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Alpha Men and Why I Love Them (Page 3)
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Lol the environment I live in/ in my life, there are a lot of them ! Well there are mainly 3 types of guys : alpha men, « bros » & artists. And I’m speaking about my friends, my family members...
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You didn't describe alpha men here. You described all the things you desire in a man, and one of them is being an alpha. You don't know what you're talking about here,.
read the disclaimers
Doesn't help. You've ascribed all these traits to "alpha men" that literally have nothing to do with being alpha.
Being alpha by definition is being a leader. An alpha in a pack of wolves leads (which where the term originated from). What should a leader be? Powerful (check) Charismatic aka to speak well, be mature... (check), Smart (check), Unstoppable, in order to lead you have to always set more goals and to motivated in order to motivate others (check). “Literally” nothing to do with being alpha?
It has noting to do with taste in cars (very subjective), preference for drinks (also 100% subjective), doing anything for the people they love (many alpha men are very selfish and treat their loved ones like shit), loving deeply (most alphas tend to be aloof and resist deep connections), are not great lovers (they tend to be very selfish lovers, actually). I could go on.
Again, you are painting a picture base don you the image you have in your head for the ideal man, which has very little to do with the reality of alphas.
As you say lots of girls will find this type of man attractive
Yes !!
You're in love with fictional characters and furthermore narcissists. "Past relationships" is the correct phrase and also the proper emphasis (you hit it right on the button) - That's what they will always be. But whatever floats I suppose.
Well when you end a relationship is usually because you want it to stay on the past... that’s like the whole purpose !
@myTake Owner
not sure you understand what this guy is saying 😂
@betaTester You're right. She doesn't get it smh..
I perfectly understood what he said don’t worry, I just replied according to the way he formulated what he said. That aside, I don’t really care about the “forever”, “family” thing in general and I’m currently speaking to a guy who’s very close to what I described.
do the same but for a firl, how would the classic traits of the girl of the alpha
They can also be emotionally closed off and grade A jerks. Just saying...
To be clear, it's not that they are all these things -- it's that these are the things you want them to be. This is not "alpha men" this a caricature of them. Okay, carry on.
A caricature would present them under a bad light? I don’t think I did, it’s a praise... but ok
I wouldn't say this is a "alpha" man but a masculine man who is confident and just masculine...
Well for most points yes but if you take “power” into account, alphas are supposed to lead so... !
The concept of alphas and betas doesn't apply to humans, it doesn't even apply to wolfs...
Realistically speaking, there are plenty of guys who can embody these traits & still won't get the girl.
Well it’s because it depends on the girl and what she likes
A lot of you (some/most, all) women these days like soft men. I'm talking about being attracted to boys with cats, "men" who wear makeup, take as many selfies as a girl, can't operate tools, but will be disgusted by a guy who drinks beer, has dirty hands because of work, listens to heavy metal, etc. Maybe it's a millennial thing?
Hence why it depends if that guy is going to be her type or not. So some aspects of the Alpha male may work or it may not,... depending on the type of guy she likes.
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They don't really prefer those men. They might say they do, but how often does what they say they want match up with reality? The only reason they say those things because they've been brainwashed by feminism to reject masculine men, and told that they should prefer a "sensitive" man. However social conditioning will never erase millions of years of evolution and it's more natural for them to prefer a strong man over a weakling and they always will be.
In fact when you look at most of the male feminists here, in fact many on this thread, who do nothing but bash masculinity and claim that it's outdated - because they don't fit the standard - look at their profiles and look through their previous answers. Most of them tend to look effeminate, and most tend to be virgins. Those who do have partners you notice say that their girlfriend/wife has sex with them less than they'd wish because their girlfriends aren't actually that turned on by them.
@englisc I really do prefer those kind of man but I AGREE 100% with the fact that people are bashing this type of guy because they aren’t it
why things about "alpha" males makes me cringe so hard? Every aplha male is insecure as fuck, and im talking from experience
actually no, saying an alpha male is insecure is like saying a bald guy has long hair - its contradictory and impossible. the issue is you are mistaking alpha males for retarded man boys who want to look tough and alpha, but in reality they come off as brain damaged teenagers, and are avoided by everybody except teenage girls
@PsychoKiller i very rarerly see alpha guy. Most of them are beta or wanna be gangsta. Alpha is basicly "wanna be gangsta" but insecure as fuck. No one is alpha, some people are more insecure and some people are less insecure. Its basicly ur "EGO". For example people consider me as super tough guy and alpha but in reallity im scared of approaching my crush. We all have insecurities
Yes, everybody does have insecurities, but natural real alpha guys are overall far more confident than the average guy, and handle their insecurities far better than most guys, so calling them "insecure as fuck" isn't really adequate
I just want to point out that I hate anyone who pretends he’s something he’s not no matter what he’s pretending to be like. But some people are genuinely like that.
well everyone is pretending that they are "something they are not". Tbh i find that retarded. At my place where i live its super popular to wear baseball hat and hoodies (to look like badboy/gangster) and to walk like they are mentally retarded and to harass other people. And for example im obssesed about my body image so that means i look "good". Those guy will never harass me but i can harass them and thing is i never dress like gangsta.
