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yeah thats a bunch of bullshit. within two minutes of seeing a guy at first glance the woman instantly knows if the guy is going to get friendzoned or if she'll fuck him. i've seen this exact scenario played out yesterday with my very own eyes at the apple store by a pushy salesman who would not take no for an answer and the woman friendzoned him and got the hell out of the store faster than a bat out of hell. So the whole confidence thing is pure BS. Sure it helps but not as much as you think. The woman already knows from first glance if she's going to fuck him or friendzone him regardless of what ever BS comes out of his mouth
I remember reading that feminism would do this to people. I'm not against feminism in any way shape or form. Maybe politically correct is the word for it.
But back to my first thought was women really want men to be men. I have been through plenty stabbed leg broke in 7 places even pistol whipped. I don't look for anymore crap, and I don't take any. I'm laid back and know what to do when it comes time for it.
Treat women with respect. I don't expect women to have to do things. I know how to work on my car but usually have someone else do it.
I’m going to go by paragraph.
1. If we got all the confident men in the world in one room would the best example completely nullify the other confident men in the room?
Most men I know wouldn’t be intimidated by either men or women in the room but some would definitely instantly become friends with everyone. I do agree with the rest of the paragraph but I was kind of hoping you did some research into why the numbers are dropping instead of committing a circular reasoning fallacy at the start of the next paragraph.
2. First of all I wouldn’t count fixing a car a feat of strength, that seems like more of a math problem in a way. Most men don’t build houses because not all men become construction workers even though it is a male dominated field. I don’t act like females but I think the reason why some of us do is because we can’t think of any other way to understand how you women think because we still haven’t figured it out since the beginning of time.
3. Most of us wouldn’t fight because we knew in most cases it wouldn’t solve anything. I know if my friends tried to kill me I’ll knock some sense into them but most of the people who give me shit are women and I know it is because they know they can get away with it knowing I can’t hit back. That’s why I would say a man would feel inferior to women because his mother might have beat the shit out of him at a young age for being late or something like that and telling him that he will never amount to anything since the day he was born. But of course you don’t say that as a reason why the numbers are going down possibly because the number of female abusers shot up thanks to the Duluth model. Also, I’m surprised to hear that more men are afraid of guns as most of the ones I know hunt or have been in the BSA.
4. That being said, there is no excuse for anyone to abuse anyone else. Any level headed man will know to treat you with respect. Also, being afraid of women is more likely for the man to not abuse you if you ask me. “Females are supposed to fight females” good, tell your friends to stop slashing our tires when they see our sister’s name on our call list and convinced themselves that we are cheating you based on that, burn our stuff or attack us in public and get praised for doing so because we are sick of it.
5. What does being afraid of men have anything to do with being abusive to women? Do you know why you never hear us say “I need a good cry”? Because unlike what your fellow women tell you, we are human and have emotions too. We are expected to suck it up and be a man whenever shit happens to us. You on the other hand grew up expected to be coddled when you burst into tears. I’m sure you have had at least one romantic partner who has had trouble opening up to you because every time he did, he is told that he is wrong for feeling that way.
In conclusion, I know I went a little strong but I like the message. I wish you did a little research though.
The 'confident' male is always termed as a 'fuckboy' or a bad guy type, that's why they seem rare. The internet and the incels trample on them all the time so they don't dare talk about their masculinity or their confidence.
I'm thankful my boyfriend is confident, physically strong, laid back, can protect me and would do anything for me, whilst treating me like a princess. ♥
Honestly if he needs to go through all that he should consider looking into babysitting
@Malik00 I know it's tough to hear that other guys are stronger and more confident than you. Doesn't mean you have to talk shit about them.
Honey I this day and age the last thing i need is dead weight, If you found someone who's willing to serve you hand and foot, i'm happy for you. I'm gonna hold out until i find a woman that's even remotely competent, and for your boytoy's sake hope that he finds someone better.
And just in case you're that dense, i'm not talking shit about your boyfriend, i'm talking shit about you. Be a better women and learn to actually be able to take care of yourself, instead of relying on others to do things for you.
@Malik00 she's right and you're bickering like a chick to a chick
Stop acting like a chick
@Hannah591
He called you honey...
You see what I'm saying😂
You're right I'm sorry I forgot only women are allowed to be emotional and speak their minds, men need to just up and take whatever people throw at them. I'm sorry I thought we were suppose to be striving for equality. Just remember this, if I'm not allowed to speak my mind, then I suggest you dont complain when I tell you to go in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.
... entitled cunt
@Malik00
Wow, so many false assumptions made about a man you've never met. Everyone's unique, they don't fit in a box and you're reading into it far too much. I'm sorry your life has lead to such an immense feeling of bitterness that you shit on other people to make yourself feel better about your own inadequacies. I've been taking care of myself just fine, I actually have more money than my partner does if that's what you're trying to refer to. I hope you find actually find a woman one day so she can rid you of your incel bitterness.
@Malik00 I haven't read your banter almost 100 men have got butt hurt just like you. No wonder women reject you. Your fighting with a girl TOUGH GUY💪.
get in line😂😂😂😂
@Hannah591
And they wonder why we prefer confident men?😉
I just love how interprets being treated like a princess must mean I'm like a baby who doesn't take care of herself. My meaning of being treated like a princess does not mean having him buy everything for me, but he's going on the attack based on his own backwards assumption. Women have jobs and careers now, idiot! @wowgirl30q He's confident online, but he wouldn't be face to face with my boyfriend lmao!
