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10 Traditional Male Gender Roles/Traits I Find Ridiculous And Refuse To Follow (Page 3)
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I agree with most of your points, but unfortunately I love chivalry and appreciate it in a guy. I am not a feminazi, of course, and I have my own job. But I am grateful for a man that is a little old school, I find that charming. It's not completely dead, you know :) some men still do it. And some women still know how to say thank you and be grateful.
A few of those are basic kindness but I get it. Nice take.
Basic kindness that women don't do for men.
@BruceWang
And I believe they should.
But when do they?
@BruceWang When they're worth it.
I know women who DO do the things men usually do, and their man {or their woman} does it for them too.
you are not fooling anyone here kid, they never do this stuff
@Takyon lol yea cause you know every single woman ever.
My thoughts on the common politeness-type gender roles is that I won't do them for a woman if I wouldn't do it for a man. I'll just be polite to everyone who hasn't proven they don't deserve it. Simples.
I would disagree with 4 because that's just being generally polite - doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman here, if you don't hold the door open for someone, then you're probably gonna be judged for being rude :P But the rest are good.
Not always. Others take it as an insult, whilst others take it as a compliment. It's what we call "Double-edged".
Ehhh, it's just considered basic etiquette here in England, like pretty much everyone does it unless you're in London where it's everyone for themselves.
That's basic etiquette anywhere lol, I have no idea why anyone would find holding a door open for someone else offensive. What's offensive is when you hold the door open for someone and they don't say thank you lol, like, rude much?
@EllieLexis513 Then why some women feel insulted?
@EllieLexis513 Its insult for us cuz you are not Lady Diana or Emma Watson, so we have to treat you like princess.
@Darkone1 Opening a door for someone isn't treating them like a princess, it's common courtesy and both men and women do it for each other.
I will agree with you, If "IF" Woman have any interest in treating man with respect.
YOU ASS! So you think you'd look like a chicken if you don't hit a woman back? Does that kind of violent behavior help you feel more like a man? How many times have you been charged with domestic violence? And if you haven't been, how much of a man will you feel like when your put in jail?
Don't you understand I meant in a self-defence way?
There is NEVER an excuse to lay your hands on a woman!! EVER!!! You don't belong in a relationship! You need to attend self-help groups and get over your insecurities!
Yeah, you missed the point completely. Hitting people is wrong in the first place, but if a woman hits you, you shouldn't not hit back because she just so happens to be a woman, that makes no sense at all.
I've honestly never expected me to do any of these for me. The only one I slightly disagree with is holding the door open. I think whoever goes through the door first should hold the door open for the next person. I always hold the door open for the person behind me because it's polite.
I like how many of the women here have nothing but ad hominens to give. Not that I agree with OP but the ladies calling him bitter are no better themselves.
#1 Roids are for meat heads.
#2 Not gonna break my back.
#3 Not in my genetics. I'm 23 and can barely grow a mustache.
#4 You have arms, this isn't 1932.
#5 You ever hit hit me, and you'll get head kicked.
#6 You should have brought your own coat when you knew it was gonna be cold, but I might share.
#7 You can pay for your own.
#8 Again, you have arms. We aren't in the 1900's
#9 NO
#10 I don't even have kids.
www.returnofkings.com/.../what-lack-of-testosterone-does-to-the-male-brain-and-how-to-fix-it
There is a website that will help you discover your masculinity.
ROK LOL
Hahahahaha
I don't believe in those estrogen/testosterone shit personally. I call it bullshit.
when have testosterone and its essential to being a man. When did masculinity become a hate crime?
Other things make a man dude.
without testosterone your just a woman with a penis.
If you dont want to weightlift don't, but don't criticize others for wanting to better them self. Maybe if you exercise instead of criticizing others you would fit in a suit better or carrying heavy object for women wouldn't be a problem. If worrying about who paying for a date maybe just go for a walk in a park instead of a dinner. Chivalry is not dead. You just don't believe in doing it.
Yeah walk in a park is better.
