Ask to an AI Persona
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Laura
Have questions about GirlsAskGuys? I'm here to help!
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Girl's Behavior
Guy's Behavior
Flirting
Dating
Relationships
Fashion & Beauty
Health & Fitness
Marriage & Weddings
Shopping & Gifts
Technology & Internet
Break Up & Divorce
Education & Career
Entertainment & Arts
Family & Friends
Food & Beverage
Hobbies & Leisure
Other
Religion & Spirituality
Society & Politics
Sports
Travel
Trending & News
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
59Opinion
The cheapskates who won't pay for dates are just weird. If I ask, I pay. That just seems logical to me. It would be the height of rudeness to ask her out, take her to my favorite, rather pricey restaurant and then ask for separate checks. The cost of the meal won't bother me, but for all I know it might blow her budget for the next month.
And the complaining about women and not getting dates is all over the web. Sites that allow posting are a venting place for guys like this, and I have gotten blocked for calling them out on their complaining and especially their absurd expectations. These guys have completely unrealistic views on how women should look and act in real life. Too much porn and too much Photoshop. I had one of these guys actually tell me that he thinks a 36DDD-24-36 body is pretty average. They are so delusional that they do/would bypass decent women are for not being ideal, when in reality less than.001% of women can meet that ideal.
Nicely done. :) By the way, that "Letter A is always followed by Letter B" thing you mention is what we nerds, geeks and dorks call "conditional branching."
Conditional branching? I learned a new term today :)
1) I never let a girl pay if she's with me... at least haven't yet
2) I'm not bitter with women... I love them instead
3) I'm not at all insecure... I don't like labelling things so I don't use words like sluts or whore for any girl
Anyways
Nice take 👌
Applies on some guys on here
Good thing I am not like that and I try to put unbiased responses whenever I can. But honestly I see these things in BOTH genders on this site and its both sad. I will never be like them because I simply have enough respect for women not to. Good read though.
I guess I'm a little of 2 and 3. I'm bitter but I don't blame women at all. I'm just bitter about how the universe works. I can't really relate to any of your example comments though. I don't have a negative opinion of women like that.
I mostly lived life basically how Andy Stitzer said "I respect women. I love women. I respect them so much that I completely stay away from them." in the 40 year old virgin. I know some people argue that is fear of women rather than respect and they might be right but eh.
another take
to make women look better on the hopes of helping their low self esteem nice try at least
in the same time i see some gag women doing things that is considered blashphemy like
-how to be man
-on the first date he should pay focus on should like some right
-i have a pussy meaning im a higher being
-why all the gentelman went
-equality in everything but not when its more suitable for women
-and the biggest issue : a girl asks a guy out he rejects her what an asshole
hypocrisy is over 9000
WOW... there are some butt hurt guys on here. You must of hit a nerve. Great Take by the way...
Thanks!
Yep, they're exactly who I am talking about on here.
This isn't just GAG men, this is a lot of men. Thankfully they aren't the majority.. Good Mytake
Men wouldn't sit around and tell a woman this or show these views to them in the flesh. The first exposure I've had to comments mentioned above are on this site. What a eye opener for me.
regarding your last point, I have defended promiscuous behavior from women in general, and you are right that some or a lot of them would slut it up if they could. My problem and I can only speak for myself is that women, in spite of my mistakes, my bitterness to some women is not that they are getting laid all the time, its that they only give a chance to a certain group of men. I think her judgement is arbitrary. In my experience they seems that its of little help that I am good looking and athletic if am a nice guy. If they like so much getting laid why dont they give a chance to a decent looking guy, educated, who has the courage to approach unless you are a total jerk?
Thank you lol, if half of the dudes on here would man up, and realise that they are the problem, the world would be full of a lot less bullshitting. Stop acting all bitter, and all "poor me, a woman was once mean to me, therefore every last one of them is evil". Some women are assholes, so are some men. People don't like to date assholes. See the common thread?
Common courtesy is a sham. I open doors, next thing I know I'm the fucking doorman. It's my fault, I was going out of my way to be nice to strangers when they were perfectly capable. Why wouldn't they walk all over me. What am I gonna open doors now in the hopes that some door fetish woman is waiting on the sidewalk. Jesus
Rest is true doe
I'm glad I'm not like some GAG men. Like just because I'm insecure about myself, I don't make comments like that about women.
1. It's not that a guy asked the woman to accompany him out it's that the majority of the time a guy will HAVE to ask to the woman to accompany him out. I wouldn't mind as much, but sometimes I don't want to do something that I have to do.
2. Good point, but wouldn't women also get bitter under similar circumstances?
3. I'm secure about my insecurity :P
With a generation raised without the family as the strong central point of society, does it really surprise you many think like this?
A family in chaos is a society in chaos.
That's why I pull the plug sooner and sooner with women. If they're gonna start pulling the same crap as last time, I'm gonna assert myself sooner, and say: "No!" And I'll tell them why not. Even if they don't deserve an explanation.
Could someone tag that Bobby guy for me for this take?
Yeah, so blatantly obvious they're on here mostly just to complain and cry about their lives... (Not all, of course, definitely not all. I'd say it's 60/40... in favor of being bitter and rude.)
Solid take.
Glad I'm not like that... SORT OF. I'm kind of like on an edge here I think but I'm also not too sure about myself because I don't really care :>
Anyway, yeah, the bitter misogynists have it.
Very valid points, but I still stand by my opinion to either split the bill, or pay for what you ordered.
Some of these things have truth to them, women are often seen as less desirable after 23, and sluts aren't attractive to men, but men sleeping around isn't as detrimental. This stuff didn't just pop out of thin air.
If women are seen less desirable after 23? Why am I constantly hit on day in and day out, and mistaken for a woman in her early 20s? It all has to do with whether the person takes care of their exterior or not, how desirable they are to others. An age, is just an age. I've seen very young women who look like crap.
"Sluts aren't attractive to men" that's true. But I can't tell you how many men are sluts themselves and degrade women for doing the very same thing. There's a doubt standard.
There's also men, who can't get laid (wish they could live that life) and degrade women as well which I also find very contradicting.
*double standard
I said less desirable, not completely undesirable. You're missing the point. You're more desirable now than you will be in another 10 years. It's a gradual thing. And in terms of the slut things, there's double standards for everything. That's just one thing women will always have to look at.
Its not a double standard, its rooted in biology, men have higher sex drives due to having unlimited sperm and being more expendable, women having the ability to become pregnant has made it important to be careful with who she sleeps with, to make sure he will help her take care of the baby if she gets pregnant. So because of this its way easier for women to get laid than it is for men, and thats why men who sleep with many women are impressive but women who sleep with many men are easy and usually not relationship material.