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Why @Apope16's "Confessions of a Ladies Man" series has to stop (Page 2)
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Yikes. No wonder they made me an influencer on the website. People are apparently obsessed with me and I get everyone talking and debating. 🤣
If anything... controversy, discussion, debate, increased traffic volume is GOOD for this site. I deserve an award because now a user is the target of mytakes. I love it!🤟🏾🤣😎🙃
I never saw any of your posts and until now never knew you existed but if you got a person to spend all that time writing a "well worded" hate message about you, then you automatically have my respect
@ZackBan Thanks a lot man! I wrote a response article today.
Narcissism to the max! š¤¦āāļøš
@Nazgol Who's a narcissist? I'm confused.
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@Apope16 Nobody is obsessed with you, but you take up a lot of space on G@G in an effort to get people to notice you. It was time that someone addressed where you're wrong.
I didn't write a "Hit piece" either.
Your response article isn't quite as "well worded" as I had hoped.
Given the amount of users who object with what you have to say on a regular basis, I don't understand why you're calling me a snowflake.
I'm not the guy who pretends to be a Ladies Man, great at sex, and a feminist on top of it all.
I'm not hurt by your posts, but I wonder how many young men you've left with the idea that if they become a "Ladies Man" like you claim to be, they'll be able to pick up women too at the rate that you claim to do.
I'm not easily thrown off and would've ignored your consistently bad advice if you had just... slowed down at least.
But since your posts keep getting worse and worse, I felt that some things had to be said.
Please don't think that you increase traffic volume to G@G, it's a dying site and we all know it. Nobody who's not familiar with G@G reads this.
@Nazgol That he has some narcissistic traits is rather obvious when you read what he says and how he talks about himself. He's definitely not humble and I don't think he's doing it for the clout either (like he claims to be doing), because if he did, he wouldn't show his face.
I'd never employ someone this open about his views on women, both online and/or offline.
Yeah I know, his content can definitely be degrading
& I dont like the way he sees females and their struggles & what they go through
Dude, how do you say these things and not physically cringe? The deflection is top tier but I've seen better.
Oh @Apope16 you narcissistic ego egocentric maniac! How DARE you have opinions! HOW dare you write about them on a site where people can write whatever they want.
Don't you see you're "taking up a lot of space"? It's time someone did something about you...
(Dictionary definition of double standards)
No word about the post itself? Weak. You most definitely are one trashy influencer lol
@KathaKomben What do you want him to say? Women are as sexual as men - Fat women are extremely unattractive - the more appropriate word is repulsive - Most dudes who turned into players were betas and had to learn it the hard way - There are points I don't agree with him about but for the most part and by the most part I mean almost always his takes are very insightful - There is nothing in what this triggered chick wrote that requires he explains himself - men liking his comment and women disliking it explains it pretty well - Delusion at its finest..
Ew. Just disgusting how some of you people are. Iām so incredibly glad the men i met in my life were respectful and kind, and donāt have unfunny and extremely unlikeable personalities and mindsets :,)
Wow, a post that talks about woman in poor taste and with the lowest form of comedy possible is liked mostly by men and disliked by woman? How could that be possible? Who could be in the right here, the people talked about or the dudes that get laid and assume they know everything about the opposite gender?
Sleeping with people doesnāt make you a genius or a āladies manā, lol. Also,
donāt speak for all men my dude. Thereās guys out there who love woman and threat them right, and most importantly donāt assume we are all the same and have to be a certain way to be liked by men. These healthy minded kind of guys get laid the most, and are real ladies men.
Also, saying overweight woman are repulsive makes you so unbelievably disgusting to me. You not only insulted my mother, who is the kindest person to EVERYONE, even shitbags like you, but you also insulted most of the people of your OWN DAMN COUNTRY (Iām just gonna assume you are American)
The inside, the character is the key in determining if someone is ārepulsiveā
And you definitely are, not fat woman, nor even fat men.
Would you like people to talk like this about you? About your face or your own body? Maybe youāre too thin and your goddamn dick is too small? Would you like that?
No one likes trash talkers, except trash talkers themselves. Yāall like evolved backward from the 1900 down. Woman are NOT something for you to judge and look at. Have some respect or talk about your own gender like that.
Very disappointing character
Canāt relate sis.
