It's definitely not very well received. Let me put it this way; it's not a conversation you should ever start. I wouldn't ask the question at all, unless you are in at least one (but preferably more) of these circumstances: Your own health and weight are freakin impeccably dialed in. She asks you to talk about your own weight loss strategies. She states her own weight loss goal. She brings up the subject of weight on her own and expresses concern about her ability to meet some objective standard, like a weigh-in for a sporting event. You've known her for a while and seen her weight blow up

Not really but generally you can estimate it without too much trouble.

yeah and I have a doctor that always needs to know this info in my chart ahaha he is sooo nosy. :) :) :) whats the reason we need to ask asker?

Yes, of course. This is extremely rude. And what would even be the reason for asking? Why is this important information to know?

I think it’s a bit rude and nosy to ask anyone their weight.

in my opinion it's not any more insulting then asking a guy the same question. It seems to be open season that way.

I do not think it's an insult but the way you ask it can be the difference and your closeness to the person also matters

It's simple, if you have no real need to know someone's weight or there's a good chance they might be unhappy with theirs, just don't ask and you'll be fine. Doesn't matter who it is.

If it's not an insult to ask a man about his weight, then it isn't an insult to ask a woman about her weight. It's just a number. Physically, they can see if you are fat or not, so it's not exactly private.

Not at all. Ask as many as possible. In groups is even better.

Something you shouldn’t ask period, unless they ask you first. It can easily be taken the wrong way and considered inappropriate.

@halil-y its not insult to me, but not everyone feels same

@halil-y Well, I WOULD ask her but only if she were getting ready to take up residence, sitting on my face, for the next hour!!!

Depends on the woman and her self-confidence. Thanks for another set of interesting pictures.

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ProbablyClueless Follow
Guru Age: 33

9 mo
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It's definitely not very well received.
Let me put it this way; it's not a conversation you should ever start. I wouldn't ask the question at all, unless you are in at least one (but preferably more) of these circumstances:
- Your own health and weight are freakin impeccably dialed in.
- She asks you to talk about your own weight loss strategies.
- She states her own weight loss goal.
- She brings up the subject of weight on her own and expresses concern about her ability to meet some objective standard, like a weigh-in for a sporting event.
- You've known her for a while and seen her weight blow up
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Shiprex Follow
Guru Age: 55

9 mo

Not really but generally you can estimate it without too much trouble.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  A woman I've never seen before
  
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- Shiprex
  
  9 mo
  It's the same as women expecting men to tell the truth about being 6'4" and athletic.
  
  Reply

CherryLove007 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 54 , mho 40%

9 mo

yeah and I have a doctor that always needs to know this info in my chart ahaha he is sooo nosy. :) :) :)
whats the reason we need to ask asker?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I'm not actually curious, I asked in the conversation 😇
  
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Flower7 Follow
Master Age: 40 , mho 45%

9 mo
858 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yes, of course. This is extremely rude. And what would even be the reason for asking? Why is this important information to know?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  in terms of health
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I'm on a diet and I need to lose weight, she said.
  
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- Flower7
  
  9 mo
  So you asked her weight in response to her making comments about yours?
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  It's not my weight, I asked her weight.
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  Isn't it normal to ask a woman who is on a diet how much she weighs?
  
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- Flower7
  
  9 mo
  You should never ask a woman her weight, for any reason.
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  interesting very strange
  
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whereismyjohnny Follow
Guru Age: 23 , mho 32%

9 mo

I think it’s a bit rude and nosy to ask anyone their weight.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  Would it be rude if I asked you how much you weigh now?
  
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- OneViewpoint
  
  9 mo
  So you fat then?
  
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douride2 Follow
Master Age: 48

9 mo
1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

in my opinion it's not any more insulting then asking a guy the same question. It seems to be open season that way.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I think it's normal
  
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ErebusD Follow
Xper 4 Age: 29

9 mo

I do not think it's an insult but the way you ask it can be the difference and your closeness to the person also matters

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  a very logical explanation
  
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- ErebusD
  
  9 mo
  Thank you, I do believe that the world today is extremely sensitive about issues that can be handled with dignity
  
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lilBigPotato Follow
Guru Age: 20

9 mo

It's simple, if you have no real need to know someone's weight or there's a good chance they might be unhappy with theirs, just don't ask and you'll be fine. Doesn't matter who it is.

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WhiteThought Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

9 mo

If it's not an insult to ask a man about his weight, then it isn't an insult to ask a woman about her weight. It's just a number. Physically, they can see if you are fat or not, so it's not exactly private.

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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

9 mo

Not at all. Ask as many as possible. In groups is even better.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  👻👻
Finchie40 Follow
Master Age: 48 , mho 38%

9 mo
597 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Something you shouldn’t ask period, unless they ask you first. It can easily be taken the wrong way and considered inappropriate.

