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There are literally nice guys everywhere. They literally have not gone anywhere.
Umm, he's talking more about in the late 20's to early 30's that women start asking that, you're still in the goldilock's zone
@razelove I’m not 20 or 30 yet, but I’m pretty sure there are still nice guys in that age range.
Yeah, the circle just gets smaller. There are about 5 people I can think of that I'm nice to, as in would go out of my way to help for no gain to myself other than seeing them happy, or in less of a pickle. Otherwise my first question is where do I benefit?
@razelove Then you’re probably not a genuinely nice person. Genuinely nice people are nice even when they don’t benefit. That’s the whole point of being a genuinely nice person. Good people are just good because that’s where their morals lie and they stick to them.
I never said I was a nice guy, I'm honest. I will kill a man in front of his own mother if that's what it takes to protect the people I'm close to, hell, even if someone just pays enough. Genuinely nice people. You are naive child. I just had to help my roommate out this morning because she was roofied, someone was going to wait for her to pass out and rape her in broad daylight.
This is not a nice world, and your "genuinely nice people" whatever this article wants to say get taken advantage of. Also you can't be a nice person if you aren't capable of cruelty, you're just a pacifist. Having no power to act makes a big difference.
@razelove I’m not saying be a doormat. I’m saying that being genuinely nice means doing good things without expecting anything in return. For example giving money to a homeless person. That homeless person will probably never you back, but some people give them money just because it’s the kind thing to do. Some guys do nice things for women expecting sex in return. Those guys aren’t nice guys. The real nice guys just do kind things because that’s just the way they are. You don’t have to be a doormat to be nice. You are allowed to be a nice guy and defend yourself and the people you love. The world is not a nice place, but the only way we can make it better is if people are nicer to each other.
Or if we all carry guns. I'll give money to homeless veterans, like legit they had an MOS and unit they were with, otherwise they're just going to get high anyway. I had an experiment with that a while back with home made sandwiches, so they couldn't try going back to the store to get a refund. Every time you try offering food you find it in the same spot or a couple feet away.
Honestly I don't think we need to be nicer to each other to make the world a better place. I think we need to take more time to get to know our neighbors. Less people would be homeless or in dire straits in the first place if we did.
Goodness me. The friend zone doesn’t exist. A woman doesn’t have to date anyone she doesn’t want to. Attraction builds over time and psychological studies show that kindness is something that women are attracted to. If you can’t handle a girl exercising her free choice then bad luck to you
Right on the money. when I read this article it was like a reality check. I wrote an article myself but its not as well written as this
It's so simple, so cynical, so zen
And so true
I was involved in this type of "relationship"
I never let it change me though
My question is did the nice guy come out and say he liked the woman. Women aren't mind readers either.
Dead on. I am a "nice guy" to friends, but I do act differently if I am interested in a woman.
I learned a long time ago the hard way.
Bottom-line, guy or girl, why date an ass/bitch? If he/she is bad at least a few times in a couple days, dump his/her ass, if it happens enough they might just take the hint and you're happier
In the famous words of Clarke Griffin: "There are no good guys."
Well said, I wish this could be sent to every woman so they could appreciate us more :)
They went underground cause most people nowadays believe in looks and if ain't got them, then go fall in a ditch, Fuck today's society I wish these pricks would fucking drop dead
I'm right here! Why? Who's looking for me? I'll bet she's some kind of psycho because normal girls only want guys that beat the fuck out of them.
regardless of what you say, there are still nice guys out there.
& this reminds me of Pretty and Pink. God was I jealous of that girl. I never had one of these.
I'm actually saddened by the fact that I never had one of those.
LOL. https://www.theonion.com/articles/but-if-we-started-dating-it-would-ruin-our-friends,11473/
I was nice to many girls and women. I dated none. I sought to date none. if they wanted me, they should have showed it.
GIRL DIDN'T WANT US SO WE BECAME PLAYAS, DEADBEATS AND HOME WRECKERS.
WE TRIED. THEY DIDN'T WANT US.
All the nice guys are in Summerset Isle. The rest of the men are lowly fools.
Amen to that. If you don't take us for granted, ladies.
We got sick of dealing with pent-up, man-hating, lying, manipulative bitches and found solid ride-or-die women to marry and stay with.