I like how most of these posts when it comes to what makes a man it has to be a guy with tons of money or good looks or buff bods. good lord is this seriously how people betray men as. the alpha above the rest. shit makes no sense, I tell ya what makes ya a man it's a thing called genetics and gender, your a man if you were born as it or changed into it, now what kinda a man you are is what society or your own mindset likes to label on you, you can be successful, pathetic. strong, weak, top, bottom, honestly society has so many fucking labels for people to the point where it's just ridiculous. at the end of the day who the hell cares what others call you?
Well number 1- it's different types of alpha males. The useful and the useless. It's a fact. 2- it's different types of beta males, the useful and the useless. It's a fact. A alpha male could command the ship but it's nothing with out the beta Male keeping the ship operating. A real man both alpha and beta is someone you can count on and you want around you because they are good for you. Real men have emotions and when it's time to display it they will, anger, hurt, joy, happiness, pain, embarrassment, love, affection, etc. You can be a bad ass alpha in the streets but a 4 year old daughter can make you do some crazy shit and you will do it please her.
Men are human. You women need to start respecting that instead of telling us who you want us to be. I have reached an age where I just don't give a fuck anymore. It doesn't matter. It's overrated. Everyone is running around like headless chickens chasing something they don't know what is.
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As if men don’t do the same thing to us 😂 But no, really, if you don’t care you don’t have to. Nobody’s forcing you to. Honestly, we don’t care if you care, because we are the picky ones and we’ll choose the ones who do. It’s your life to live, not ours, but we aren’t concerned with how you view it. We will just pick a better man. 🤷🏻♀️
You do realize, yads, that to be attractive and get a man all women need to do, literally the only thing, is not be the fattest girl in her immediate area? That's it. The sole requirement revolves around eating less and going to the gym occasionally.
You want to bitch, let's examine what it takes for a man to be attractive. Women love life in the training level of easy mode in the game if life; guys play on realistic hardcore with mods attached against us.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I'm not "bitching," and I'm also not here for the trouble. So chill out. But to reply to what you said... It's not women's fault that men are so desperate. That pretty much sums it up.
A lot of men start out as the "I don't know what do you want to do?" nice guys. Only to be kicked in the nads by women every time. After awhile we can tired of this and say "enough". If you have a problem with male behavior toward women just keep in mind that it is women who made these men that way.
@joeblow123 Two problems with that: 1) He's not going to have a chance to find out if she doesn't want to give him that chance to get to know her, date, etc. a, k, a, if she's not interested. So either way he doesn't leave knowing who's better. 2) Better FOR HIM would make sense here... but the thing about that, is we aren't concerned about who's better FOR HIM lol
"1) He's not going to have a chance to find out if she doesn't want to give him that chance to get to know her, date, etc. a, k, a, if she's not interested. So either way he doesn't leave knowing who's better."
If she is not interested then she is a waste of time and he should move on.
"2) Better FOR HIM would make sense here... but the thing about that, is we aren't concerned about who's better FOR HIM lol"
If you don't care about him why should he care about you?
Basically, if you don't know either of the women then you can't go for the better one because you don't know which one she is. So if you end up wasting your time that's on you. She's not going to be concerned. At the same time, men usually approach first. That gives us something to go on - something to make a first determination by. Therefore, it's a lot easier for women to pick and choose than it is for men.
@joeblow123 Which is when he starts getting laughed at lol because the guys who are worth our time don't go for such a loser thing... Why? Because they're the ones we want, so they have no reason to.
@joeblow123 Nobody even mentioned a group. In response to me saying we'll just pick the better man, you said you would just pick the better woman. I'm showing how that's less logical.
@DeltaCharlieEcho Keep dreaming. I’m 23 and am in medical school on a full ride. I have a bright future ahead of me and many blessings to be thankful for.
@joeblow123 Interestingly enough, he knows how I am - in every way. That's kind-of why we are getting married; I love him in every way and he loves me the same. So he has seen this post because sometimes I find things interesting on this site because it's a Q&A gender forum and he studies psychology. So I show him quite a lot of it, and yes he's seen this one out of several others. But at the same time, my fiance is a real man and wouldn't be trying to make this argument and he actually laughed a bit at some of the other guys' comments. My fiance is one of those good confident men who sees something like this, tells me which part he doesn't agree with, maybe discusses it a little and teaches me a bit, and then lets it go and it doesn't get to him. Men like him are rare nowadays...