Today in class super cocky guy who is bald/hoodie/baseball hat/black outfit think's he is super tough guy, first thing he did (new class) he scanned whole area and possible to bully people. Ofcourse people who dress normally are first one who he is going to bully. He and his 5 friends already started bullying other and making fun of. He was watching me for a hour and when i took my jacket off he just inmidietly turned around and never looked in me again.
and i know when i have class next time i will be first person he will approach and want to be friend with me cuz im "muscular" and that is "cool", no one will touch him if im in his company lmao. Its everytime like that. Exactly same scenario every time
Under 18 means ya don't know as much aa you think you do.
Just saying. Don't be mad at me. Be mad at puberty.
@Fgnbvcgghj this made me cringe even more
Lol what you said nearly embarrassed me of being a male.
Go somewhere else, kid.
@Fgnbvcgghj that momment when fat American try to turn you down, i feel dissapointed
Now I'm disappointed in myself.
I mean, I'm actually putting down a 17 year old loser kid.
Sorry, man. I'll go reevaluate my life, or something.
@Fgnbvcgghj im not 17 on website and even my age which is "16" is false lmaooooo we got a wanna be hacker kiddo here
I do not believe that everyone is pretending to be someone they’re not but there’s something called your fantasized self and that we all have.
"alpha men". Such a thing doesn't exist. Keep your narcissism to yourself pls
It does though xD
Sure it does. Would you like to beg me for a job?
The only people that believe this shit think that they are alphas
"The only people that believe this think that they are alphas"
And the women that flock to them.
It is true, dude. There is a pecking order among men, and some of us are on top.
The funny thing about your reply to yourself is that following YOUR logic, it would also be accurate to say that "the only people who don't believe this shit know they aren't alphas". let that sink in
No it's simply understanding people's egos. If you think women flock to "alphas" you don't talk to many women. All it is is an ego boost
Also people who don't believe it wouldn't think to catgorize themselves like that. Rethink your logic lady fam
"If you think women flock to "alphas" you don't talk to many women."
I always talk to women before I sleep with them.
Women do indeed line up for alpha men. It is part of evolution. Unfortunately, a long dead Pope put an end to polygamy, otherwise we would still see powerful men having many wives and concubines (we still have concubines).
Lol sure you do walterradio sure you do lmao. Nice inflated ego there. Typical of someone who thinks alphas are a thing
Go read through some of those "Most beautiful women in the world" lists of actresses, models and other celebrities. Have you slept with any on those lists? I have. Do you know why? Because I am an alpha and you are not.
HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Thanks for proving my point
You have it backwards.
You can't read
Lol, that sounds like me 😂😂. Didn’t even think of it until I saw this post I thought I was just a regular guy I don't know these traits were mine. I’ll go with it
Good for you haha ! 😊
Women love alpha males
Yes we do !
And alphas enjoy women, lots of them, and then get rid of them when they are done. Women love them, and supply and demand ensures unlimited groupies. The question I'd ask is does reality love women who chase alphas?
@JMghow I dont do chasing and being a womaniser is a characteristic that ANY type of man can have so not every alpha is necessarily a Don Juan
If you don't chase, how will you get an Alpha? Competition is fierce for the top picks, and there is a near-endless supply of competition who will chase. Alphas know this, and know they can always go back to this. Not saying you'd be better off with some desperate creep who feels entitled for being a "nice guy", just pointing out reality as I see it.
Why am I even reading this, i feel like shooting myself after posts like this...
Please don’t lol
We can shoot ourselves together. ❤️
@yougin392 beware of the secret services ❤️
Why?
@Youngin392 good idea, we can save bullets that way
No woman is worth dying for, especially not one chasing other men. Learn to be comfortable with just yourself. Until you have that, you are not whole. How can half a person have a healthy anything?
@JMghow No one is worth dying for period
Not no one, and not nothing. Sometimes, every now and again, something comes along which is worth it... but not over bitterness at losing out to another, or listening to nonsense.
The things you mentioned need not be the traits of an alpha male
Some of them are, real other replies 😘
I don't even know how I should feel about this. Moving on...
and apparently their all white, according to this post lol
Seriously? Pretty sure Alphas aren't so insecure that they need their picture in every post or cry about inclusivity, but what do I know? I'm happily Omega.
Nah they aren't just the pics I chose from TV shows I like with quotes related to the title. There are black celebrities that are alpha : Idriss Elba, Michael B Jordan...
Why is Keving Spacey in here?
He likes young boys... sexually.
Kevin Spacey isn’t there, Frank Underwood is. I’m thinking about the character and not the actor.
Damn, Frank Underwood is a total badass-alpha male.
But it is Kevin Spacey still, all things being said.
Kevin Spacey is a piece of shit and I hate saying that because he used to be my favorite actor with Christoph Waltz and Collin Firth.
But now I can’t even look at him, still love his films/impressions but he lost all my respect.
Right. An excellent actor.
In other words, you need a guy to save you from danger lol
A massive turn off
That guy IS the danger. He's gonna cheat on her, beat her, and not provide any support for any baby that happens to form from a one night stand.
No I don’t lol, there’s no “danger”. The reason why I want someone like that is because I’m like that but a female version of it.