If she's mad or not interested, why keep me hanging on... why she's neither blocking nor responding me!! we're onlybat the level of online chatting/dating!!
She's not introducing. Move on
She's playing games n testing u!
She's confused with her options..
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Wth.. she replied after 4 days.. and blaming it on me saying "I though u were not alive n that's why u weren't talking/texting me" 🤷♂️🤷♂️ this Bi** so I said the same thing I guessed ubdied too.. this woman just wants to play.. but it's getting hard for me to cut her loose!!
After 3 days I texted and she immediately saw it but didn't reply, why?
1) Some guys/girls like the attention is what I often hear
2) Sending more texts sends off signals that one is desperate/needy (I still dont understand why but thats the way it is so phone calls and video chats are better... I can't wait to find a girl that doesn't give a crap about that stuff like flood me with memes and stuff)
3) the guy/girl is likely way young mentally, the lack of responding could just be theyre not interested or dont have the social skills to communicate that or have just not had the time to get back to you (we all tend to get caught up with our hands tied at what seems like the worst moments)
4) I believe there are some metaphysical forces that could play a major role like giving and receiving as well
This is exactly the kind of non-communication that you get when you rely on texting instead of actually talking to each other. Why is your generation so afraid of having conversations? It is a horrible social deficiency!
If she did not answer your text, then she is simply not interested and you should forget about her. I mean, I do read random texts I receive unwanted as well and never answer them just like I never answer phone calls from people that are not in my contact list.
There are so many weirdos and perverts out there that not answering to a text or phone call is the best way to avoid to be stalked or disturbed.
I always leave people on read if I don't know who they are in the hope that they abandon after a while.
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We're chatting from the last 30-40 days.. and actually she's dating someone at the moment but also charts with me and sometimes refers me as friend ( hate that) but doesn't mind if I flirt. I know its complicated!!
You seriously need to let her go. Please take it from my experience. There was a woman in my life when I was about twenty-two years old and she played games a lot. So one night we were talking at her place and I had had enough. I looked at her and said I was done, stood up and walked off and went home. In my heart I was at peace with my decision. An hour later she showed up to my place crying. It took her a few days to drag me back into her bullshit. If I had just stuck to my decision, I would have saved myself six years of heartache. A few months later she claimed that she was pregnant with my child and against my wishes she got an abortion, which she knew I was against. After we finally split she got married and had a baby. I spell my name Bryan and she named her daughter Bryn. She could have spelled her daughter's name a few other ways, but she chose the one that's almost exactly like my name. In 2017 I went to get a vasectomy and the doc said I didn't need to cuz I've never been able to procreate, I have shot blanks my whole life. So she let me believe for twenty-four years that I was involved with an abortion. She didn't care that this lie basically destroyed me for years. All she cared about was what she wanted. The guilt alone has made me suicidal.
Trust me, walk away now and end her games. As you can see my choice has caused me nothing but heartache, even though I haven't been with her for about twenty six years. You don't deserve the damage her games will cause. Nobody deserves the damage I've suffered.
I'd assume she either got busy or isn't that interested. Some guy did this to me and I've been trying to figure out why. Maybe send her a nice text asking why she has left you on read?: (
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Its been 3 days now.. I stopped texting.. I know why likes someone else but she likes to chat with me as well.. well used too! Now not even blocking me...
I totally understand, it is not fair when people treat others like that. She should have been more fair, and not done what she did. I hope you find someone better and can get over her soon if you haven't yet!
Update:- It's hard for you to cut her loose because you enjoy playing those games as much as she does.. Your only REAL complaint is she's better at them than you are.
Ask yourself WHY is it hard.. It's hard because she's bruised your ego, and you can't leave her until you've made her taste her own medicine. Now maybe you can't see it, or maybe you think you are smitten by her, but don't make the mistake of thinking you love her because love is NOTHING at all like that, trust me. When you find the right girl, everything is natural and instead of fighting one another, all you want to do is make each other happy.
She's stringing you along while she tries to find someone that she thinks is a bigger better deal. Women have done this for decades. They'll use you so they won't be alone. That's why they claim to have male "friends". She's just using them.
Move on my friend. If she calls or text you somewhere down the road, do not respond and block her. There's someone better out there. Good luck.
So according to you if she blocked you that would be the only way for you to take a hint?
Wow but even when we block them we get called harsh, cold-hearted, mean-spirited bitches. So apparently anything women do when it comes to rejecting someone is wrong and it either means that they are playing games or they are vile.
There is no way of winning.
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Simply say not interested why play games n keep us hangin 🤦♂️
Wheres the "she's probably busy and has her own life" option? Its possibly any of the other three options but from personal experience, as someone with AuDHD, it can take me a minute to respond to someone even if I've seen the message. Sometimes I even think I responded and didn't, or just couldn't respond in the moment and kinda forgot about it.
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She's not busy.. coz we can see each other online.. she likes someone but also likes to keep me hangin.. on.. crazy girl!! Ain't that right?
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