Your looks aren't the issue. It's either a personality issue (are you shy?) or something along those lines. You have to get out there and go where the other people are, and you have to be a bit outgoing and let other people SEE you having fun and having a good time, and they'll want to be around you and will find you attractive, because everyone wants to be around people who are having a good time.
And you have to PAY ATTENTION. Whenever a guy is showing you ANY extra attention, he likes you, and he's looking for you to give HIM some extra attention too so that he knows you like him as well. If you don't do this, he'll assume you aren't interested and he'll move on to another girl, and you'll never get asked out. You can't just sit back and be passive; you have to PARTICIPATE in this or it will pass you by.
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Sometimes attitudes come off as a misperception. There was one girl that made me do all the talking during the first date. It seemed like what I was doing wasn't right but I do not like having awkward silence. I gave ehr plenty of chances to talk so I wasn't so self-centered or too talkative. I did not text her at all and 2 weeks later she texts me back asking what she did wrong...Its courage to ask that but I guess some girls don't really see how they portray themselves as.
Same here...I look innocent and cute but have a cool and boyish personality, just wanna date but no one really came to me. So start to give signals to your crush or whoever you find hot! Sometimes they feel it sometimes they don;t, but if he likes you too he'll definitely exchange glances and the story continues...
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Well for one I hate when people say I'm sweet, etc. It just seems arrogant and I've heard people say some things like that. If you want a boyfriend DO SOMETHING, waiting for someone to come to you isn't how you're going to find a relationship. Go find a guy you like and ask him out..
problem is your expecting the guys to do everything and that doesn't work... ask a guy you want out etc, a lot of guys perfer the girl to make the first moves nowadays ... if you catch a guy looking at you that's how guys tell a girl we want her
You're kinda cute-ish
I'd talk to you, and maybe ask you out
But I can't see myself staying for long
Maybe if I liked your personality
MaybeDo you talk to guys? Do guys approach you? Do you make any effort?
haha because you aren't that hot
just kind of cute maybe you will look better with agetoo picky
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