If you want him to stop, you've got to tell him straight-forward. It doesn't have to be mean, but it has to be clear. People with Aspergers don't pick up on hints, body language, etc. He could even hear, "I don't want to talk to you," and think, "Well did she mean EVER?" and still talk to you. Not all Aspies are like that, though. And not all people who do that even have Aspergers.
Since you said you already did tell him straight-forward, that's pretty much all you can do, unless you're comfortable with getting mean about it, haha. You could keep telling him that his questions are inappropriate, which might not stop him from talking to you, but might stop those kind of questions. Or you could just try to remember that the class is temporary and you won't have to deal with him forever.
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This issue is probably long resolved, but:
1. Aspergers is not an excuse for this kind of behavior, and he should work to change it.
2. Since he has Aspergers, it's understandable that doesn't know these social cues and customs.
3. Not all guys who have Aspergers are like this.
4. Guys with Aspergers often need to be told with blunt honestly, since they don't get subtlety.
try not to be an a**hole about it... he can't help it
aspergers makes it hard for people to know what's okay to say and what's not
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just tell him that you don't wanna talk about that and try bring up something less personal... change the subject or just give him a short hello and then joke about trying to work.
honestly, with someone with aspergers, you just have to be as blunt as possible. SSo, just tell him
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he can't help that and ur nasty and vile to treat him how u do. it sounds like ur discriminating against him which is wrong and spiteful plus u can get itno trouble, he clearly can't help this behaviour and ull struggle to get along in life if ur can't show a little mor tolerance to to people different to urself
I thought aspergers was the quiet type of person who has problems talking confidently to people
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