Then again, I just thought about what you said from a different angle... Maybe him being so confident and mature is what makes him so popular among women, so maybe that's why he laughed at this and also why he kind-of snickered at the MGTOW question posted by another guy. He doesn't really understand your view lol, he's more mature and has a good confident attitude
Princess has her entire life planned out. She believes she has a bright future while the rest of us should be glad she even paid attention to us. She's seen too many movies. Who's writing the checks for her tuition? Most likely her parents. What if something tragic happens to them? What if her fiancee reads this thread and breaks things off? Women age like milk. Old, moldy and smelly. Men age like wine. Sophistication, style and class.
@joeblow123 You aren't showing much sophistication or class LOL And as far as tuition, nahhhh. I'm literally in medical school on a full ride because I made a 527 on the MCAT. If I wasn't in med school, marrying a soon-to-be college psychology professor, and had bad parents I'll admit that this probably would've offended me. Too bad that's not the case :) You sound stupid. Especially when you're trying to say I have nothing going, but apparently you have nothing better to do than argue with a girl on GAG about this. Some life you have?
"Real" men and women don't exist. There's just people. Everyones different and then you have societal expectations you can either follow to varying degrees or outright rebel against. What you choose to do is up to you and rightfully so. People who concern themselves where others fall on that spectrum are the pathetic ones.
That quote is so true about if a woman wants to be respected she should give him something to respect. If a woman complains that’s all guys care about it’s usually cuz she doesn’t have a fun/cool personality to go with her looks.
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True. The same thing can be reversed too though. But yeah, you're 100% right
I have come to see this is true. Men who chase women and make women the priority never get much success. Men who choose to put our own selves and successes first tend to get the women.
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That's right! In short, that's a big part of what I was trying to say. Thanks for reading :)
I wish the girl I date has the same mindset as you. You got your shit together and you clearly understand men. I can't believe lots of guys got triggered reading this. Weak.
I gotta say, this is one of the best myTakes I've ever seen. Even though I am confident about myself and have a huge self-esteem, I'm still learning and improving and articles like these give me a solid push towards the right direction.
you tell us to show our emotions but as soon as we do you tell us to man up and even call us misogynist
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I don't, so I just want to fend for myself right there. But anyways... it truly is retarded (yes, I mean it like I said it) that women tell men this when you can look at their later years and be like wow she was so hypocritical. Because at the end of the day, what do even those women truly want? A man with some emotion - a man who cares. (In my own defense, I was raised in a culture where the definitions of masculine and feminine are very clear with no shadows, and I am thankfully not one of those women who shames men no matter what they do and says it's never right.)
If masculinity is right or wrong correctable, debatable, then femininity is by far also right or wrong correctable, debatable. And I haven't spotted any men in any marches or on TV hating and bashing women, have you? Doesn't that seem as something that should be correctable?
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Agreed. I'm not bashing anybody, but yes both are correctable!
Yeah i'm sorry i can't agree with the "men always have to be dominant" part. Personally i don't care who takes the wheel as long as they know what they are doing. I care little about being in control or being controlled. I care about results, and if the best results require a woman to be the dominant force, then so be it.
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Sad that you would let a woman lead you around... but suit yourself
I would think you would feel ashamed to think you NEED a man to guide you. Do you seriously have that little agency, or do you just enjoy being a Dependapotamus? Me letting a woman guide me does not diminish my competency as a man, if anything i would think my not feeling insecure about letting a woman take the lead would proof of my superior manhood, because i'm confident enough that i can admit a woman is more qualified for a particular job then i am.
It's not that I would let a woman lead me around, it's just that it's 2020, and i have better things to do with my life then cart around dead weight.
I get where you’re coming from; you believe in all the present “equality” and all that. “Equality” only goes so far and I’m certain ways, ways which we clearly have a disagreement with, so let’s just leave it at that, shall we?
I'll be honest and say that you're one of the few male users on this site that I DON'T want to block or be blocked by lol so not trying to kiss your ass but sorry for starting shit :D
"Don’t “NEED” a man to lead me, but if I’m gonna be in a relationship I expect him to be a man and take the responsibility"
You want a man to be responsible but you don't want him to be a leader. Then he has the right to demand that you be submissive to his demands. If he is going to take the greatest risks he should demand the greatest rewards. I would if I were him.
Decent MyTake. However, I disagree with a man can express his emotions how he feels like.
