5 More Annoying Things People Should Never Say To Men Who Give Up

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I wrote a myTake about five things people shouldn't say to men who give up on women but instead it backfired with more things people say about men who give up, so this myTake consists of more stupid things people say. It's so ironic because the myTake wasn't about why I gave up on women. I wasn't talking about myself personally.

The main intention was to educate people about what they shouldn't say if they ever personally know of a man (family member or friend) or come across any other man (it doesn't matter) who gave up on women. But the myTake partially consisted of people discussing my personal life and why they think I'm wrong. They were trying to force their views on my personal life but it didn't work. That attitude hasn't changed my decision at all and it made me even more committed to living a celibate lifestyle.

I wrote something original and wanted to give people the perspective of a man who lives like this. Social justice is something that liberals tend to be more concerned about so it surprised me that some of the people who I thought were "liberals" aren't really liberals after all because they insulted me too. But it's pretty obvious that a person who doesn't care about other people wouldn't mind being disrespectful to another person...

"You're so young"

This is usually said when someone thinks that a man who's over 18 years of age is too young to make a decision like that. If they change their mind, so what? But what if they don't? When you say that to someone it makes you sound condescending. You shouldn't treat an 18 years old (and above) man as a child who can't make and keep a decision, especially if the decision has nothing to do with you.

"You're misogynistic or _____"

This is called jumping into conclusions because if a man gives up on women it doesn't necessarily mean he's misogynistic or something else. It's no different than any other insult. If he really is, then you should consider it as a good thing that he gave up on women because no woman would have to deal with him. Or he probably doesn't hate women but saying these things to him will probably make him want to dislike women.

"You're part of MGTOW"

Again, people should stop jumping into conclusions. Not all men in MGTOW gave up on women and not all men who gave up on women are part of that group.

"Why did you give up?"

The reason does not matter. There are plenty of things people bring up but we don't ask them more questions about it because it is a personal matter. It can be for any personal reason. It's none of your business unless he wants to give further information about why he gave up.

"If you don't want to hear it, then why mention it?"

If a man mentions that to you, it's probably because he thinks he can trust you with that information. It's probably because you keep asking him questions about his nonexistent love life. If you say something ignorant to him or you insult him then you are horrible person and you don't deserve to be a part of his life.

Silence isn't going to cure ignorance. Silence is going to make him feel more lonely and alienated. You shouldn't ostracize someone for not fitting the norm. Another person's lifestyle is not something that is up to debate. If someone mentions an aspect of their life, it doesn't mean it's up to debate. It's still none of your damn business.

Yeah, I don't want to see any more of it so I'm not going to allow any more comments on this subject.

Oh this is a funny, random GIF I found on the internet. Just thought it'd be funny to include it.