I eat weak men like that for breakfast. I love our guys sound similar.
@Hannah591
20/100 have been okay with this and not personally offended 😂.
Almost every guy on GAG gets triggered when you mention a dominant male haha. It never used to be like this. @wowgirl30q
Really?
Well color me trouble 😃
Me doing MMA just adds to it.
You really like the Diaz brothers huh lol. They were my favorite for a while too, but I have no idea as to why Nate is bitching out of every fight he gets offered now. I've definitely lost a lot of respect.
They are not the same I agree
Diaz always has serious anxiety issues. I like him a lot and they’re an interesting case study in how to build up enough confidence to push through in life. Respect to them, but if you take the brash bullshit they spew at face value you’re falling for the pep talk they’re giving themselves.
If I have to be unnaturally confident you have to have big boobs, nice ass and fit. I mean if I have to become what you want you should become what men want.
Confidence isn't key. Sure it's good to have some but you ladies demand unrealistic levels of confidence. Most of the time the confidence you speak of is just arrogance and sociopathy from men.
So true I have a confident guy I'm not confident myself tbh but he will always protect me when I'm too little to fight
Come at me feminists
Yayyyyy
@Wowgirl30q
Basically by your way of thinkung if you had a building and put 1,000 guys in there only the toughest, most macho and most laid back guy would be confident. That would mean 999 guys at that time would have no confidence. That is ridiculous.
Mellow out man
@Wowgirl30q
I was calm when I typed it and I am still calm.
I don't know but I'll take your word for it
I'm a nice girl I'm just misunderstood
"He doesn't care what people think, and stands up for what he believes in."
Love that.
He doesn't care 😀
Most men's stance on feminism lol
@zozo7880 I'm not a feminist bro
Yeah - No problem everyone has their own definition of a confident real man and women are attracted to different types of confidence - I am fine with any type once they don't judge each other for doing their own thing - If they are happy with themselves and we are happy with ourselves (whoever you are), does the difference really matter
Unfortunately what most people seem to consider to be a confident man is usually an egotistical man. Confident men don't need to fight to know that they are the toughest man in the room and a confident man will never fight for a woman who is purposely flirting with other men just to try to get her man to fight for her. Women always seem to mistake confidence for egotism all the time. A real confident man doesn't need to fight to prove anything. A real man will back away from a fight before starting one and will only fight in self defense.
First part is great, but the the implication that a confident man should always respect and treat well all women all the time is dumb as fuck and contradicts the first and foremost truth of being a confident man.
Confident men dont take shit from women, they put em in their place. We speak our mind even if it means everyone else gets angry or uncomfortable.
But nice try trying to bake that shit in there XD
Not being able to fix cars doesn't make men not masculine. Also, there are appropriate times to be stern with women and yell, when she is intentionally failing and hurting others in your life and seems not to care how you feel about it.
Lack of confidence does not make women not like men. There is no rule stating that it must be the case.
Okay
I've never met a woman that wanted real confidence from a man. They always want fake confidence, guys who act confident but are hiding their psychological insecurities. Like those dudes with sports cars, they wear a fancy suit all the time and too much cologne. Those dudes have serious insecurities, but women like that fake confidence.
No I'm a black belt
you're a purple belt
Nope
So confidence is just a show, not how men really are?
Why do women call men shallow when men who are insecure, corny, outcast, confident or whatever, always cape for women, especially "their" women? A unrelated woman will be first to look upon a man with disgust if he cries. Women really need to look at themselves, and that's not any misogyny. It's a question of where the respect for benevolence, honor and loyalty is.
This take is like saying, "who cares about the condition of men's human experience, they need to shut up and be sexy for women".
It's honestly toxic.
Don't read it next time.
These toxic takes break records on gag
Sorry bro
I did get triggered so, fair enough. I might think there are finer works of fiction out there but 50 Shades of Gray has the records. I'm just one person
You do realize that nick Diaz has been charged in the past with domestic violence with his ex gf? He’s also a perpetual pothead and is showing signs of CTE. But that’s what an alpha male is huh? I met him in real life by the way and I actually got along with him. But that was many years ago before he got all screwed up.
I agree with this BUT these posts never say how to treat hos. Yes real men protect provide and respect a lady but you can't just go around in todays society doing that because MOST women are specifically trying to take advantage of men who behave like that.
Ah the confident shirtless male whose confidence comes from hitting people.
I was waiting for you
It's like a compliment and a jab...
I'm glad you see it that way :)
Why?
Because GaG is supposed to be fun. So you get compliments and friendly jabs.
I love your humor
I didn't mean it bad. I love an intelligent smartass😀
Thanks sweetheart.
Anytime sir😂
I usually say I love a good prick but some people think that's a bad thing.
It's not a bad thing
I call myself a lady jerk
I posses all of the character traits of speaking my mind, loving to fight, and having minor skills in mechanics and am actually extremely insecure, this isn't accurate, those aren't so much traits of confidence as they are skills or just not letting yourself be pissed on
confident people are usually people who have something to be confident about. it's either looks, money, intelligence or some useful talent. if a guy doesn't have anything special to be confident about then that's overconfidence, it means he's flaunting when he has nothing to flaunt about.