I see yeah I knew guys like that too. Who used to complain about not getting girlfriends but turned out to be complete asshole. So don't worry I get what you're saying and I agree :).
Another female turning nice guys into a bad thing. So if nice guys have all these problems what point is there in being nice if it never gets a guy what he wants from the opposite sex?
Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Being nice is being vilified because of opinions like this. It doesn't help a guy to be nice, genuine or not, when the women are of the opinion that nice guys aren't really nice. Those guys who she thinks are nice though? Oh yes, let's not forget she has bad taste in men and that guy is only being nice to sleep with her. Then they break up after they can't settle their differences while Mr. Nice Guy was overlooked because he's considered a patsy.
That's the thing, there's not a point in being "Nice." The women who have been the most attracted to me were ones I treated as Neutral. Being nice seems fake, even if it's completely genuine.
A woman's PERCEPTION of you is what matters. That's why guys who are actually nice get viewed as pussies, while the one's women view as "Strong protectors" are the ones who wind up beating them and putting them in a hospital.
Be nice if that's who you are, but realize that as far as a dating strategy goes it is simply insufficient. Your job isn't to BE better than the dozen shitbags she dated before; your job is to SEEM better than then. That's what gets your foot in the door. Only AFTER she has slept with you, should you treat her nice. If you treat her nice before hand, she'll wrongfully assume you're being fake and just want to sleep with her.
A MASSIVE part of this is learning the myriad of false assumptions that women make, remember, perception is everything. Cheers.
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I want a vulnurable girl because then she will be easy to abuse!
You hit the nail on the head with this one.
Well these guys are quite fake lol
but there are nice guys and doormats these guys are doormats
Yes but these so called guys i've known call themselves "nice guys" :)
I see yeah I knew guys like that too. Who used to complain about not getting girlfriends but turned out to be complete asshole. So don't worry I get what you're saying and I agree :).
Yes that’s the type lol, and thanks. 😊
You're welcome :)
Another female turning nice guys into a bad thing. So if nice guys have all these problems what point is there in being nice if it never gets a guy what he wants from the opposite sex?
You missed the point brother, she's saying these type of guys aren't real 'nice guys'. I think you may be exactly what she's talking about, no offense
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Did you actually read the introduction? Or did you just skim through, ready to take offence?
@Napoli I don't think he read any of it lol
Unfortunately I did read it.
Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Being nice is being vilified because of opinions like this. It doesn't help a guy to be nice, genuine or not, when the women are of the opinion that nice guys aren't really nice. Those guys who she thinks are nice though? Oh yes, let's not forget she has bad taste in men and that guy is only being nice to sleep with her. Then they break up after they can't settle their differences while Mr. Nice Guy was overlooked because he's considered a patsy.
Ugh I'm done, it's so much easier to block you.
That's the thing, there's not a point in being "Nice." The women who have been the most attracted to me were ones I treated as Neutral. Being nice seems fake, even if it's completely genuine.
A woman's PERCEPTION of you is what matters. That's why guys who are actually nice get viewed as pussies, while the one's women view as "Strong protectors" are the ones who wind up beating them and putting them in a hospital.
Be nice if that's who you are, but realize that as far as a dating strategy goes it is simply insufficient. Your job isn't to BE better than the dozen shitbags she dated before; your job is to SEEM better than then. That's what gets your foot in the door. Only AFTER she has slept with you, should you treat her nice. If you treat her nice before hand, she'll wrongfully assume you're being fake and just want to sleep with her.
A MASSIVE part of this is learning the myriad of false assumptions that women make, remember, perception is everything. Cheers.
Wow.. Canadians are the biggest huh?
Who knew? xD
I respect women
You do.
This was a pretty neat read.
Alas, if only women's actions matched their words.
I agree.
Since when do nice guys care about cocks?
Ok, we get it
i like nice guys