A man expressing his emotions like a little girl moaning and crying isn't acceptable.
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Yeah, I tried to imply that when I said " The difference in emotional expressions between men and women is that men are not as emotional as we are" as a way of saying that men don't tend to be emotional to that extent
but isn't there something wrong with will's words? he says don't chase, be yourself, meaning that if you chase you are not yourself (fake). So you stay put... got that covered. But the people coming to you, aren't THEY chasing you, which would make them not themselves (fake), which in turn would mean you are surrounded by fake people? Just saying.
but yeah, try not to be fake.
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By “chase” he means doing anything to draw their attention to you - going after them excessively. Seeing somebody once is one thing; chasing them and trying to please them is another
This is hilarious, and op has it right. Women like men who simply don't give a fuck about what others think and do their own thing. Men that try too hard to fit expectations or images aren't being their true self.
How do I know this? 2 stages of life. One where I tried too hard with women, one where I didn't give a fuck. Infinitely more success when I was unapologetically myself rather than getting a feminine haircut and wearing skinny jeans.
Doesn't make the quotes less true Also, a real man doesn't have to be rich or have a lot of money. Consider that my parents are both medical doctors and together they make over half a million bucks a year, and I'm also in medical school now. I have NO REASON to be a gold-digger lol but nice try
@AllThatSweetJazz Yes. Put simply, EVERYTHING has a reason. I have every reason not to be one - since I have more than 99% of the guys I meet anyway and I don’t even have a job 😂 The only ones otherwise are my medical school professors.
But not meet guys with jobs has no bearing on an urge toward it.
I agree that everything has a reason and in that sense the reason would be simply because you like it, and having more money wouldn’t negate it. On the contrary, having more money exacerbates it.
@AllThatSweetJazz Not when I've got my own money to spend how I want to :P And your second statement is NOT always true. A lot of guys who do have money tend to be stuck up. But since you agree that everything has a reason, then you understand that I'm not concerned about the money he makes over anything else. Out of all the arguments I've seen on this post, this is the dumbest one because instead of fussing about the post you want to try to convince me I'm something and yet you don't even know me. That's so interesting lol but yet so lame. So good luck with that
Meh.. As far as toxic masculinity goes, there doesn't seem to be much of an incentive for men not to have toxic masculinity. Most women are attracted to men that are stoic, aggressive, arrogant, dominant, emotionally unavailable, etc, all of which are things associated with toxic masculinity.
I mean it sucks but women can't help what they like. And if that's what it takes to be seen as attractive, I'm definitely going for it.
She has to respect you too, bro. If a woman demands that a man be a leader then that woman has to be a follower. If a man is going to take the greatest risks he should reap the greatest rewards.
Don't chase people, show emotions, be yourself, know your worth. Those are the stuff I do believe is true! Respect all women despite of their flaws is also one thing gentlemen must do!
"Respect all women despite of their flaws is also one thing gentlemen must do!"
No, that would be your downfall by killing your dating life. To get girls I suggest you google "pick up artists" videos and learn from those. Also don't be a doormat. Confidence and backbone go a long way. Don't be afraid to hole women accountable for their transgressions.
You could easily consider it, you might be surprised how many writers can't even edit their own shit. I love well written takes and I love real, intelligent people. You deserve an award.
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I like how most of these posts when it comes to what makes a man it has to be a guy with tons of money or good looks or buff bods. good lord is this seriously how people betray men as. the alpha above the rest. shit makes no sense, I tell ya what makes ya a man it's a thing called genetics and gender, your a man if you were born as it or changed into it, now what kinda a man you are is what society or your own mindset likes to label on you, you can be successful, pathetic. strong, weak, top, bottom, honestly society has so many fucking labels for people to the point where it's just ridiculous. at the end of the day who the hell cares what others call you?
Well number 1- it's different types of alpha males. The useful and the useless. It's a fact.
2- it's different types of beta males, the useful and the useless. It's a fact.
A alpha male could command the ship but it's nothing with out the beta Male keeping the ship operating.
A real man both alpha and beta is someone you can count on and you want around you because they are good for you. Real men have emotions and when it's time to display it they will, anger, hurt, joy, happiness, pain, embarrassment, love, affection, etc.
You can be a bad ass alpha in the streets but a 4 year old daughter can make you do some crazy shit and you will do it please her.
