn’t reply you, don’t double text. Unless if you’re seriously obsessed with her, double text

[MLGbreezy]

Well I honestly don’t know if she’s only line we texted each others numbers. But I’m definitely not obsessed we just met but I also think it’s odd she just never shot me back a text she seemed really interested even when I initially texted her to just save my number.