Unless it's your doctor, inappropriate. What, it's an opening line for a conversation? No. Is it a perverse need to know? Probably.
There may be circumstances where it's ok. In a conversation where you're discussing your weight contributes something meaningful. I doubt that's why you're asking. And, you'd certainly recognize an acceptable context.
Follow stupid question with stupid question: Did it hurt when your mother dropped you on your head?
I've never really been asked that. But I'd say, "more than you think". I'm 6'5" and gangly looking so even though I'm actually overweight (250 lbs.) people guess me as weighing less than I am.
I would assume they were just being polite. But last time I was at the amusement park the weight guesser (who was very good at guessing people's weight) guessed me at 190lbs. Man I haven't weighed under 200 since high school lol.
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No offense but I'd like to know how you weigh as well cause your body type is like curvy but thickish and it's always been my favorite body type if you know the name of your body types, that works too, so perhaps he wasn't being rude tho and just likes the body type as well, but tbh perhaps I'm just weird, you should confront him on it
Well I'll put it like this.
Depending on how the guy acts, it might be also a compliment.
I'm not sure about your body measures. But if I believe that pic, it might be that you "might" have a slightly smaller body than the average western women.
Now comes the thing. If you ran into a guy who is attracted to smaller body times, he might be curious about how easily he can pick you up and do all kind of kinky stuff.
But hey, I'm not saying it is a good behaviour. I'm just saying it "could" also have an unintended compliment in there somewhere.
But it all depends if the guy asks while drooling all over you, or not.
I would answer with how much do you weigh? And when they answer just say okay. Lol. If they ask again say, why do you want to know? And when they answer say ok again. Then change the topic really smooth. I don't know why anyone would ask that. Lol. Weirrrrd.
I'd just give a sidelong look and say "More than you could lift", but that's me. There are some attributes you can have that will make people ask inappropriate questions, sometimes pretty much constantly. If you don't believe me, ask any guy who's ever gone out wearing a kilt.
The way to deal with THAT situation is to have ready a series of witty rejoinders; questions about weight probably warrant the same.
If it's towards a women. NO ONE HAS THAT RIGHT TO ASK. I hate that people think they can ask that. With family and relatives they always make stupid comments.. so you need thick skin. Ignore it... or if you have the balls lol.. ask them what happened to you lol
With the truth.
If I was "sensitive" about my weight, I'd go on keto and lose 30 pounds again, as I did.
Instead of remaining "sensitive" about an issue I refuse to do anything about.
Nothing wrong with that question
The problem is most of you are lazy and out of shape. While you catfish with poses and certain clothing to lool more fit.
Problem is with you exposing yourself.
Either be comfortable in how you choose to look or do something about it.
Usually just tell them a number cause I'm not sensitive about my weight. I'm a little chubby and everyone else can see that so sharing the number isn't a big deal.
I usually either give a pretty vague answer or I just simply state I don't know how much I weight or I literally don't answer the question because not unless you isn't my doctor it definitely not your concern.
i wonder if its a malaysia thing cause its definitely rude to ask that of women here.
I would give them the number I dont care if they would make fun of it or would be happy to know how fit I am that part won't bother me at all
I am 70 by the way I am fit not fat
No man who knows ANYTHING about women knows you NEVER ask a woman how much she weighs unless you're married and have to fill out some kind of medical form.
u I respond with a round number... 200 pounds (or 90 kilos)
Tell them. If that makes them like you as a person less then they are shallow. If it is a date then that is different. That person wants to know what they are signing up for.
Good question. It’s like they’re trying to compare sometimes
If it's a guy it's because he's hinting to you that he wants you to sit on his face.
Girls are just jealous bitches.
Like 200 something now I’m trying to maintain this weight while adding muscle it’s super hard I had to start taking nitric oxide supplements and melatonin so I’ll get enough rest
52 kg. I don't care answering it, I didn't care even when I was 42 kg, I didn't care when I was 65 kg.
Who the fuck asks that? My weight is one of the very very few things I hate talking about.
people often ask out of curiosity i think, i don't think there is much else to it. but i usually just respond with my actual weight, idrc if they ask.
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