Men are human. You women need to start respecting that instead of telling us who you want us to be. I have reached an age where I just don't give a fuck anymore. It doesn't matter. It's overrated. Everyone is running around like headless chickens chasing something they don't know what is.
As if men don’t do the same thing to us 😂
But no, really, if you don’t care you don’t have to. Nobody’s forcing you to. Honestly, we don’t care if you care, because we are the picky ones and we’ll choose the ones who do. It’s your life to live, not ours, but we aren’t concerned with how you view it. We will just pick a better man. 🤷🏻♀️
I am well aware of that.
You do realize, yads, that to be attractive and get a man all women need to do, literally the only thing, is not be the fattest girl in her immediate area? That's it. The sole requirement revolves around eating less and going to the gym occasionally.
You want to bitch, let's examine what it takes for a man to be attractive. Women love life in the training level of easy mode in the game if life; guys play on realistic hardcore with mods attached against us.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I'm not "bitching," and I'm also not here for the trouble. So chill out.
But to reply to what you said... It's not women's fault that men are so desperate. That pretty much sums it up.
@Yads_Is_Back
"As if men don’t do the same thing to us"
A lot of men start out as the "I don't know what do you want to do?" nice guys. Only to be kicked in the nads by women every time. After awhile we can tired of this and say "enough". If you have a problem with male behavior toward women just keep in mind that it is women who made these men that way.
"We will just pick a better man."
Just as I would go for the better woman.
@joeblow123 Keep in mind that the men usually approach us first. If he wanted to go for a better woman then he wouldn’t have asked
@Yads_Is_Back
It is by asking that he discerns who the better female is.
@joeblow123 Two problems with that:
1) He's not going to have a chance to find out if she doesn't want to give him that chance to get to know her, date, etc. a, k, a, if she's not interested. So either way he doesn't leave knowing who's better.
2) Better FOR HIM would make sense here... but the thing about that, is we aren't concerned about who's better FOR HIM lol
@Yads_Is_Back
"1) He's not going to have a chance to find out if she doesn't want to give him that chance to get to know her, date, etc. a, k, a, if she's not interested. So either way he doesn't leave knowing who's better."
If she is not interested then she is a waste of time and he should move on.
"2) Better FOR HIM would make sense here... but the thing about that, is we aren't concerned about who's better FOR HIM lol"
If you don't care about him why should he care about you?
@joeblow123 Exactly. That's my point. He wasted his time.
@Yads_Is_Back
After a few of those time wasters, he'll just say "fuck it" and go the MGTOW route.
Basically, if you don't know either of the women then you can't go for the better one because you don't know which one she is. So if you end up wasting your time that's on you. She's not going to be concerned.
At the same time, men usually approach first. That gives us something to go on - something to make a first determination by. Therefore, it's a lot easier for women to pick and choose than it is for men.
@joeblow123 Which is when he starts getting laughed at lol because the guys who are worth our time don't go for such a loser thing... Why? Because they're the ones we want, so they have no reason to.
@Yads_Is_Back
First of all, a single guy is not going to approach a group of women hoping for any success. So this discussion is not within the ballpark of reality.
@joeblow123 Nobody even mentioned a group. In response to me saying we'll just pick the better man, you said you would just pick the better woman. I'm showing how that's less logical.
Yads, I can't wait for the world to kick you in the groin when you turn 30 and have made literally no personal progress in yourself or your life.
@DeltaCharlieEcho Keep dreaming. I’m 23 and am in medical school on a full ride. I have a bright future ahead of me and many blessings to be thankful for.
@Yads_Is_Back
"In response to me saying we'll just pick the better man, you said you would just pick the better woman. I'm showing how that's less logical."
Then we'll just go MGTOW and not worry about it anymore.
@joeblow123 Please do. Because that helps us too
The guys we want will still remain and you guys have given up. YES, go for it!
@Yads_Is_Back
You have a very cold-blooded attitude. You should have the guy you are engaged to read this thread. Let's see if he still wants you after that.
@joeblow123 Interestingly enough, he knows how I am - in every way. That's kind-of why we are getting married; I love him in every way and he loves me the same. So he has seen this post because sometimes I find things interesting on this site because it's a Q&A gender forum and he studies psychology. So I show him quite a lot of it, and yes he's seen this one out of several others. But at the same time, my fiance is a real man and wouldn't be trying to make this argument and he actually laughed a bit at some of the other guys' comments. My fiance is one of those good confident men who sees something like this, tells me which part he doesn't agree with, maybe discusses it a little and teaches me a bit, and then lets it go and it doesn't get to him. Men like him are rare nowadays...
