What do you think I should do about this coincidence?

[Anonymous]

So I went to a festival. 2 in fact. There was a girl with blue hair whom looked really cute to me, but she appeared to have a man always come by her, and talk to her. I felt she was in a relationship. At some point, she just brought her bike over to my camp and just sort of hung out there quietly on the bike. After a couple seconds, we asked how she was, pretty much just said “what’s up?” and we briefly talked, til she took off with her bike to do something for the festival.
I guess my friend saw her looking at us a lot making it seem as if she wanted to talk more. The next day I had to go out of state, and pack up camp to perform for a separate festival. When we got back, everyone was packing up. She came up to us after we walked around with our new friend and told us a story of a crazy lady that was there while we were gone, and she wanted us to see. My friend and I tried checking, but couldn’t hear anything, and casually walked down the path to make us appear less awkward.
After some time, he told me to talk to her and ask for her Instagram. I did, and she gave me a card that had the name of a person I’ve met almost 7 years ago. I realized this was a person I met previously, and didn’t know!
While cleaning our camp site getting ready to leave, my friend went out to talk to our new friend and get his Instagram. He came back in saying the girl was out there and looking back at our camp often while I was cleaning in the tent. (I didn’t know til he told me) I came out of the tent, and saw her talking to our new friend, and noticed her glance back at me..
Facebook claims she’s in an open relationship, and it might be with that man, however, when I was talking to her, and he showed up, she got quiet, and continued cleaning. I followed her on Instagram, and she followed me back. I wonder…. Does it seem like she likes me in anyway? Maybe she remembers me? I don’t know if I should reach out to her since I find her attractive, or if I should ignore it. What do you think?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's definitely a weird coincidence that you knew that girl from before. Who knows, maybe she remembered you too and that's why she was kinda hanging around you guys at the festival. It's tough to say for sure what her deal is since it seems like she might be in an open relationship or something.

My advice would be to maybe follow her on Instagram like you did, but don't necessarily reach out right away. Give it some time and see if she interacts with any of your posts or stories first. That way you'll get a better idea if she's actually interested in reconnecting or just being friendly. The fact that she gave you her card is a good sign, but with the open relationship stuff I wouldn't want to step on anyone's toes either.

Play it cool for now on social media and see what happens. Maybe down the road if she starts commenting or DMing you, you could casually ask how she's been or to grab coffee if you run into each other again. No need to force anything. Just let it flow naturally and see if she gives you any other signs she's into it. Who knows, maybe there could be something there since you kinda knew her before. Keep me posted on what happens man!

[TommyMountainFigure]

You could always say you remember her from years ago, but you didn't want to say anything at the time, in case she thought you were stalking her.
If she remembers you that might be a way of reconnecting.