It's definitely not very well received. Let me put it this way; it's not a conversation you should ever start. I wouldn't ask the question at all, unless you are in at least one (but preferably more) of these circumstances: Your own health and weight are freakin impeccably dialed in. She asks you to talk about your own weight loss strategies. She states her own weight loss goal. She brings up the subject of weight on her own and expresses concern about her ability to meet some objective standard, like a weigh-in for a sporting event. You've known her for a while and seen her weight blow up

Not really but generally you can estimate it without too much trouble.

yeah and I have a doctor that always needs to know this info in my chart ahaha he is sooo nosy. :) :) :) whats the reason we need to ask asker?

Yes, of course. This is extremely rude. And what would even be the reason for asking? Why is this important information to know?

I think it’s a bit rude and nosy to ask anyone their weight.

in my opinion it's not any more insulting then asking a guy the same question. It seems to be open season that way.

I do not think it's an insult but the way you ask it can be the difference and your closeness to the person also matters

It's simple, if you have no real need to know someone's weight or there's a good chance they might be unhappy with theirs, just don't ask and you'll be fine. Doesn't matter who it is.

If it's not an insult to ask a man about his weight, then it isn't an insult to ask a woman about her weight. It's just a number. Physically, they can see if you are fat or not, so it's not exactly private.

Not at all. Ask as many as possible. In groups is even better.

Something you shouldn’t ask period, unless they ask you first. It can easily be taken the wrong way and considered inappropriate.

@halil-y its not insult to me, but not everyone feels same

@halil-y Well, I WOULD ask her but only if she were getting ready to take up residence, sitting on my face, for the next hour!!!

Depends on the woman and her self-confidence. Thanks for another set of interesting pictures.

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ProbablyClueless Follow
Guru Age: 33

10 mo
514 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
It's definitely not very well received.
Let me put it this way; it's not a conversation you should ever start. I wouldn't ask the question at all, unless you are in at least one (but preferably more) of these circumstances:
- Your own health and weight are freakin impeccably dialed in.
- She asks you to talk about your own weight loss strategies.
- She states her own weight loss goal.
- She brings up the subject of weight on her own and expresses concern about her ability to meet some objective standard, like a weigh-in for a sporting event.
- You've known her for a while and seen her weight blow up
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Shiprex Follow
Guru Age: 55

10 mo

Not really but generally you can estimate it without too much trouble.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  A woman I've never seen before
  
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- Shiprex
  
  10 mo
  It's the same as women expecting men to tell the truth about being 6'4" and athletic.
  
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CherryLove007 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 54 , mho 41%

10 mo

yeah and I have a doctor that always needs to know this info in my chart ahaha he is sooo nosy. :) :) :)
whats the reason we need to ask asker?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I'm not actually curious, I asked in the conversation 😇
  
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Flower7 Follow
Master Age: 40 , mho 45%

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860 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yes, of course. This is extremely rude. And what would even be the reason for asking? Why is this important information to know?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  in terms of health
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I'm on a diet and I need to lose weight, she said.
  
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- Flower7
  
  10 mo
  So you asked her weight in response to her making comments about yours?
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  It's not my weight, I asked her weight.
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  Isn't it normal to ask a woman who is on a diet how much she weighs?
  
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- Flower7
  
  10 mo
  You should never ask a woman her weight, for any reason.
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  interesting very strange
  
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whereismyjohnny Follow
Guru Age: 23 , mho 32%

10 mo

I think it’s a bit rude and nosy to ask anyone their weight.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  Would it be rude if I asked you how much you weigh now?
  
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- OneViewpoint
  
  10 mo
  So you fat then?
  
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douride2 Follow
Master Age: 49

10 mo
1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

in my opinion it's not any more insulting then asking a guy the same question. It seems to be open season that way.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I think it's normal
  
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ErebusD Follow
Xper 4 Age: 29

10 mo

I do not think it's an insult but the way you ask it can be the difference and your closeness to the person also matters

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  a very logical explanation
  
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- ErebusD
  
  10 mo
  Thank you, I do believe that the world today is extremely sensitive about issues that can be handled with dignity
  
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lilBigPotato Follow
Guru Age: 21

10 mo

It's simple, if you have no real need to know someone's weight or there's a good chance they might be unhappy with theirs, just don't ask and you'll be fine. Doesn't matter who it is.

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Xper 5 Age: 35

10 mo

If it's not an insult to ask a man about his weight, then it isn't an insult to ask a woman about her weight. It's just a number. Physically, they can see if you are fat or not, so it's not exactly private.

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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

10 mo

Not at all. Ask as many as possible. In groups is even better.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  👻👻
Finchie40 Follow
Master Age: 48 , mho 38%

10 mo
604 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Something you shouldn’t ask period, unless they ask you first. It can easily be taken the wrong way and considered inappropriate.

