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Why do people think effort doesn’t matter in dating anymore?

Something I feel is lacking in dating and human society nowadays as a whole is respect. No one knows how to show others respect anymore and even more so people would rather play the victim card any chance they get and even worse are people who would play that card for others without the person even asking.

I feel like as guys we really get the short end of the stick when it comes to the treatment we get in dating doesn’t matter how much effort you put in you if they don’t like you they don’t care for you more often then not.

But something that makes me probably even more sick is some of these others dudes that hate on you for no reason or try to defend woman’s trash behavior you people are a large part of the problem. I made a similar post where I just mentioned this topic it wasn’t the focus. And most people agreed actual id say 99% even the girls.

Except this one idiot who tried to turn it into an argument of me saying woman need to like you cause you like them or put in a lot of effort. That’s not what I’m saying but I think the effort should be shown to be appreciated and guys should be treated with more respect for that.

I don’t think that’s unreasonable since we are doing a big chunk of the leg work and some girls treat you like shit for even trying in how they reject you. Some girls tend to use fear as a scapegoat goat for everything not to say that fear isn’t real but bro majority of guys aren’t these. Violent people who her gonna snap cause they got rejected but that’s how the vast majority of them paint us.

Yet they wanna be treated as these innocent princess when they have probably been ran through to by everyone satan included. That’s if some of them are even willing to talk to you being ignored when your trying to get someone’s attention is just rude no matter how you slice it the world doesn’t revolve around you have the common decency to hear someone out hell it could save your life.

“treat others how you’d wanna be treated.”
Why do people think effort doesn’t matter in dating anymore?
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