Why are bra sizes such a personal secret?

[Anonymous]

I love bras and do wonder what bra size is being worn, but never ask, because the social norms are strongly opposed to this question being asked.

[jazzy34]

Unless you’re my significant other, my bra size is none of your damn business. Simple.

[Asker]

Is this your opinion as to why generally all women keep only this size a secret?
Or is this answer just your personal choice?
If it’s your personal choice, then at which point in your relationship do you think women would share her bra size with her friend, boyfriend, fiancé, or husband?

[Nikki1989]

Because it is a juvenile and creepy question to ask.

[Asker]

I don’t think so. I think it’s because they are selfish suicidal strong independent gaslighting narcissists.

Why then do women practically reveal everything else about themselves, even practically dress in such a way flaunting their A+ treasure chest in public, wear sexually revealing clothing, practically bringing attention to their sexuality to catch the attention of guys, then call the guys they attract as being juvenile and creepy?

Why is it also when they are clearly wearing an unsupportive bra or a wrong bra size?

Why do women seem to be so preoccupied with their bra size as being their sexual identity with the statistical fact that 80% of women are wearing the incorrect size or are clueless about their bra?

It is my opinion that women have so sexually identified themselves to a particular bra size, flaunt their sexuality in public before guys, then they call the guys they intentionally attracted as juvenile, creeps, even perverts; and then wonder where all the good men are they don’t attract? Then when they see a good man, they expect the good man to be a mindreader of their attraction to the good man.

You women have so sexualized your flaunted sexual femininity in guys faces attracting juveniles, creeps, and perverts to cast a blanket statement on all the innocent good men, pushing the good men away and only attracting those guys.

You have sexualized yourselves and your bra size identity so much to the point that even statistically women have a greater chance to die from a CPR/AED preventable death because the good men are afraid of making you topless, saving your life, and then being sued and their reputation and character obliterated by being called a juvenile, creep, pervert, or even being accused of being a sexual assailant.

[Asker]

In short, a female co-worker referenced her shopping for bras with my mixed work group. While I conversed with her sharing my love and interest in bras, including my collecting of my favorite alphanumeric bra size (etc.). She claimed to understand my perspective on things. (She didn’t even know what sister sizing was.) (Also my mom has no clue about bras.)

I’ve even reached out to a local women’s shelter about donating collected bras. They acknowledged that bras are the least donated womenswear they receive. I referenced this with my female co-worker, and she voluntarily offered to search her home for bras she doesn’t wear and give them to me to donate. She referenced how she did mind me knowing her bra size. She even shared about which cup sizes she goes back and forth between.

I shared with an online marketplace my love for collecting bras and how that I would be donating at least one of her lot of 8 bras to this local women’s shelter. In short she noted how she’d check with her sister and around her house for more bras in case I’d be interested.

I committed with my fellow female co-worker why the stereotype is that women keep their (real or fake) bra size such a personal secret. She noted how she didn’t even know why.

Of other women I’ve expressed my respect and honor towards women as fellow human beings and as treasure chests, butterflies, and roses not to be played with or abused, but treasured and cared for, and that though I have a favorite alphanumeric bra size (etc.) and don’t care what bra size any woman wears and not understanding why women keep their size such a personal secret, these various women I’ve respectfully conversed with (only acquaintances, not a friend, close friend, or anything more) have voluntarily referenced their bra size. I’ve asked these women why they shared their bra sizes with me. They referenced how they felt safe doing so.

[Agape93]

Because guys Google what the size looks like and start sexualizing it

[Asker]

Are you saying because the guy sexualize her bra size (when her bra size changes over her lifetime)?
It’s not because society has sexualized women and made women to identify with a particular size?
If it’s because guys sexualize the bra size, then why do women seem flaunt their feminine blessing in public, already sexualizing themselves in public so guys would see their feminine sexuality?

[Agape93]

Pretty sure I was clear.

[Asker]

Yes, you’re claiming guys sexually objectify a woman’s bra size, but then why do women seem flaunt their feminine blessing in public, already sexualizing their femininity themselves in public so guys would see their feminine sexuality?