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Kelly6 Follow
Master Age: 42

10 mo
792 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

@halil-y its not insult to me, but not everyone feels same

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  It feels like an insult to overweight women.
  
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- Kelly6
  
  10 mo
  @halil-y
  That I will agree
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  Thank you, you are great
  
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Bricealan Follow
Master Age: 46

10 mo

@halil-y Well, I WOULD ask her but only if she were getting ready to take up residence, sitting on my face, for the next hour!!!

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AviatorTom Follow
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10 mo
838 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Depends on the woman and her self-confidence.
Thanks for another set of interesting pictures.

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10 mo
792 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

I don't know if it's an "insult" per se, but it's still inappropriate.

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Stevepro68 Follow
Explorer Age: 55 , mho 40%

10 mo

No but I do like to offer my face frequently as a measurement scale.

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Miristheiss Follow
Master Age: 35

10 mo
558 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

If they bring up your height in any way then you are free to proceed with weight questions.

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slatyb Follow
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10 mo
3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

It's just rude. Why would you ever? Anyway, it's not that hard to make a close estimate.

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Anonymous
(36-45)

10 mo

Unless you are a health professional, why do you need to know anyone's weight? I've never met anyone on earth who looked at someone and were confused as to whether they considered them skinny, average, or overweight.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I don't see you, how can I find out your weight?
  
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Alex-Snow Follow
Master Age: 21

10 mo

I don't think it is an insult but it is not usually appropriate.

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Light_beam Follow
Yoda Age: 33

10 mo

Only if it is an issue to her.. like being fat or ex fat... women are crazy and expect us to care about their craziness !!

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beefcakebradybatson Follow
Guru Age: 73

10 mo
463 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yes, but most are chubbettes so you don't need to ask their weight, just watch these porkerettes waddle down the street !!!

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chrissykerdock Follow
Master Age: 40 , mho 50%

10 mo
322 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

not a good idea

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I think it's very normal
  
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- chrissykerdock
  
  10 mo
  not for a girl
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  It doesn't matter to me
  
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- chrissykerdock
  
  10 mo
  a man is different a girl would feel rejected
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I don't know, maybe you're right.
  
  Reply
Cormac995 Follow
Explorer Age: 30 , mho 42%

10 mo

Is it an insult to ask a man his height?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  no it is not
  
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- Cormac995
  
  10 mo
  then neither is it to ask a womans weight.
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

10 mo

well why exactly do you need to know anyones weight, tho?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  We chat on Facebook, no profile picture
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  She says no I don't want to say..
  I think this woman is too fat..
- Opinion Owner
  
  10 mo
  you do know that skinny people can be secretive about their weight too, right? just move on if you don't want to talk to her.
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I don't know, maybe you're right, how much do you weigh?
Bestgirlme Follow
Xper 1 Age: 20

10 mo

I feel embarrassed when someone ask about my weight

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avery58 Follow
Guru Age: 27 , mho 44%

10 mo

Only if she's visibly chubby/fat I guess.

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TrimmedTip Follow
Xper 6 Age: 27 , mho 40%

10 mo

Depends how close you are to her.

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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

10 mo

I don't think it serves any purpose.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  It's good to ask if necessary
- Opinion Owner
  
  10 mo
  Necessary because?
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  You met someone online, you've never met him/her before, you might have questions about his/her height and weight.
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  no profile picture
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  For example, you are a woman and I am writing to you.
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  How much do you weigh and how tall are you?
Jennz6 Follow
Master Age: 37

10 mo

Don’t ask

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- Jennz6
  
  10 mo
  @halil-y
  Women don’t like to be asked about our weight
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I'm asking in my own country
  
  Reply
LiamJHayden Follow
Master Age: 31

10 mo
1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

It is unwise and pointless.

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RedInnocent69 Follow
Guru Age: 50

10 mo

It’s cultural, but generally, yes

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In_Trance Follow
Master Age: 28

10 mo
5.2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Depends on the context you phrase the question in

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy Follow
Master Age: 40

10 mo
1.4K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

I don't think so but most women don't like it.

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- Angelabrooks
  
  10 mo
  Send me dm
  
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Anonymous
(36-45)

10 mo

Depends on the woman, it can be.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

10 mo

it could be

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  Hey woman! Where do you live?
  
  Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  10 mo
  In India
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  Why do you burn the bodies?
  
  Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  10 mo
  Yes, I will burn your body too.
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I'm already burning
  
  Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  10 mo
  You can burn
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  I don't understand
  
  Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  10 mo
  I don't understand you either
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  never mind then
  
  Reply
Elena_adobra Follow
Xper 1 Age: 18

10 mo

Nah i know im fat

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  10 mo
  how many kilos are you?
  
  Reply
- Elena_adobra
  
  10 mo
  130kg
  
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