A month ago I gave him my number and told him to contact me if he and his friends are going to be in the area that way we can hangout. He never contacted me (still hasn't) so I assumed he was not interested. Then, 3 days later we were talking and he said that the next time he and his friend, who I "will really like" are at the bar he will let me know.
Since then nothing has changed and we interact how we always have. I think he reacts off of me because I tend to send most of the mixed signals. Two weeks ago he asked me what my plans were for the weekend. I told him I was booked, but before we could continue we were interrupted (I don't know if he took that as rejection or not). Yesterday we got talking and he mentioned his friend again saying how I would really like his friend because he likes to sing too.
Do I have the right to assume he is trying to set me up with his friend or is he playing some game/has another motive? If he is setting me up with his friend why does he seem to lead me on thinking he likes me?
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A few things come to mind:
1) Does he have a girl? Maybe he has a girlfriend, but likes you so he is setting you up with his guy friend so he can still hangout with you and go from there
2) If you send him mixed signals he is probably just as confused as you. So he is using his friend as a decoy to hide his true feelings for you
3) He may not know what he wants or is just so unsure of everything.
Either way initiate a hangout the next time you see him. Get your answers and either have this become something or stay friends.
Good luck :)