Then again, I just thought about what you said from a different angle...
Maybe him being so confident and mature is what makes him so popular among women, so maybe that's why he laughed at this and also why he kind-of snickered at the MGTOW question posted by another guy. He doesn't really understand your view lol, he's more mature and has a good confident attitude
@DeltaCharlieEcho
Princess has her entire life planned out. She believes she has a bright future while the rest of us should be glad she even paid attention to us. She's seen too many movies. Who's writing the checks for her tuition? Most likely her parents. What if something tragic happens to them? What if her fiancee reads this thread and breaks things off? Women age like milk. Old, moldy and smelly. Men age like wine. Sophistication, style and class.
@joeblow123 You aren't showing much sophistication or class LOL
And as far as tuition, nahhhh. I'm literally in medical school on a full ride because I made a 527 on the MCAT.
If I wasn't in med school, marrying a soon-to-be college psychology professor, and had bad parents I'll admit that this probably would've offended me. Too bad that's not the case :) You sound stupid. Especially when you're trying to say I have nothing going, but apparently you have nothing better to do than argue with a girl on GAG about this. Some life you have?
"Real" men and women don't exist. There's just people. Everyones different and then you have societal expectations you can either follow to varying degrees or outright rebel against. What you choose to do is up to you and rightfully so. People who concern themselves where others fall on that spectrum are the pathetic ones.
That quote is so true about if a woman wants to be respected she should give him something to respect. If a woman complains that’s all guys care about it’s usually cuz she doesn’t have a fun/cool personality to go with her looks.
True. The same thing can be reversed too though. But yeah, you're 100% right
I have come to see this is true. Men who chase women and make women the priority never get much success. Men who choose to put our own selves and successes first tend to get the women.
That's right! In short, that's a big part of what I was trying to say. Thanks for reading :)
Not really I've never chased and look at me 😄 single as ever
I wish the girl I date has the same mindset as you. You got your shit together and you clearly understand men. I can't believe lots of guys got triggered reading this. Weak.
I gotta say, this is one of the best myTakes I've ever seen. Even though I am confident about myself and have a huge self-esteem, I'm still learning and improving and articles like these give me a solid push towards the right direction.
you tell us to show our emotions but as soon as we do you tell us to man up and even call us misogynist
I don't, so I just want to fend for myself right there. But anyways... it truly is retarded (yes, I mean it like I said it) that women tell men this when you can look at their later years and be like wow she was so hypocritical. Because at the end of the day, what do even those women truly want? A man with some emotion - a man who cares. (In my own defense, I was raised in a culture where the definitions of masculine and feminine are very clear with no shadows, and I am thankfully not one of those women who shames men no matter what they do and says it's never right.)
If masculinity is right or wrong correctable, debatable, then femininity is by far also right or wrong correctable, debatable. And I haven't spotted any men in any marches or on TV hating and bashing women, have you? Doesn't that seem as something that should be correctable?
Agreed. I'm not bashing anybody, but yes both are correctable!
Yeah i'm sorry i can't agree with the "men always have to be dominant" part. Personally i don't care who takes the wheel as long as they know what they are doing. I care little about being in control or being controlled. I care about results, and if the best results require a woman to be the dominant force, then so be it.
Sad that you would let a woman lead you around... but suit yourself
I would think you would feel ashamed to think you NEED a man to guide you. Do you seriously have that little agency, or do you just enjoy being a Dependapotamus? Me letting a woman guide me does not diminish my competency as a man, if anything i would think my not feeling insecure about letting a woman take the lead would proof of my superior manhood, because i'm confident enough that i can admit a woman is more qualified for a particular job then i am.
It's not that I would let a woman lead me around, it's just that it's 2020, and i have better things to do with my life then cart around dead weight.
Don’t “NEED” a man to lead me, but if I’m gonna be in a relationship I expect him to be a man and take the responsibility
I get where you’re coming from; you believe in all the present “equality” and all that. “Equality” only goes so far and I’m certain ways, ways which we clearly have a disagreement with, so let’s just leave it at that, shall we?
Fair enough
I'll be honest and say that you're one of the few male users on this site that I DON'T want to block or be blocked by lol so not trying to kiss your ass but sorry for starting shit :D
Ey don't worry about it.
