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Why Self-Proclaimed Nice Guys Never Win (Page 3)

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  • Anonymous
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    Mhm, usually other people call me "nice guy", I never referred to myself as "nice guy"... but it still sucks, most girls don't like too introverted and shy guys.

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  • LittleSally
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    Haha Anyone who announces themselves as 'nice' isn't nice at all... Hahaha
    xD

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    • ChromAzonyx108
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      Does that mean that if I were to introduce myself as an asshole then I wouldn't be an asshole?

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    • LittleSally
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      @ChromAzonyx108 Funnily enough no... Those that say they're assholes usually always are. =)

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    • ChromAzonyx108
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      Then who isn't an asshole? Could it be someone who doesn't refer to themselves in either a positive or negative way but rather lets their actions speak for themself?

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    • LittleSally
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      @ChromAzonyx108 Those would be the normal person's actions, yes. Haha

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    • ChromAzonyx108
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      One thing about that is if a person acts like an asshole then they're probably an asshole.

      I don't think I've ever said asshole so many times in a single conversation, lol. Sorry about that.

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    • LittleSally
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      @ChromAzonyx108 agreed. Haha no problem. It needed to be said.

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  • Boomer123
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    Yes, if you have to tell someone you are a nice guy there is something wrong & it's likely you have a lot more to compensate for

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  • microcephalicguy
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    Lol some chubby girl trying to tell me whom I can/ must compare to or not xDD

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    • notenough
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      LOL LMAO HAHAHAH

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  • Anonymous
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    https://i.imgur.com/GfBT1.jpg
    Women dont want mice guys thats why Chris Brown has no problem dating.

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  • Anonymous
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    not all nice guys are fake there are women that genuinely dislike or manipulate true nice guys and genuinely like bad men. the same hapens to good women.

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  • lacorine197
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    I'm starting to believe there's only nice guys that are white knights, because there are guys who some women label as "nice" whom I believe I am a kind person, I'm not a nice person, I'm not a doormat. Simple.

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  • OrdinaryGentleman
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    Uh i can say it in a context like "i can't be mad at you, chill, im a nice guy." I don't flat out scream fuckall in the middle of the street.

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    • Coconutty
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      Yes. That's appropriate. I think this opinion is geared towards guys who approach women with a dating profile or conversation where they say how great they are.

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
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      @Coconutty Ah i see

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  • CoolSky01
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    looks win everytime , bad attitude makes you more straightforward but looks usually decide

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  • ScruffynateAK
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    But I know I'm not a nice guy...
    Why don't I win 😭

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  • ArtDent
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    Nice guys should just keep their mouths shut and giggle as the carnage unfolds :)

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  • violettasanchez
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    Hahahaha I loooved this. I especially hate when they bitch on you for friendzoning them because they're "nice".

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  • BigJake
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    This mytake makes you sound so butthurt. It's lame of you to piss on every guy just because one or two guys humped and dumped you.

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  • John_Doesnt
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    Women want to be treated like crap by guys because they are crap

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  • Anonymous
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    I've heard so much about this nice guy business what about the nice girl for us guys then ah

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  • Anonymous
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    They lose because they don't have looks and/or money.

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  • Anonymous
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    Jeebus If the guy acts fake its turnoff if he's acts too
    nice its a turn off guys can't win.

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  • VictoriousSausage
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    A really good take, it makes a really good point

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  • Coconutty
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    Love this! "Methinks he doth protest too much"

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  • GoldCobra
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    I think it's all just about looks.

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