@KathaKomben do you really think we treat women badly? We don't we just don't see you the way you portray yourselves to be which for us is not a negative but for you for some reason it definitely is - My face looks good my hair is great and when you've spent over 5 years of your life constantly training soccer and muay thai it shows on your body - these fat people are just lazy - And repulsive - I am a trash talker - and the best part about it is that you can't trash talk me because even if they try I always have one better - I'm just built different - And most women are the same - you're so alike you all say you acknowledge most chicks are like each other but somehow YOU'RE unique - right - Every single time I slept with a girl it was the same types of conversations - Same goes for exes they were just more relationship material - and I'm sure you're mom is a great person - I just would never sleep with her - I'll friendzone her if she's very likable but nothing more than that - And yea you could say I'm American I have 2 other nationalities that doesn't matter though - I am insulting most of the people of my OWN DAMN COUNTRY because they're lazy and eating all the food they're not supposed to eat - I'm the good guy here - they should be apologizing to the children of Africa for eating their food..
@KathaKomben At least men in Germany are decent, always good to know.
@jaybee281
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Listen, i donāt care what you think, how you think and when you think. Everyone is entitled to having opinions (even the ugly ones) but if you start calling people names and insulting them, even tho everyone has fat in their bodies, and they obviously have mental issues to get to that point, youāre a disgusting waste of a human being in my opinion, with ignorance so high and character so low that i didnāt even want to give you a response at first. Didnāt let me go tho, and you actually seem like someone who listens, thatās why Iām giving you my opinion
All fat people are just lazy and eat just for fun. Excuse me? How can someone deliberately be so cruel and so stupid at the same time? What about the People that eat as a defence mechanism? For coping? And the ones who donāt have the mental strength to get up everyday to become healthier? Why would you ignore these people for the sake of being āedgyā and ācool with the boysā
Youāre intentionally being ignorant and hurtful. You write your opinions all over here but say you donāt care what others have to say about you? You know, if you wouldnāt have been insulting, and it being something that directly effects my family, i wouldnāt even care one bit.
Iām actually convinced people should be allowed to think whatever they want, but if you start to become unnecessarily insulting, and disregarding people that could be really affected by that careless words, it becomes a problem for me. And you become a cheap internet bully instead of promoting your viewpoints properly
@jaybee281
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Like you already said,
I know you would like my mum, everyone would like my mum, because she is kind, doesnāt judge anybody and always tries helping others.
Do you think itās fair for a person so sweet and sensitive to ever hear sickening and hurtful words like the ones you used? Do you really think that would help?
It wouldnāt, obviously. It would do the opposite. And if you knew she gained a lot of weight because she fell into years of depression after my father died and got the wrong medication for the longest time, i bet you would feel like shit having called her repulsive and disgusting. Even tho you would ājust not date herā. But you didnāt just not date her. You insulted her, and many others like her in the lowest form possible. Can you understand why iām so vocal about this?
So why being openly rude and hurtful in the first place? They are humans like you and i, even with the extra fat.
Didnāt you learn when your Parents told you not to bully people?
Or are you just craving some sort of recognition of your existence?
I bet for every one of your partners, you were also exactly the same as the others, same boring shit to talk about, same lame ass mannerisms.
Because (wow) women and men have certain ways they behave and are in situation like that, and mostly with One Night Stands.
Itās a social thing, but Einstein here already figured us gals out huh?
Little tip from me:
Educate yourself properly on how and why people gain weight
Realise that men are not āchillerā or āfunnierā, or whatever goes on in your mind, then woman.
All the same, except some instinctual differences. We all have negative experiences with the opposite sex, we all shit, eat and sleep, we all end up eaten by insects under the ground and we all try to survive in todays climate.
So stop making life harder for someone else and better improve your own.
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Are a lot of American guys like this? Thatās actually very sad. The problem is lack of respect for any other human being and always feeling forced to say something offensive/āfunnyā
But itās just a theory š
He has no discipline. When he was Beta, he was problem the most pathetic guy. Now, heās on the other end of the spectrum. An Alpha Male Douche. Not saying Alpha males are such. Sounds like he has no balance. Zero discipline.
This is an interesting point, thanks for sharing.
