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I’ve told this girl in the past that I liked her, but I’ve mostly been passive and supportive.
One night, she texted me late. The conversation was casual, and when I asked why she reached out, she said, “I was thinking about you.”
I didn’t escalate the conversation or suggest hanging out.
We weren’t talking every day, and most of our interactions had been friendly.
I’m trying to understand her intent: was she testing the waters, or just being friendly?
One night, she texted me late. The conversation was casual, and when I asked why she reached out, she said, “I was thinking about you.”
I didn’t escalate the conversation or suggest hanging out.
We weren’t talking every day, and most of our interactions had been friendly.
I’m trying to understand her intent: was she testing the waters, or just being friendly?
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Has she sent this?
@HollyK21
Not at all
Hahahhah😂😂 for him to be like not at all makes this even funnier
Clearly the case.
What are y'all getting at?
That’s the telltale sign she wants you, bud.
Abby … Not even a road map is going to help I fear….
Did y'all read the details in the bio? It explains more about the situation
@MannMitAntworten I gotta get some volumizer. I swear I might be able to pass for her.
![A girl I liked texted me “I was thinking about you. ” We weren’t talking every day. Testing the waters or just friendly?]()
You got my attention :-p
@asker to me, she’s testing the waters
@MannMitAntworten
Might have to go to ulta and get a pound of makeup
Holy! That is a lot of war paint.
@MannMitAntworten just look at her eyes in the second pic. I’ve never gone through that much to date, much less one time XD
@abbycado why wouldn't it be platonic? If she was serious she would have suggested plans
@asker, not necessarily. Like a lot of girls, she might be dripping the hint so you do it.
I remember the heavy shadow trend a number of years back. I even watched it applied. I was surprised how little went a long way.
I didn't know how to interpret the moment if she mostly only saw me as a friend
@asker I don’t tell friends that I’m thinking of them. I took a poll of the three girls I live with. Poll is unanimous.
@MannMitAntworten I know, I know. I was being coy about it because to me, that’s some heavy makeup.
I gotta solve the hair volume problem.
Abby … I seem to recall a thing called a, “blow out”. Hair related.
Yep, Brazilian blowout. Eeeeeexpensive
This conversation is hilarious😂😂 side note though, I’m not sure what the point is of the OG post. Asker says “one night”, like how long ago was all this? Because at this point it may not matter how he would’ve handled it in hindsight, he still fumbled and has let X amount of time pass without making a move.
I only know of the other “Brazilian”. Ex went and did it for my ‘pleasure’. Oh yeah!
Total fumble.
You can say I fumbled but there was no certainty she was even interested
We are telling you that girls don’t randomly tell guys we are thinking of them without a motive.
Are you really that afraid of rejection? Like yeah it would suck but it’s not going to break you apart and if you think it would then you’ve got some serious self esteem issues to address. Making a move on someone will always come with a risk, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try at all.
I understand but it's not the same as her texting me first with that. I asked her what made you text me and then she said I was thinking about you. Wouldn't that make it less genuine?
Exactly Abby! On top of that, a lot of women are still traditional-minded and expect men to make the first move. Of course you have those of us who don’t mind saying something first, but more often than not the woman is waiting for you to do or say something.
The map isn’t helping.
The timing and/or circumstances doesn’t always make the sentiment any less genuine. Despite all that though, even if you weren’t sure about her feelings you can absolutely account for your own and you know you like her. So why haven’t you tried asking her out or being intentional with your efforts towards her? All of us here are in agreement that she was interested when she texted you that night, so what will you do with this feedback? Continue on with doing nothing?
Abby - You’re killing me Smalls
Goon one with Kermit. :-p
LOL literally Abby! Like do I have to spell it out?😭💀
She wants your babies.
You don't think that is jumping way ahead?
Not remotely.
Why not?
She is thinking of baby names as I type.
Maybe she likes you.
Why would that mean that?
Well, she was thinking about you.
I see but that could be platonic right?
Of course, it's possible.