Why are women so loaded with indirect or hidden messages?

[foxsquirrell]

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You lacking awareness to the obvious intricacies of social interaction does not mean it’s “hidden” when they’re talking to you. They’re just aware of manners that you aren’t

[foxsquirrell]

Obvious intricacies? Are these explicit acts of communications, or hidden and indirect? And even if I am unaware of them it does not mean that they are not hidden and indirect. But you always want to turn things against me that's what. Or you are trying to show us all how good you are at seeing things differently? I am not impressed because when you are trying to negate a fact that's not seeing things differently, it is negating reality, the truth!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You sound very certain so I guess trying to show you would be a pointless endeavor

[foxsquirrell]

As if. lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So you don’t believe that I would purposely direct the conversation in the name of hurting you?

[foxsquirrell]

More like irritating me dear. I'm sure you can come up with something twisted as per usual. But this time round you sort of emulated my tactic by saying that you are not going to tell me anything because it is pointless! Exactly what I told you on some other question. And you know what they say, coping someone is the best compliment you can give that someone. lol
Why don't you try and state your views in a more neutral tone if indeed you have a different view instead of trying to pick a fight with me all the time by launching some crap attack on me which makes sense only to you? lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You and I both know you have misogynist vibes and it’s a huge chunk of the reason why you got divorced. Naturally I’m going to be combative to someone who disagrees with what I do

[foxsquirrell]

What the hell are you talking about? Divorced? I was never married!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Really? At 40?

[foxsquirrell]

Yep. I tried to show interest on 2 or 3 occasions. But all I got in return each and every time was the most horrible and character changing pain.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

No wonder

[foxsquirrell]

You blame me? Am I not only defending myself at the end of the day? Who wants to go through painful experiences. You should have said something to show your understanding instead of saying no wonder!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I should have? Why? We obviously don’t like each other. I have no desire to be your friend after you’ve been nothing but condescending throughout this entire interaction.

[foxsquirrell]

You're the one who starts the fight all the fucken time. Yes, it was another opportunity for you to start a new page. But no, you want to continue as per usual. I don't want to be your friend either, but I don't necessarily want to be at war either. After all I just asked a question which did not require to put me directly in your answer. But you chose to involve me. And then you expect that I don't react? You are starting the trouble all the time.

[RavVid]

Goes right back to the earliest tribal days. It just wasn't advantageous for women to have fights because the other women might not help them in child birth. Intra-sex competition amognst females is social but to less than the point it might become physical.

So implying another girl is a slut and is doing all the guys without actually saying so was better.

[DCVsMarvel2]

women are told they're not supposed to be direct with how they feel

they also fear rejection, more than men do, at least sexually

[OneViewpoint]

Because women are also loaded with insecurities and fear of accountability. If you never actually say anything you maintain plausible deniability. Gotta keep those options only.

[Abdulw]

Women regardless of there looks being average or very beautiful will tend to have more guys going for them compared to the average man that's just how it is.

[foxsquirrell]

That is true but how is that related to my question?

[Abdulw]

Define indirect or hidden messages are you leaning why do guys send them so much hidden messages or why are women not direct in their language?

[Vegasrunner]

They can't fight and don't understand thr concept of violence it's easier for them to disguise their messages vs facing conflict.

[foxsquirrell]

fair enough

[Aiko_E_Lara]

To give them an excuse to call anyone insensitive assholes or just jerks for "not understanding" because it makes them feel more valuable.

[Zylos]

They are testing you.

[UniquelyBasic]

Women sure are a mystery 🤔

[CherryLove007]

I am saying this lightheartedly... we are only a mystery because men exist. The mystery is in the history of the female.

[DrPepper12]

What he asked!

[Chrissywakeup]

To avoid conflict maybay

[anon1903]

Context?

[foxsquirrell]

Could be a casual conversation, could be a dialogue between girlfriend and boyfriend. In general basically. You want me to give you an example?

[anon1903]

Yes, example please

[foxsquirrell]

I really can't think of one right now. In particular I can't think of the example which made me post this question in the first place. But If I remember of an example I will reply.

[anon1903]

All right