I’m a Biblical Conservative Christian guy who does find the modest A+ feminine treasure box curvature attractive. I believe all modest women to be princess daughters of the King. I also love bras as architectural works of art and for liberating women from corsets and saving steel for the war effort to end the war in Europe. Yes, I have a favorite alphanumeric bra size solely based on the (US) number and the numerical difference determining the cup size. (Accordingly with my favorite alphanumeric bra size, I like all of it’s sister sizes and bras with the same band numeric value and same cup letter.) I personally don’t care what any woman’s bra size is. I don’t believe a woman’s bra size to be her sexual identity (as this secrecy seems to indicate that most women believe is their identity, even for the statistic that 80% of women wear the incorrect size or are clueless of their actual size).

Though I find a modest woman’s A+ feminine blessed curvature attractive no matter how much clothing covers her treasure chest, I don’t find their immodest flaunting of her sexually attractive or beautiful, but sexually degrading and no different than what probably happens in strip clubs and what female sex slaves are forced to do when sex trafficked.

I don’t care how much topside clothing a modest female women wears over her treasure chest; I don’t sexually objectify them, but see them as fellow human beings, not toyed or abused, but as strong butterflies & roses equally deserving of love, honor, respect, defense, and protection.

I’d love to see when the western secular world no longer sexualizes a woman’s blessings and they no longer sexualize her size.

Women seem to sexually objectify her bra size, but then claim guys are the ones who do.

[Agape93]

You asked a question. I answered it. That's where the analysis ends, it doesn't end with you expanding shit with your own ideas. Your ideas don't mean shit to me.

[Asker]

The heading says “conversations” and there is a “reply” option. Conversations usually involve more than one person and usually where civilized individuals reply back and forth in civil dialogue sharing thoughts, ideas, opinions, perspectives, and beliefs (including one’s explanations regarding certain points); and especially without the use of degrading disrespectful words.

[Agape93]

This isn't a conversation. This is me answering your question, end of story. If you want a lovely chat where you can vent your ideas, find someone who values civility.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Literally had this happen on another post just the other day!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because you’re sexualizing her and a lot of women don’t like being objectified

[Asker]

Are you saying because the guy sexually objectify her because of her bra size (when her bra size changes over her lifetime)?
It’s not because society has sexualized women and made women to identify with a particular size?
If it’s because guys sexualize the bra size, then why do women seem flaunt their feminine blessing in public, already sexualizing themselves in public so guys would see their feminine sexuality?

Yes, you’ve probably already figured that I’m a guy. I’m a Biblical Conservative Christian guy who does find the modest A+ feminine treasure box curvature attractive. I believe all modest women to be princess daughters of the King. I also love bras as architectural works of art and for liberating women from corsets and saving steel for the war effort to end the war in Europe. Yes, I have a favorite alphanumeric bra size solely based on the (US) number and the numerical difference determining the cup size. (Accordingly with my favorite alphanumeric bra size, I like all of it’s sister sizes and bras with the same band numeric value and same cup letter.) I personally don’t care what a woman’s bra size is. I don’t believe a woman’s bra size to be her sexual identity (as this secrecy seems to indicate that most women believe is their identity).

Though I find a modest woman’s A+ feminine blessed curvature attractive no matter how much clothing covers her treasure chest, I don’t find their immodest flaunting of her sexually attractive or beautiful, but sexually degrading and no different than what probably happens in strip clubs and what female sex slaves are forced to do when sex trafficked.

I don’t care how much topside clothing a modest female women wears over her treasure chest; I don’t sexually objectify them, but see them as fellow human beings, not toyed or abused, but as strong butterflies & roses equally deserving of love, honor, respect, defense, and protection.

Women seem to sexually objectify her bra size, but then claim guys are the ones who do.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He sexualizes her because society objectifies her. The two are very much connected

[Abbycado]

Because why is it any of your business?

