Hey there,
I like this one guy a lot, and he's been giving me a lot of signs (some pretty obvious too). Even so, I just can't bring myself to ask him, as much as I really want to.
I'm SO terrified that I may be reading him wrong, or that I might be deluding myself into seeing things that aren't there (wishful thinking?). And I would be horrified if I actually asked him and he said he wasn't interested... At the same time I'm worried that if I don't say anything he won't think I'm interested and move on. So I don't know what I'm going to do...
But there are these two guys who I'm friends with, and I have no problem telling them I like them, because its in a friendly way. I'm more afraid to open myself up to a guy who I like more than a friend I guess...
I make it sound so dramatic... lol
Basically, if you're thinking of asking out a shy girl, for the love of jelly beans ask her out! If she's interested she may be too shy or nervous to ask you... And then you're both just kind of left hanging...
I hope I helped!
Have a good one :)
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I'm a shy girl. I used to be very shy and would never tell a guy I like him, even if I think the guy likes me too.
Now that I've learned more and am older, I'm still shy, but if I like a guy, I would subtly try to show him by giving him "just because" little gifts, or complimenting him, or praising his work. Depending on the guy, I would try to do little things that would make him feel good when he's around me. If we're pretty close I would playfully punch him on the shoulder or something. The boldest thing I'd probably do is to ask whether he'd want to hang out sometime. But I wouldn't mention date.
So if your shy girl is anything like me, you'd have to watch for the subtle things she does for you but not for other guys.
Yes. She is going to have to if she wants the guy to know how she feels. For example, I'm a shy girl and I liked this guy, but I was terrified of saying that to him face to face. So, I wrote him a hey I like you, but please don't be creeped out letter. I also got my friend who was friends with the guy I liked to tell him how I felt.
They would if they can't temper their feelings anymore.
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Not unless she was sure that you liked her back, or you guys are very close. Shy means just that, and if she didn't know that you would like her back she would not risk the embarrassment.
She probably wouldn't tell you unless she was absolutely sure you liked her back, or was very comfortable around you.
Yes. At least I did. But of course I like a shy guy who is slow to warm up to people, including me.
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