I think 2,4,6,& 8 should be done
there's nothing wrong with carrying something heavy or openning / holding a door for a woman...
Everything else is double standard
Self defense especially should be genderless
And the double standard for stay ag home dads really shouldn't be there but it is... I don't know im ine of those people that has bothing wrong with a guy or woman staying home to raise their kids
Well if I was paid for carrying that something, then I'd accept.
What makes you so againts helping a woman carry something heavy? Lol
Unless she's a bitch lol
It's silly.
All of these traitd are sexy af lol
If a man has these I'm willing to be the best wife ever <3 But I want to work though.
Typical sexist hypocrite. I noticed they made you moderator as well. Feminazis made this site.
@bobbyxx how is she a sexist hypocrite? Freakin retard.
@bobbyxx locker time
These traits are my ideal too <3
I would still do some of that stuff for a woman! If a woman finds a man who is acting like a gentleman and is treating her like a lady, she'll be so attracted to him and vise versa! Gentlemen should always handle women with care because some of them can be very fragile.
Awwe. 😍😍😍😍
@dwiller943 that's just the way I was raised.
Haha, I kind of agree with you. Men don't have to do all those things ( opening doors, pulling out chairs etc) but if they do it's nice Though women could and should do it also at times. The fighting thing I get cause no one is supposed to be hitting anyone in the first place.
I agree with 1,2,3,9 and an extent 10.
The others are called being a decent human being. I would do it for my fellow man, in fact, I do. You are just taking a stance against kindness and being a twat.
Decent human being about 7? I mean about guy paying the dates.
No. I always offer to pay at least half, but if you are the person who asked for the date you should be prepared to pay for the whole date.
I'm very up front about whether I can afford to go or not. That way a guy can choose to continue with the plans or not.
I agreee with you on 5 and 7... some go on fake dates just to get a free meal cuz thier gold diggers. as far as the hit some women have a dam ego on thier own then then thier hit they cry and pretend it was no fault of their own cuz she has a vagina. its b. s some women need to take responsibility for them selves
I can't really give a fuck about any of em and dont really any of them neither like at all exept 1 & 2 and I can bet anything I still pull more than these people on here combined lmao But getting jacked and lifting heavy , that make you stronger OP and being stronger is always better choice
Where being jacked has actually helped you?
Don't say shit like it makes me more manly, because it's bullshit and you know it. Where did it actually helped you as a person?
1) Football, I play middle linebacker and hit like truck 2) Whooping ass, I can almost whoop almost anyones ass baha 3) I am bigger than most of them and chicks dig big jacked dudes 4) I can get away with more shit lol and mant more. Mirin?
OP polo is legit going d1 brah lol. You going to hate on him for that if he makes draft and pull millions?
@Fearless_banana "where being jacked has actually helped you?"
This guy made another mytake a while back saying that jocks are feminine lol.
@Fearless_banana lmao found anither one, wedgie em before he run
If you whoop ass for your own entertainment, then you're an asshole.
... and?
Do you enjoy being an asshole?
You are a lazy slob who doesn't want to have anything to offer.
Got it.
I mean you totally don't have to do any of that, just don't cry when you get "friendzoned" in favor of people who actually have things to offer.
I never cried about it.
Ain't nothing inherently wrong with any of the stuff listed.
Most things you don't have to follow if you don't want.
"Chivalry is dead! Get over it!
Do you know what chivalry means?
the medieval knightly system with its religious, moral, and social code.
I'm not a knight, so therefore I don't have to follow chivalrous things. lol.
If this was about women, everyone would be encouraging you lol some guys are right. This is pool of "white knights" who rarely get action irl or ever talked to a woman in real life and feminazis. Even their site admins opinion is like that lol this site is doomed
Yes I know, the feminazis remove anything that criticize them as well and ban accounts.
@bobbyxx lol yep this site is like opposite of real worlf and if its really about giving solutions for questions in people life, it sucks because people are barely like this irl. They prolly neber get out much eigther
i agree with a lot of your points, but no one should hit anyone. otherwise, nice job.