Why do pretty girls not have boyfriends?

[xKayy]

So I might not be the prettiest girl in the world but I have plenty of friends who are beautiful and have never had a boyfriend (myself included). And then there's girls who are uglier fatter and bitchier and have them all the time. Why is this? My ex best friend has a boyfriend now and she's..we'll I'll just say it not pretty at all, and now she turned into a tacky bitch. Are girls like me just that unlikeable or something? I'm not shy, half my friends are guys.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Personality and Personal Perspective.

For one - Beauty is not up to you to decide.

You may think so and so is ugly - the guy she's with or whom she gets checked out by may think otherwise.

It's a big bitter, jealous, and catty to say / think such things, just because your feeling insecure in the boyfriend department.

How unlikeable you are - would roughly depend on factors of your personality. Guys can be put offish by women who

A.) Gossip negatively about other women - Why? - Because guys will think your insecure so you have to diss on others to feel good about yourself.

B.) Seem too demanding - do you constantly tell your guy friends what to do? Are you a bit bossy? - Why? - men are naturally authorative, so having a woman who can potentially step all over them for no good reason isn't very desirable.

C.) Sexuality - Why? - Because women are judged by men for how often we open our legs.I know I know - double standard but that's how it is. If your friends are very sexually open, guys will only go after them for the sake of sex - not what you want ultimately unless your that type of girl.

Those are what I've noticed the guys I hang around mentioning when it comes to women and interacting with us.

If those don't apply to you - then your probably in a legit spot for guys.

Why guys won't approach or interact - depends on personality, who finds you attractive, and BEING PATIENT.

Sometimes you just don't happen upon the guy or girl who likes you the same way. That's something you can't really control - so you just have to take a deep breath and focus on other stuff. All the couples I've met - came together when they weren't even focused on dating. They went to parties, or events and just happened upon each other.

So don't let it get you down; don't be so quick to judge other girls around you as pretty or ugly, and keep your head up for Romeo when he decides to come along.

Oh and - it never hurts to talk to your crushes first or make a move on them first :D

[TheDigitalSaint]

First off, you ladies are young. The boys your age are also young and have little to no experience dating girls. Add in the factor that attractive girls can and do intimidate guys, and many guys assume that they are already taken, they often won't get approached much in high school.

There are things that you and your friends can do to improve your situation. First off, you all need to cut boys your age some slack. The one that might be a bit geeky, not just the hottest guys around are worth giving a chance. Most girls, especially the attractive ones have higher than average standards, which means they often go single.

Uglier or fatter girls often feel more attainable to a guy that doesn't have much confidence. The best thing you can do to change your situation is to ensure you aren't giving off bad vibes. Check out my guide on shy girls under my profile. You or your friends might have bad body language or otherwise are not signaling to boys that are you like them or find them attractive. Girls can help with the flirting process. Read my guide and and let me know if any of it relates to what you're talking about here if some of your friends can relate to what I described. I'll post an update if you do so first.

[honeyltsme]

There may be a number of reasons, often random, why somebody does not have a boyfriend. Their looks may be fine but their personality not particularly gravitating.

So many girls have no real interests or causes of their own other than personal care and having a good time, and even if they were stunning I would only consider them of a very temporary interest, if any.

Lats but not least, biological attraction (vs. mental) is governed by chemistry - basically by pheromones your body makes. If you are too young to generate enough of them (which under 18 you well may be), men can't "sniff you out" and can't get that primal chemistry going.

[Phoenix1991]

I'm fairly attractive and when I'm single I don't get a girlfriend instantly...sooo..what gives?

Because someone is attractive doesn't mean they will automatically gain a boyfriend/girlfriend.

You have to search, high and low , and sometimes you just need a little bit of luck and a smile.

[Mr_Solo_Dolo]

This.

[The_King]

Because the guys are intimidated/shy or think hot chicks already have a boyfriend, so they don't want to start drama/fights. Seriously stop waiting and go approach guys to show you're available.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Generally you can be friend-zoned or viewed as intimidating, I'd say Friend-Zoned in your case. But Beautiful girls are Intimidating or we think they're already in a relationship so we don't approach.

[Konnour]

Shyness?

Social isolation?

Awkwardness?

Drug addiction?

Moodiness?

..and actually not being that "pretty" they think they are?

[Hades]

Because there are more important things than how a girl looks. We males are the less shallow gender! ^^'

[Konnour]

Hahaha, cool story bro.

[Moloch]

Their standards are too high.