Why @Apope16's "Confessions of a Ladies Man" series has to stop (Page 3)

[smahala1991]

I always skip his stuff or don't comment on it because it just seems really off

[OliviaOfTheScots]

While I find a lot of his lady man posts hilarious he actually does a few interesting mytakes between them

[myTake Owner]

Which ones are you referring to? I'm genuinely curious

[OliviaOfTheScots]

The Top Signs that a Cheater CAN CHANGE ↗

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Confessions of a Ladies Man: First Date Conversation Tips to Build Connection for Men and Women ↗

[OliviaOfTheScots]

They're interesting reads at the minimum

[myTake Owner]

The Cheater Take was okayish.

I didn't like the Conversation Tips one though, it's rather basic information that you can find almost anywhere else on the internet, with far better tips out there too.
That his first point is "ask how they feel" was quite curious to me, he constantly belittles women, it's just sad to see at this point. Asking how someone feels should be natural, a part of everyday life and small talk. It's not good advice for someone who genuinely needs tips for a first date in my opinion but whatever.

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Can make for interesting reads if you filter through the nonsense

Seem to have upset him however

[Kaneki05]

Never seen him before. His Mytakes look boring so no wonder i haven't.

[SaoirseS]

I’ve never read any of his stuff. I just scroll on by.

[Anonymous]

If what he's saying was false, there'd be no female hate directed toward him. There'd no need to point out obvious bullshit. But if you want people to THINK the truth is bullshit, you have to push back against it.

This is one of the most see-thru posts I've seen on here.

[Anonymous]

For all the people who don't like this user:
Ignore his ass, that's all you gotta do.

Hell, even I don't like his content, but if you don't want him to be "relevant" them making this post is the last thing thing you wanna do.

Treat him like he's irrelevant and he will be as such, end of story.

All you're doing is boosting his ego, I bet he sees all of this as nothing more then a step up in whatecer his goal is with the content he makes.

[Anonymous]

christ thank god someone else gets sick of that guy's fucking bullshit. i'm glad i'm not the only one

[Opinion Owner]

it got so bad with his posts to the point i had to block that cringeworthy jackass

[Opinion Owner]

what i was wondering was why the fuck was that cringeworthy jackass even talking about women's period blood? what does he want to have a menstrual cycle himself?

[myTake Owner]

I wanted to write this in an attempt to get him to think about how his language he uses to talk about women is degrading, but he didn't even defend himself properly (which was rather unfortunate).

@Apope16 was "empowering women to have period sex" and saw it fit to use the phrase "blood dripping vagina" in this post. How exactly is it empowering for women to be encouraged to have period sex? Those who want to try it out will eventually, those who don't, won't. There's that. A mature man won't have anything against period blood anyways (it's different if someone is freaked out by blood in general, that's of course understandable, or if someone has other valid objections). It was a pointless post.

As a woman, hearing that a guy genuingely thinks "she's horny as fuck" just because "she's" menstruating is just sad. It's definitely the case for some women, but generalisations like these are harmful in my opinion.
Here's the link again, in case you want to read why he was writing about blood in the first place: Confessions of a Ladies Man: Why I love a Girlfriend's "Time of the Month" (Period) ↗

[Anonymous]

I don't know if he/she Is a male or female I think it's also most likely he/she might be a catfish of some sott

[myTake Owner]

I hadn't considered that because he frequently shows his face.

[Hangryella]

All his posts are basically useless. He thinks he is some big shot. NARCISSIST

[NightHawk99]

So I'm not the only one who thought he was a cringy fuckboy.

[_no_one_]

Seen those takes on my feed quite often but they're too long and i don't see them benefiting me in any way so i just dont read them lol 😪

[Anonymous]

Apope might be a genius. He is simply giving fellow guys advice on how to get women to do whatever you want for them. It’s basically like a Cosmopolitan where the articles are written so women can get men to do whatever they want. The only thing is that apope is doing it for free and it’s advice that probably works, unlike cosmo.

[A_Bell]

Tldr version:

"I disagree with someone, that person should be silenced."

[Anonymous]

I don't like his posts either but i decided to just ignore them and not read/spend time on it anymore.

[hellacray]

Just fyi you could ignore his posts. It's not like he's forcing you to read it.

[Kas19]

Sometimes it's a train-wreck I'll indulge in reading. Doesn't make it any less cringe.

[hellacray]

Ok... So you know you won't like it but read it anyways.

You must be pretty bored.

[Anonymous]

You seem like a hurt little snowflake mad that other people are better, you need to stop

[myTake Owner]

Okay :)

[OddBeMe]

Yeah…he’s an incel stealing tips from Reddit trash and somehow is an “influencer”.

[NathanDavis]

@Apope16 come here alpha boy... I'll be quiet this time, if that makes you feel safer.

[Apope16]

Thanks buddy. can I give you a hug?

[NathanDavis]

@Apope16 Only if you really need it, and for no longer than two mississippis

[pleasestopthis]

There's no need to be all his worked up for a self-proclaimed "ladies man". Just ignore whatever he writes

[Ryfyle]

Come on now. We can't be reasonable here, it has to be a crazy shit fling to the death on GaG.

[Jack9949]

@pleasestopthis So true. Why are people getting so triggered by a guy who just loves making controversy? They fall right into his trap.

[bamesjond0069]

I dont agree with a lot of what he says because some stuff still seems beta mindset to me but overall its pretty correct a lot. And by the way all fat women are ugly.

And fyi jokes about womens sexuality are not funny. Period.

[myTake Owner]

Does he make jokes about women's sexuality? I didn't pick up on that.

It's fine that you agree with him, but I genuinely don't think that "all fat women are ugly". I think that every size is beautiful, and that size shouldn't be an issue, unless someone's weight is a threat to their health.

[bamesjond0069]

Well i find all fat women horribly ugly. So i can't disagree with him on that.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm with @bamesjond0069 on this one. Maybe it's PC to say that all women are pretty, even when they're fat, but that doesn't make it true, and many guys feel that way. I know everybody wants to get a participation ribbon and nobody wants tot think that they are a 2nd or 3rd place contender, at best, but it's true. And all of the feminist/PC/"say-it-enough-times-and-it-must-be-true" mentality won't change that.

[bamesjond0069]

And the joke went over your head. Most women are not capable of real humor.

[RealMarek]

Scientific studies demonstrate that not all body morphologies are beautiful. The vast majority of men (exceptions prove the rule in this case) find figures with a reasonably low waist-to-hip ratio most desirable. 0.7 is optimal although there is a range within which most men will find a figure attractive. The ratio matters more than size or total weight. This isn’t “fat-shaming,” it is more about how body fat is distributed. This is because an attractive waist-to-hip ratio is strongly correlated with health and fertility. Sometimes things are not what we want them to be and life is not fair. Trying to indoctrinate men to believe obese bodies are attractive or beautiful cannot work. It is a losing battle against what is evolutionarily hard-wired into men.

[KathaKomben]

Can’t even imagine how your ugly ass looks like. Your Character is already hideous.

[KathaKomben]

Wrong. Woman are capable of having humour that’s not insulting or hurtful to anyone.
Something you seemingly can’t.