Could be a new experience for him and just does t know how to handle it. That and having certain women being ok with it really feeds the ego. You start thinking with your emotions and one day your own hubris becomes your downfall.
he's not even an alpha he's still a pathetic beta and his posts clearly show it. real men who get women don't go bragging about it. him he likes to brag about nonsense
@Rob17792 I think that's a valid point... The bragging seems to add that necessary "I have plenty of experience" oomph though.
He won't reply. The guy is a self proclaimed ladies man. This will hurt his ego.
Probably. I'd like to see what he has to say though.
He does actually have a very, very big ego, and from what I remember, he mentioned that he's a "self proclaimed ladies man" too somewhere... It's beyond me that he has the audacity to use this word in an attempt to sound like he understands women.
Yeah most guy's who say that is because they have been successful in picking up drunk girl's at a bar. Lol.
This probably holds a lot of truth... The women he seems to go for/seems to have met are "vulnerable and clingy", qualities NOT every woman has. Just because a girl started crying after he asked her how she was doing, all girls are like this according to his logic.
And that is very sad!!!
I agree. Just because I've made bad experiences in the past with SOME men, that doesn't mean that all men are bad people.
Exactly!!
I kinda get your point, but its better just to ignore him. Most guys are assholes, just come to terms with it. I came to terms with it at least
I agree.
I've ignored him for a year, but after seeing how his posts kept getting worse and worse, I felt that I had to open my mouth to make sure REAL men and women remember that this is just ONE person's opinion.
@Apope16 seems to be oblivious to the fact that his methods won't work on every girl. And, like I said, I've found the way that he talks about women's bodies to be absolutely repulsing.
Maybe it's because I have a very loving boyfriend who would never use that type of language to describe me or other women, or because I've never personally encountered anyone who says stuff like "blood dripping vagina", I honestly don't know - but if he truly knew women, he'd know that menstrual blood doesn't usually drip. Also, the whole "getting wet" like he describes it is so strange and bewildering, I just have to giggle every time I read it somewhere in his posts.
So just to say it again: I truly believe that there are good, kind men out there who are nothing like @Apope16. Especially when it comes to his strange and inappropriate view of women.
Yeah you got a point, and you got to focus on the good guys. Most guys are assholes, but a lot of girls are also horrible in my oppinion. We live in times that people are horrible yo eachother and the internet is a free space to do what you want. Lets just focus on the people who are worth the time, that is the best way.
That last sentence resonates with me :)
You fucking go girl. I absolutely loved you take. I hate that sum bitch myself but I see he is getting few to no votes. If there is a petition to get him banned from life on this planet I will gladly put my signature down.
ditto
I don't know the guy, can say I know his posts. Didn't really read all of this but got the gist. You don't like his point of view. That's fair enough. But don't read his posts or comment on them, do your own thing. He's entitled to post his view, it's a public platform.
I do find it interesting that you call this guy out yet hide behind anon.
"I do find it interesting that you call this guy out yet hide behind anon"
My same thought! š
@itsdeaaa_94, @drumlin2001; I posted this anonymously to prevent him blocking me. He has since come forward and said that he wouldn't have blocked me, but I couldn't have known that :)
I agree. I am sick of seeing the titles in my feed for the endless crap he writes. I don't bother to read his stuff but the space he takes up could be used for a lot more interesting things.
This is exactly why I'd prefer it if he discontinued the series.
My feed looks boring because his takes seem to be all people read nowadays - and because he's an Influencer, his posts are automatically promoted too.
I think he should not be an influencer. The only thing he influenced me to do is block him, which I just did.
This is exactly the point.
He really shouldn't be given this much reach/audience, especially when there's other users on here writing good myTakes that are actually a fun and helpful read.
totally agree. Maybe we can get him to write better stuff?
One would think so, but all he cares about is dating and relationships (where he doesn't give meaningful advice)
thank you finally someone else agrees
same i had to block him too
Iāve read some of his MyTakes and donāt take them seriously. Only for entertainment.
That's understandable.
The last bit, I'm not against people who have illnesses, but for some it might be a deal breaker and it's something respectable.
I have some illnesses and I accept people reject me due to them. I can't do anything about it. It's not shaming. Attraction can't be forced.
