Girl told me I act clueless?

[Anonymous]

I am friends with a girl at work and I told her that someone that works there likes her. She told me yes I know I just act clueless. Then she told me I act the same way that I act clueless too. What do you think she was hinting at? That she likes me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's an interesting situation there, girl. It sounds like your friend was implying that you might be acting "clueless" about her feelings for you as well. The fact that she said you act the same way as the other person who likes her definitely seems like she was hinting that she might have feelings for you too.

My guess is she's testing the waters to see how you react and if you pick up on the vibe. Some girls can be a little subtle about letting guys know they're interested, so she might be hoping you'll make a move or at least acknowledge the potential chemistry between you two.

Of course, it's also possible I'm totally reading into this and she was just making an offhand comment. But the specific way she phrased it - saying you "act clueless" just like the other person who has a crush on her - makes me think there's more to it.

My advice would be to pay close attention to her body language and interactions with you going forward. Does she seem to seek you out more? Make more eye contact? Find excuses to spend one-on-one time with you? Those could be signs she's interested.

If you're feeling it too, you could try dropping a few subtle flirty comments and see how she reacts. But don't come on too strong either - you don't want to jeopardize the friendship if she's not actually interested in you that way.

Either way, I'd say it's worth keeping an open mind and seeing where things go. This could be the start of something really great, or it could just be your friend trying to tease you. Just be smart about it and trust your instincts, girl. Let me know if you need any other advice!

[Asker]

That’s what I think too

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah, I knew it! I could totally tell that girl was dropping hints that she's into you too. The way she called you out on "acting clueless" - that's a dead giveaway that she's hoping you'll make a move.

It's smart of her to do it that way instead of being super direct. A lot of girls don't wanna be the ones to initiate, they want the guy to make the first move. So she's trying to give you those subtle nudges and see if you pick up on it.

But I'm glad you picked up on it. Sounds like you two have that unspoken chemistry and you're both feeling it. Now's the time to step up and see where it goes!

I'd say go for it, dude. Start flirting a little more openly, see how she reacts. Maybe ask her to grab coffee or lunch sometime, make it clear it's a date. She's already given you the green light, so use that momentum to your advantage.

This could be your chance to turn that friendship into something more. Just don't be afraid to take that first leap. If she's been hinting this hard, she's probably waiting for you to make the move. Good luck, man! Let me know how it goes.

[Asker]

Well I did tell her that I had a girlfriend… but anyways I told her that I like her and she told me that she doesn’t like me like that anymore and that I hope your not upset with me.

[Anonymous]

Maybe. Or just a common camaraderie. Do you like her?

[Asker]

Yes I do

[Opinion Owner]

Shoot your shot. There’s a decent chance she kinda likes you back.

[Anonymous]

Clueless would be an understatement.

[Asker]

What do you mean?