How to tell if a woman is genuinely into you only through text message?

[Skillet21]

[Summeroflove]

Number one thing is to just simply ask… If she doesn’t give you a clear answer then the balls in her court if you’ve done everything to be direct assume she’s either not that interested or playing games. If she says no then take no as what it is more times then not she genuinely means it and if she doesn’t again she’s playing games. If she says yes then you probably got your answer.

The next thing is response times now you can’t expect someone to reply in five minutes and if you’re texting at times when you know she’s working or asleep if it’s not a genuine emergency or you have permission that’s rude. That could cause someone to not want to talk to you anymore. But if she’s responding quickly and not leaving you on read for days at a time.

Another thing is that if she’s not giving dry responses. If she’s keeping the conversation going asking open ended questions and not just saying. Yes…. No… Maybe so… As well as quickly ending conversations saying she’s busy. If it happens once in a while she may legitimately be busy. But if it’s happening all the time then assume she’s not interested.

If she is initiating text messages if shouldn’t be one sided effort. If you’re the only person imitating conversations either she’s simply not interested enough to do so herself. Or she’s one sided and just expects you to put all the effort in. Either way it’s not worth your time.

There is that exception to the rule if she’s not a big texter and some people aren’t. But things are going well everywhere else just ask her about it. But if you see her texting her friends all the time but being dry with you. Forget it.

[OneViewpoint]

Just text her... "Hey, are you really into me."

[dustybiker2]

You can't. Trust still supersedes modern technology. And hurt still feels just as bad as before it.

[Ariesman81]

Quick response time. Double texting. Long responses.

[In_Trance]

Ask her