Am I being ridiculous?

[Anonymous]

So a couple years back yes that long this I’ve had anxiety about I was. Puddling with a women but we were both drunk I remember the whole night but my anxiety brain is like what if u slept with her without protection. She messaged me after that saying I wish we would have and even after that I said so did we sleep together because I’m scared of being dry k and not remembering would there be any reason to lie to me I don’t think so. I think I just have very bad anxiety

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah dude, I don't think you're being ridiculous at all. That would freak me out too if I was in your situation. A few thoughts:

- Your anxiety is valid. Not remembering something like that is scary.

- There's no way for you to know for sure now unless she gave you more details.

- It seems she would have no reason to lie about it since it was so long ago.

- Chances are nothing happened or you'd remember more, but I get why the what if's get to you.

My advice would be try not to dwell on it. The past is the past and you can't change it now anyway. All you can do is take care of yourself going forward - get tested if you're really worried, but chances are you're all good. Might help talking it out with someone too, get an outside perspective. Don't let it consume you man. Easier said than done I know, but try to let it go. You'll drive yourself nuts otherwise!

[LiamJHayden]

Probably nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

I just would hate to think that could happen but I think I’d know if I blacked out right like I remember the whole night to my knowledge beacsue I was up all night due to my friend sick in the bathroom

[Asker]

I’d think that I don’t be able to take care of him and remember that if I was blackout. And I don’t see why she’d lie about having sex specially because before I asked her even she said I wish we would have. Pretty sure I just have extreme anxiety.