Should I listen to my bestie?

[AfroSavannah]

My boyfriend just bought me a box of sanitary pads and a suction cup but my bestie said I should return it, should I?

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She had no problem when he was buying me underwear and stuff and we do share and exchange undies but she didn't say nothing even though she was being skeptical but to her this was the limit

[Anonymous]

The fact you share panties says a lot, you don’t know how to think for yourself anymore.

[AfroSavannah]

I'm not relating 😭😭😭

[Opinion Owner]

Sharing panties shows an odd level of closeness, I could see you being codependent of each other and highly influenced by what the other says or does. One of you is likely more assertive and in charge while the other is more keep to follow or listen. You seem like you listen to what she says a lot and thinking for yourself is to hard. If you thought for yourself you’d never let her dictate what you decide to do in your relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

**keen not keep

[AfroSavannah]

Well, she's my mummy 😂😂😂, I like her style of doing things and her personality
But that doesn't mean I don't think for myself but I just let her do the thinking most of the time

[Opinion Owner]

You just let her do the thinking most of the time lol same thing. And this is your mom? Not a friend? Yikes.

[AfroSavannah]

She's not my mum
I call her mummy
She's my bestie

[Opinion Owner]

Weird.

[AfroSavannah]

Oh c'mon!

[Opinion Owner]

Savannah, that is very odd for two straight women who are meant to be friends. There’s no good reason to share panties.

[EmmaMary]

What an extremely strange gift... Was there any particular reason why he did this?

[AfroSavannah]

We're in a country where the economic situation is terrible so he believes it'll cut me lot of cost and he plans on going on month in month out
I'm confused but grateful though but my girl doesn't think so

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.