@Yads_Is_Back
"Don’t “NEED” a man to lead me, but if I’m gonna be in a relationship I expect him to be a man and take the responsibility"
You want a man to be responsible but you don't want him to be a leader. Then he has the right to demand that you be submissive to his demands. If he is going to take the greatest risks he should demand the greatest rewards. I would if I were him.
@joeblow123 That’s true, and standing behind my man and supporting him with that is what makes me proud to be a woman 😊
Decent MyTake. However, I disagree with a man can express his emotions how he feels like.
A man expressing his emotions like a little girl moaning and crying isn't acceptable.
Yeah, I tried to imply that when I said " The difference in emotional expressions between men and women is that men are not as emotional as we are" as a way of saying that men don't tend to be emotional to that extent
Thanks though, amigo :)
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I think the same applies to women. These traits and qualities shouldn't just apply to men, it is about every person.
A way to know you are a balanced person.
Agreed
Lol. Honestly, I'm tired of hearing about manly men, alpha males and beta males. JUST BE YOURSELF, GUYS! That's all you can do.
Thank you! My post in a nutshell ^
but isn't there something wrong with will's words? he says don't chase, be yourself, meaning that if you chase you are not yourself (fake).
So you stay put... got that covered.
But the people coming to you, aren't THEY chasing you, which would make them not themselves (fake), which in turn would mean you are surrounded by fake people?
Just saying.
but yeah, try not to be fake.
By “chase” he means doing anything to draw their attention to you - going after them excessively. Seeing somebody once is one thing; chasing them and trying to please them is another
This is hilarious, and op has it right. Women like men who simply don't give a fuck about what others think and do their own thing. Men that try too hard to fit expectations or images aren't being their true self.
How do I know this? 2 stages of life. One where I tried too hard with women, one where I didn't give a fuck. Infinitely more success when I was unapologetically myself rather than getting a feminine haircut and wearing skinny jeans.
... you posted a bunch of quotes from dudes that swim in money.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/6vwNcNOTVzYDoesn't make the quotes less true
Also, a real man doesn't have to be rich or have a lot of money. Consider that my parents are both medical doctors and together they make over half a million bucks a year, and I'm also in medical school now. I have NO REASON to be a gold-digger lol but nice try
Does it need a "reason" though?
@AllThatSweetJazz Yes. Put simply, EVERYTHING has a reason. I have every reason not to be one - since I have more than 99% of the guys I meet anyway and I don’t even have a job 😂 The only ones otherwise are my medical school professors.
But not meet guys with jobs has no bearing on an urge toward it.
I agree that everything has a reason and in that sense the reason would be simply because you like it, and having more money wouldn’t negate it. On the contrary, having more money exacerbates it.
@AllThatSweetJazz Not when I've got my own money to spend how I want to :P
And your second statement is NOT always true. A lot of guys who do have money tend to be stuck up. But since you agree that everything has a reason, then you understand that I'm not concerned about the money he makes over anything else.
Out of all the arguments I've seen on this post, this is the dumbest one because instead of fussing about the post you want to try to convince me I'm something and yet you don't even know me. That's so interesting lol but yet so lame. So good luck with that
Meh.. As far as toxic masculinity goes, there doesn't seem to be much of an incentive for men not to have toxic masculinity. Most women are attracted to men that are stoic, aggressive, arrogant, dominant, emotionally unavailable, etc, all of which are things associated with toxic masculinity.
I mean it sucks but women can't help what they like. And if that's what it takes to be seen as attractive, I'm definitely going for it.
It's all about respect.. respect everyone and urself..
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She has to respect you too, bro. If a woman demands that a man be a leader then that woman has to be a follower. If a man is going to take the greatest risks he should reap the greatest rewards.
Don't chase people, show emotions, be yourself, know your worth. Those are the stuff I do believe is true! Respect all women despite of their flaws is also one thing gentlemen must do!
@just_legit1998
"Respect all women despite of their flaws is also one thing gentlemen must do!"
No, that would be your downfall by killing your dating life. To get girls I suggest you google "pick up artists" videos and learn from those. Also don't be a doormat. Confidence and backbone go a long way. Don't be afraid to hole women accountable for their transgressions.
This is well thought out and put together very neatly. Are you a writer?
No but thanks :)
You could easily consider it, you might be surprised how many writers can't even edit their own shit. I love well written takes and I love real, intelligent people. You deserve an award.
I'm flattered. Thank you!