I have to say I am not really interested in shy guys because they are so hard to read. Also when ever I made the effort to talk its like talking to a wall. I don't now I think I lost interest in them. I think guys who approach you are more interesting to talk to.
I am very attracted to shy guys even though they can be weirdos. Girls who do not talk much prefer shy guys unlike loud ones.. Outgoing guys can be very annoying.
Thats so selfish of you.. You use them.. Do you know they too have HEART... Instead of useing them you could search for someone you really want to be with... Shy guys hardly ditch girls so they do not deserve to be ditched
Personally I feel shy guys are just as crafty n sketchy as the jock, gamer, musician, raver etc if not so worse then them, they know they can get away with " why would he do something like that he's so shy?" ...
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i think that you are full of shit. most women hate us with passion. not only we are timid and boring, but above all make them feel alienated and maybe even hated. shyness is taken for distaste towards them.
I'd have to say I agree. I like shy guys cuz I feel like they understand me more because I'm shy too. I never really did understand the "attractive jerk" thing girls were into...
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I have to say I am not really interested in shy guys because they are so hard to read. Also when ever I made the effort to talk its like talking to a wall. I don't now I think I lost interest in them. I think guys who approach you are more interesting to talk to.
From my experience, girls do not like a shy dude. They prefer loud, outgoing douches. That's why I have been working to bring out my inner douche.
ROFL! 90% of women do not like shy guys. I know this because I am one and I have never, ever been considered desirable by any girl I have met.
You probably aren't as shy as you think.
I am very attracted to shy guys even though they can be weirdos. Girls who do not talk much prefer shy guys unlike loud ones.. Outgoing guys can be very annoying.
I don't think they have secrets or etc.
I don't think of anything. If I like them, I like them.
I think it's funny that some of the above guys are telling us girls what we prefer 😂 Personally if he's a 'nice guy', he's in
I've liked shy guys - when I wasn't ready for an actual date.
When I got ready, I didn't like them any more.
Thats so selfish of you.. You use them.. Do you know they too have HEART...
Instead of useing them you could search for someone you really want to be with... Shy guys hardly ditch girls so they do not deserve to be ditched
@PervyBeauty IIIIii don't think you got the gist... I didn't flirt and the discard them. o. O
I liked the idea of them before I got to know what they were like.
For those girls who bash introverts in favour of their attention whores, this song sums up the reality of the most likely outcome between the two.
https://youtu.be/tpht4k_VBhEPersonally I feel shy guys are just as crafty n sketchy as the jock, gamer, musician, raver etc if not so worse then them, they know they can get away with " why would he do something like that he's so shy?" ...
i think that you are full of shit. most women hate us with passion. not only we are timid and boring, but above all make them feel alienated and maybe even hated. shyness is taken for distaste towards them.
I'm not full of shit! I would take a shy guy over an outgoing guy any day!
Shy and introversion are not the same thing. One can be shy and extroverted. Introversion and extroversion are brain chemistries
*Attractive shy guys
by the way, neither has helped me, I suck with confidence and suck with anxiety
Many if he's tall good looking and shy lol if the guys short average and shy he doesn't have a chance
i'd agree the stereotype is that shy guys are nice and sweet and will pay a lot of attention to you
well this is good to know, but were shy, so how do we talk to you girls
The premise of this take is unbelievable steaming horseshit.
Maybe some do but that is in the very small percentage, like the 1%
Agreed, maybe a lower percent lol
@steveguitar well come on now, I was being nice and rounding off! Lol
I don't think it matters if girls like shy guys or not since 90 percent or so of the time she'll never approach him.
I would approach a shy looking guy.
Dominant girls like shy guys because they are easy to conquer ;)
I'd have to say I agree. I like shy guys cuz I feel like they understand me more because I'm shy too. I never really did understand the "attractive jerk" thing girls were into...