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A Plea For The Men Of This Site To Approach Female Advice With Extreme Caution and Prejudice

Gentlemen, I've made the plea before and it went nowhere. But in this, hopefully you can see the urgency in which I implore you to take any advice from girls on this site with a grain of salt. Yes, I know the entire point of this site is to get advice and exchange idea with the opposite gender. (Funny how a lot of girls like to talk about how their are no genders and its all individuals when they're on a site called girls ask guys.) But, I implore you for your own health, love life, and sanity do not consider the advice on this site fully sound.

1) Many "girls" on this site have been hurt badly by men before and are trying to make sense of it in an often convoluted way.

It's pretty much undeniable that the majority of girls either have no social life or have been hurt and are trying to make sense of it. I'd actually take the former over the latter. See, hurt promotes further hurt. The negativity you feel inside asks you to dwell on it and transfer it in order to expand it. It wants to grow. Do not take my word for it. Ask what opinion the average girl on this site as of a men in general and see what kind of results you get.

2) I have personally field tested their advice against "real people" advice

To prove a point to myself and because maybe I'm a little weird, I have acted on advice from here just to see how it pans out. Based on the results, i ended up acting as though I had no chance when she was more into me than I was to her or giving my power away to the girl in a way she didn't even want. This is because you become that man that hurt them when you say your situation to them. When you're giving advice the first and most important step is to empathize with the question asker, but if you look at any question you will see many girls not only not empathizing but full on attacking the question asker.

3) If it was good advice the site probably would not exist anymore

The wars, the disagreements, the insanely aggressive remarks (I'll admit I've probably called more than a dozen women c-----) all fuels traffic. I think it gives the site an edge and I think most people know instinctively or realize that if they critique the question or take asker, they will get more attention than if they're positive. As such, take it as an online gender war and not a place for real advice. You won't find any.

A Plea For The Men Of This Site To Approach Female Advice With Extreme Caution and Prejudice

A Plea For The Men Of This Site To Approach Female Advice With Extreme Caution and Prejudice
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