[Asker]

That doesn’t answer the question.
Well there seems to be no issues regarding shoe size, waist size, shirt size, ring size, practically all other sizes are fair game; all except the bra size.
Plus, you have plenty of propaganda in society where women basically are showing off that they are blessed wearing either revealing clothing, bikini bra tops, sports bras, even bras, including tight tops adhering to her physical form. There seems to be so much women in reality actually reveal about themselves, including how blessed they are, all while yet keeping that one size a personal secret.
I’ve shared with a few women my thoughts and opinions. They’ve even voluntarily given me their bra size without me even asking for it.
I believe modest women are like a beautiful treasure chest to be treated like beautiful butterflies and roses, not to be handled or played with. And there’s this thing of women having a body count more than 0?

I believe in protecting and defending women against exploitation and any form of abuse. I believe in supporting the women who are stronger survivors like butterflies and treating them as beautiful roses according to my Butterfly Rose Alliance (or advocate partner) [B. R. A.]. Somewhat initiated by the idea of Free The Girls receiving bra donations to send to sex trafficked woman survivor second hand strewn market entrepreneurs, I inquired of a local women’s shelter about donating bras to them and they acknowledged they practically receive other forms of womenswear, except for bras.

I know more about bras than my mom and how sizing works than apparently the statistical 80% of women who don’t know their own bra size.

I like the feminine curvature of blessed A+ women, but they’re less attractive when they’re clearly not wearing their right size. I’m fine with bra free women as well as the wearers, but the right size contributes to her modest beauty overall.

I asked this question, in part because I think at least 80% don’t even know their own size.

[Abbycado]

I did. It’s none of your business. I just asked you why you thought it was. Not reading a wall of drivel from an anon that has no source other than your own mind for the claims.

[Anonymous]

Good question! I am very open about my size (34C)

[nekkibarbie]

Guess my bra size 🤣

[Asker]

To do so is the same as guessing a woman’s age or weight.

From my perspective according to the accusations the other responders have given is that modern women are completely selfish suicidal narcissists: they flaunt their A+ treasure chest sexuality to attract the attention of good men, practically promoting their cup size with their real or fake bra side, but then only attract the boys and accuse all men as being juvenile, creeps, and perverts. Then they wonder where all the good men are and why the good men are not attracted to them.

In short, I love collecting my favorite alphanumeric bra size and accordingly the alphanumeric sister sizes, numerical value band size and cup sizes. I don’t necessarily care how much topside clothing casually modest naturally beautiful women wear from being topless to fully clothed regardless of moderately visible cleavage. Though I don’t care what bra size naturally healthy A+ modest female women wear, I do wonder what bra size they may be. Yes, I find such A+ treasure chest feminine curvature modest women attractive and beautiful, HOWEVER when they are immodestly clearly flaunting their sexuality with their real or clearly fake bra size in public (including wearing very snug and tight printing clothing showing all their curves), I don’t see anything respectable or beautiful or attractive with those such juvenile or creep or pervert attractive magnets.

I’ve shared my viewpoints with a couple female co-workers and other acquaintances where nothing else was involved, and they have voluntarily told me their bra size. I’ve asked them why they shared their bra size with me and why others keep it such a personal secret. They said they trusted me and have no clue why others keep it a secret.

I strongly believe in treasuring women as treasure chests, strong butterflies, and roses: as fellow human beings, not sex toys to be played with, weakened, abused, exploited, etc. worthy of being loved, honored, respected, protected, and defended.

[Asker]

Continued: With my personal worldview viewpoint, in addition to my collecting of bras, I’ve reached out about donating extra bras I collect to a local Women’s Shelter. They noted that of all the donations of womenswear, bras are the least donated.

And with the whole conglomerate of women sexualizing their blessed treasure chest and real or fake bra size attracting the juveniles, creeps, and perverts and accusing all men for being such and you refuse to use your big girl words to verbalize your interest in a perceived attractive good man assuming they can mindread your facial expressions or body language they’ve responded to in the past and were called a juvenile, a creep, or a pervert for doing; it is all more understandable for why women are more likely to die from a CPR/AED preventable death. Most good men are not willing to destroy their livelihoods with the highly probable possibility of being taken to court because of having saved the life of the woman suing him, because he chose to be a Good Samaritan, making her topless in order to perform the necessary lifesaving CPR/AED measures in order to save her life according to legal Good Samaritan implied consent doctrine.