Do you have a best guy friend who everyone says is into you? How can you know for sure?
WONDER NO MORE as I reveal the fool-proof method to read the secrets locked inside his heart!
1. HE DOES STUFF FOR YOU WITHOUT YOU ASKING
It's not that guys don't help their bros- they do. But the kind of help he gives you is different. He actively looks for ways to make your life better. Virtually every time you're together he finds something- even a minor thing- to do to help you out. This might involve something as simple as carrying books, taking notes for you during class or a meeting, or giving you a ride somewhere. Guys will do any of the above for their guy friends, sure, but they don't deliberately set out to do so. On some level he thinks that if he does enough little things for you, that'll lead to a relationship. Now, relationships don't really work that way, but (bless his heart) he just doesn't get that.
2. HE CONSTANTLY TRIES TO MAKE YOU LAUGH
Aidan's just hysterical, right? Every time you hang out he's constantly cracking you up. Guys laugh at each other's jokes, but this isn't just joking around, it's performing. There's an important difference, there. Watch his eyes and his smile when he's joking around with you- if he seems to be actively searching for a way to be funny, that is an important clue towards his feelings.
3. HE'S AN AWESOME LISTENER AND RARELY TALKS ABOUT HIMSELF
The very thing that makes him lack confidence to ask you out is the thing that makes him a great listener... he wants conversation to be all about YOU: your life, your work, your triumphs and tribulations. This is because he thinks that by being constantly there for you he'll score points toward a relationship. Tough to hear, I know, but it's 100% true!
4. HE TAKES CARE OF YOU WHEN YOU'RE SICK
This is the NUMBER ONE sign he's into you. He sees you when you're at your weakest and worst and desperately wants to help, both because he thinks it'll impress you and because he genuinely, deeply cares. This is it, ladies. If this happens then the only questions is what you want to do about it, because he is most definitely INTO YOU!
Guys are simple creatures but in spite of this, their behavior can be confusing sometimes. Hopefully, these tips will help someone out there decide where their friendship is heading.... and my next myTake will be what to do about it!