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Kelly6 Follow
Master Age: 42

9 mo
786 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

@halil-y its not insult to me, but not everyone feels same

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  It feels like an insult to overweight women.
  
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- Kelly6
  
  9 mo
  @halil-y
  That I will agree
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  Thank you, you are great
  
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Bricealan Follow
Master Age: 45

9 mo

@halil-y Well, I WOULD ask her but only if she were getting ready to take up residence, sitting on my face, for the next hour!!!

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AviatorTom Follow
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9 mo
832 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Depends on the woman and her self-confidence.
Thanks for another set of interesting pictures.

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BCRanger10 Follow
Master Age: 38 , mho 34%

9 mo
792 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

I don't know if it's an "insult" per se, but it's still inappropriate.

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Stevepro68 Follow
Explorer Age: 55 , mho 40%

9 mo

No but I do like to offer my face frequently as a measurement scale.

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Miristheiss Follow
Master Age: 35

9 mo
558 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

If they bring up your height in any way then you are free to proceed with weight questions.

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slatyb Follow
Master Age: 52

9 mo
3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

It's just rude. Why would you ever? Anyway, it's not that hard to make a close estimate.

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Anonymous
(36-45)

9 mo

Unless you are a health professional, why do you need to know anyone's weight? I've never met anyone on earth who looked at someone and were confused as to whether they considered them skinny, average, or overweight.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I don't see you, how can I find out your weight?
  
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Alex-Snow Follow
Guru Age: 21

9 mo

I don't think it is an insult but it is not usually appropriate.

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Light_beam Follow
Yoda Age: 33

9 mo

Only if it is an issue to her.. like being fat or ex fat... women are crazy and expect us to care about their craziness !!

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beefcakebradybatson Follow
Guru Age: 72

9 mo
461 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yes, but most are chubbettes so you don't need to ask their weight, just watch these porkerettes waddle down the street !!!

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chrissykerdock Follow
Master Age: 40 , mho 50%

9 mo
322 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

not a good idea

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I think it's very normal
  
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- chrissykerdock
  
  9 mo
  not for a girl
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  It doesn't matter to me
  
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- chrissykerdock
  
  9 mo
  a man is different a girl would feel rejected
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I don't know, maybe you're right.
  
  Reply
Cormac995 Follow
Explorer Age: 30 , mho 42%

9 mo

Is it an insult to ask a man his height?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  no it is not
  
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- Cormac995
  
  9 mo
  then neither is it to ask a womans weight.
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

9 mo

well why exactly do you need to know anyones weight, tho?

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  We chat on Facebook, no profile picture
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  She says no I don't want to say..
  I think this woman is too fat..
- Opinion Owner
  
  9 mo
  you do know that skinny people can be secretive about their weight too, right? just move on if you don't want to talk to her.
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I don't know, maybe you're right, how much do you weigh?
Bestgirlme Follow
Xper 1 Age: 20

9 mo

I feel embarrassed when someone ask about my weight

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avery58 Follow
Guru Age: 27 , mho 44%

9 mo

Only if she's visibly chubby/fat I guess.

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TrimmedTip Follow
Xper 6 Age: 26 , mho 40%

9 mo

Depends how close you are to her.

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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

9 mo

I don't think it serves any purpose.

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  It's good to ask if necessary
- Opinion Owner
  
  9 mo
  Necessary because?
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  You met someone online, you've never met him/her before, you might have questions about his/her height and weight.
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  no profile picture
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  For example, you are a woman and I am writing to you.
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  How much do you weigh and how tall are you?
Jennz6 Follow
Master Age: 37

9 mo

Don’t ask

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- Jennz6
  
  9 mo
  @halil-y
  Women don’t like to be asked about our weight
  
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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I'm asking in my own country
  
  Reply
LiamJHayden Follow
Master Age: 30

9 mo
1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

It is unwise and pointless.

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RedInnocent69 Follow
Guru Age: 50

9 mo

It’s cultural, but generally, yes

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In_Trance Follow
Master Age: 27

9 mo
5.2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Depends on the context you phrase the question in

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy Follow
Master Age: 40

9 mo
1.4K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

I don't think so but most women don't like it.

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- Angelabrooks
  
  9 mo
  Send me dm
  
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Anonymous
(36-45)

9 mo

Depends on the woman, it can be.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

9 mo

it could be

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  Hey woman! Where do you live?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  9 mo
  In India
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  Why do you burn the bodies?
  
  Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  9 mo
  Yes, I will burn your body too.
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I'm already burning
  
  Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  9 mo
  You can burn
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  I don't understand
  
  Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  9 mo
  I don't understand you either
  
  Reply
- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  never mind then
  
  Reply
Elena_adobra Follow
Xper 1 Age: 18

9 mo

Nah i know im fat

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- HДLILБΞУ
  
  9 mo
  how many kilos are you?
  
  Reply
- Elena_adobra
  
  9 mo
  130kg
  
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