Do you know how to talk to girls?

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I still don’t know how.

DrPepper12 · Accepted Answer

#1 Be vulnerable. That's internal. Make yourself BE that and then DO it. Can't do anything until your ready for rejection.

Now, put the phone down!! People watch. a lot!! Then strike up convos about anything you noticed about her. Be complimentary. Be humorous. Be witty. Be bold. Be self deprecating. Be dressed for success. BE AWARE OF YOUR AND HER BODY LANGUAGE. Study that shit until it's second nature!! Go to places with QUALITY women. Book store, museum, volunteer situations, work cafes, gyms, malls, etc. Most importantly, don't ever get intimidated by women in groups. That can be your best opportunity if you are bold, assertive and courageous. Give THEM a glimpse of you so the positive feedback loop gets established. Hope it helps. Humble brag, I've NEVER had a problem with women and I ain't the pick of the litter.

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

Nah, I need chemistry with a girl for me to be able to do that or else I just treat her like anyone else - I am less fun. Sometimes I randomly come across a girl like that or approach them to see if we have chemistry.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I have a public personality and a subjective social personality. The subjective personality is when I discuss personal opinions that might be controversial or offensive to others. The public personality is where I describe everything in generic terms so that its impossible to be offended by my comments.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Yeah, you open your mouth and talk. Too easy.

HawkPerception · Answer

I think I'm pretty good in person. But online I seem to drop the ball more often than not. Once I actually go on an in person date with a girl they seem a lot more interested than when talking online 😅

AviatorTom · Answer

Unlike Raj on The Big Bang Theory, I don't need a drink in order to talk to women.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Not really. I lack "game" (Thought all us black lads had it? ) and try to approach girls they way I'd like to be approached.

elaphe · Answer

I am fine until it comes time to let them know that I "like them." Then it seems awkward. But I'm fine with small talk.

ab2shifty · Answer

yeah, people overthink this shit way to much 💀

Abbycado · Answer

Yes, I talk to them regularly XD

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Not really lol

Nifrayu · Answer

I talk to them the same way I talk to boys.

Jay0102 · Answer

Depends on the girl

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