Can I say sorry to a girl for being clingy?

[Anonymous]

well I was being to clingy to a girl I liked and she stopped talking and texting me so should I just tell her I'm sorry? it's already been 3 months. everyday I text her good morning and some stuff.

[NoOneListens21]

I understand that you may want to text and get back in her life again because she means a great deal to you =) but sometimes people are hesitant when giving people a second chance or they blow them off.

IF she is a nice girl she might give you another shot unless you were outrageously clingy to her.

I would just tell her you didn't mean to be clingy if that is how you came off as and that all you wanted was a chance to get to know her better because you believe that she was worth that time and effort and you really didn't not mean to bother her in anyway. You understand if you don't get another chance but you just had to say that because you would never have done anything to upset her. kk?

[Asker]

wow this is truly helpful..thanks! it's like you understood me at all..I hope she changes her mind.

[NoOneListens21]

=) you're welcome

[ShesSoSilly]

I suppose you could but if she doesn't like clingy and stopped talking to you I wouldn't be texting her everyday either. If I were her that would only make me more annoyed & if I were you I would apologize, if I were to do so, and then leave her a lone and see what she does. If she still doesn't reply then she's not interested and you should move on and next time know not to be so fast/clingy.

[Asker]

so..i'll apologize and then leave her alone? should I explain everything to her? or is it much better if don't text at all?

[ShesSoSilly]

Well I don't know all that has happened but if you feel there is something that needs to be explained it keep it short and follow that with an apology and then leave her alone. She'll either not reply and be happy that you're leaving her alone because damage has already been done. Or she'll accept it and talk to you first.

[NoOneListens21]

If she doesn't like it...i guess?but I don't know if that would change her mind or w.e. I would just forget about it. =/ unless she means a lot to you

[Asker]

she means a lot to me even if we only hanged out for a month..it's like you saw the girl of you're dreams..and you made a mistake for showing too much. If only she could hear me out..but she's been ignoring me. I think I'm already a stranger to her.

[Anonymous]

The first anon girl hit the nail on the head. You should really listen to the feedback she's giving you--it'll help you immensely if you understand it and start to change your behavior. Because the reality is, your behavior (not you--your behavior) is really turning off the ladies. Change it or you'll keep getting the results you've been getting.

[Asker]

so should I apologize for the last time?

[Opinion Owner]

No, you shouldn't apologize. You should learn from it and move on. Most important lesson: grow a pair of balls.

[Anonymous]

Did you date or was it just a crush or someone you were trying to date? You probably went too far and I would say that you should probably just forget about it after all she's had all this time to contact you and she hasn't.

[Asker]

we only hanged out. and I go to her house on weekends. I guess I went to far on confessing..

[Anonymous]

Yeah, guys like you are f***ing annoying. Clingy behavior is a pain in the ass. You probably turned her off of your personality. Don't apologize, just stay away from her.

[Asker]

well..I'm not really that clingy. I just realized that I might did something wrong when I suddenly start putting my arms around her shoulder when we're walking. And we're only hanging out like 2 months or less I also confessed my feelings. she told me everything was fast. I think I've become needy because I don't want to lose her.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, you sound extremely needy. Especially after seeing your previous questions. You need to chill.

[babygirlxox]

you can