"Why do I want a boyfriend so bad?"
Because humans are hardwired to want sexual intimacy and love. I understand there are a few people who claim they don't want a relationship. However, I usually view that rather skeptically. Most humans want love and sex, so your question seems a bit like asking, "Why do I want (insert delicious food here) so bad?" It might seem like I'm teasing you a bit for asking the question (and I am in a friendly way), but I really do salute your honesty. Really! You know what you want and you don't hide it. Bravo!
By all means, go out on dates. It doesn't have to be anything so formal. Think of it like practice. Now as to finding a man you're into, I might suggest getting involved in groups that share your hobbies. If you're religious, I understand that it's a good avenue to meet someone.
Because you crave the satisfaction it brings your ego to think you are part of a niche known as a "Couple." Tread carefully. That need to have a boyfriend as an object rather than a serious relationship that develops first will just lead down to a road with breakups and one person using the other in a commensalistic fashion.
I would go on dates with guys until you find someone that you really click with and could imagine having a good relationship with. I totally feel you on the whole being picky about who you date thing, but it's good that you have high standards! I'm the same way and trust me, I know how hard it is to find a guy worth dating, but don't ever lower your standards for someone just because you really want a boyfriend! You're better than that and you deserve the best
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"Why do I want a boyfriend so bad?"
You know, in Greek mythology their was a creature with 2 heads, 8 arms and 8 legs. This creature was so powerful that the gods had no choice but to split the being into two.. Both halves from then on were destined to search the world for each other...
Yes, just go on dates. Look at it this way. You're a hot girl, so getting approached won't be a problem. You go out, what - spend 4-5 hours of your life and maybe find someone you like. It's possible someone you thought you didn't like will capture your heart.
In the same boat out of a 2 year relationship. I really want a girlfriend and tons of prospects are making their moves, but I'm just not into any of them.
I have been through this before. In time, you will find someone. Best of luck to you (and me) and if you want to virtually cuddle lemme know!
untill and unless you know the guy from heart don't think of having him as a boyfriend. Have friends with benefit but don't trust a untill you know him
some guy will sweep you off your feet, it will happen
I feel you so much right now I would love a girlfriend to cuddle with and everything so I definitely feel you
I feel the same way. I want that someone to talk to and cuddle with and go on dates with.
I never know how to express that feeling without feeling like I'm being really desperate, ha..
The same reason I want a girlfriend so bad sweet heart.
I believe that's true
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