The rest I see this post as a rant against someone that posts his opinion believing he knows it all. Nearly everyone knows he is not science baked like many PUAS and other self proclaimed "experts". People should keep to giving opinion on what they know and asking on what they don't. But it seems that this is against freedom of speech. So with that we have people filling space in servers to missinform, adding to the already difficult search for useful learning that is actually aplicable to real life and also increase the polution in the planet. Thanks.
Very good MyTake.
Thank you so much
Also, I would add this guy definitely has the incel mentality without being one (?) if we believe him. He doesn't add much to the stupid sexist stereotypes we can read online " a good girlfriend cooks" and overall some "I'm gonna teach you life kiddos" attitude.
Heās on my block list for a reason. Heās an asshole
Ahahahshahshsh this is great i never knew gags my takes could be this interesting
Yeah, exactly. When you compile his thoughts, it gets rather crazy.
Yeah I'Ve seen one of these And 100% agree with you. In his view I and everyone that treats women like People is A Bèta male, Incel or simp.
I would like your toughts on my: mytake: answering the question: where did the good guys go
I Really wanna see if a woman actually gets what I meant with that post.
The only one that reacted did not get what I meant so if another one also doesn't I am gonna try again.
It's sad to see him say things like "be cocky" when that's NOT what ALL women want in a man. It's insane how far he's taken it, and I feel like it only hits you when you see quotes taken directly from his takes next to one another.
Especially the way he talks about the female body is horrible, cringe-worthy and definitely not loving.
I read it, I don't 100% get it though, would be great to read an update on that.
If you read it leave your toughts in a reply I will update with enough feedback
I think you should just make it clearer what you're trying to say or consider changing the title. Also, G@G won't allow you to upload the same content twice, so just keep that in mind.
Yeah I don't really know how to put it clearer. I Am busy on a take series about an MCU character and why the hate has nothing to do with gender so it also will be a long while before I get back to that topic
Check his most recent qeustionš¤£š¤£
I have, it's not worth commenting on, he can't even make sense of what I had to say, quite sad to see to be honest.
I thought he was charming at first but then I unfollowed him for a lot of the reasons you mention and also because I realized that someone who made me literally scream in rage and frustration at some of his rants was not someone I wanted to follow. That being said, he is entitled to his opinion and there are a lot worse male users on here (racists incels etc.).
What do the rest of you guys think? I didnāt have time to read all the opinions.
Wow I didn't know he elicited such a strong reaction from girls against him! Thanks for taking the time to write this informative Take
You're welcome.
You sound triggered because you know heās right. If you donāt like what he types, donāt fucking read it.
@Apope16's stories, claims and his terrible advice is based on his personal experience.
All I'm saying is that women aren't how he makes them out to be. I'm sorry if what you've experienced in your life matches @Apope16's experience.
Most people understand to not listen to what women say but to pay attention to what they do.
Even better if you find a woman whose actions match her words!
That's the unicorn.
You seem to get it. What you said is exactly what I have written in mytakes. Its an advice column based on controversial things that i have learned. Some of it is pro female like advocating for period sex. She quoted the article about it and thought its somehow bad? Lolš¤£
@Apope16 It's bad because of the way you describe the female body in a distasteful, degrading way.
I wouldn't say that advocating for period sex makes you a better feminist.
First... you could just scroll past his posts rather than posting an attack mytake.. And your mytake violates a number of this sites rules regarding member posts, and as been reported to admin.
You honestly sound like an angry feminist.. If you don't like what he has to say ignore it.. But you're not capable of that are you?
@Apope16 identifies as a feminist, I don't.
This post didn't insult @Apope16
I'm very familiar with the rules of G@G, I've been an active user for well over a year. Please read my take and tell me where I violated the rules in your opinion.
and i have been here for 8 years whats your point..
Again, I'd be more than happy if you could point out where I violated the rules.
I never understood the attention he gets.
His post bore me.
I tried reading a few of them and they were really just boring long winded reads
Just don't read them. Personally I find the responses more interesting than the mytakes.
Me too, I read both to understand the replies better.
As repulsive as it may be... one must know your enemy and know yourself in order to win. ~ "The Art of War - Sun Tzu"
LOL yeah but i feel you, the nerve of some people... don't talk about stuff you don't understand, or you're a talker, not a person who does actual useful things. This apope dude... XDDDD wow he tried to explain women when he isn't even a woman... how pathetic, guess he has nothing else to do in his life... XD