Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Ask to an AI Persona
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
138Opinion
I feel a lot of single guy's pain, there are few high quality women out there to date seriously, plenty of pump and dumps
Can you give examples of high quality women?
@Capricornunicorn my brother was engaged to a high quality woman. She had just passed and was a lawyer, she was educated, funny, intelligent, educated, could cook, fair, believed in women's rights but not feminazism, caring, kind, earned good money, saved her money, planned for the future. Most importantly she loved my brother and was willing to invest in his potential early on rather than for what he had. Even waited for him when he served in Iraq.
5 years ago she stopped breathing in her sleep, my brother called 911 and tried to resuscitate her, she was brought to hospital and spent two months on life support before the plug was pulled. She herself had planned the whole wedding and had only finished choosing her $6000 wedding dress the night which arrived in time for her to be buried in. Ominously she had told her parents at Christmas and my brother that if she ever ended up brain dead in a coma to pull the plug, I remember it coming up in a conversation with her, my brother and my family. Like why would she say that how would she have known? Anyway there was a high quality woman who would have been an amazing wife an mother.
I'm sorry for your brother's lost. She indeed sounded like an amazing woman. Thanks.
“After all you have nothing to lose, do you?”
That’s exactly it! If I had a dollar for every time that I was turned down. I could have retired years ago. Kobe Bryant said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” Not just playing basketball. It’s true in life. I take a shot a anything and everything that peaks my interest. I can say, without hesitation, that I have enjoyed my life. At roughly the halfway point now. I can’t even imagine what types of things I will experience on the back 9.
Could it be they have little incentive to invest their resources on someone to have it be taken away by the government or to have her cheat with no societal repercussion? Could it be an aversion to feminism?
Men want sex and it can be less costly and scary for them to hookup instead of to date.
I'm a dominant man and not looking for a mistress nor sites for simps to send their money.
I hate sexism I'll say that (not that this post is sexist ik thee are biological sexual differences n stuff in the media geared towards manipulating people of certain sexes opinions n stuff)
in general tho I feel these days many people are only looking for one night stands (surprisingly many girls more than guys it seems at least in my area, maybe due to the trope of "guy gets the girl" in movies n stuff but not really relationships, and the want to lose virginity) but many are just looking for "you're cute" compliments n stuff on dating sites, etc
There are a lot of conjectures here.
You discribe a guy who has small penis and tight fisted and so insecure.
But getting the ideal man , is quite remote.
The first one is something you can control , the other two can be..
But are you wanting a guy to be a stud or someone you have a loving relationship.
It does annoy me about this paying on a date. For me I would day the full amount, unless she wants to chip in.
Women being gold diggers, how, they can only even get need to here when you get married.
If you are friends I would have thought you would want to give her a good time.
As you get older, you will realize you will get more out of women by pleasing them instead of demanding things from them. This post was nothing more than just a little boy throwing a tantrum about his parents not giving him everything on his Christmas gift wish list.
Accept it was posted by a female and aimed at males. Perhaps try reading it first next time before shooting of your crap dispenser without context.
@JesterRose in this world, nobody would offer you things if you’re not willing to give anything.
@Ayanna240 and yet so many women offer nothing, but sit and wait for the man to show what he is bringing to them in exchange for nothing.
As we get older our drive for sex lessens and the prospect of kids goes away so your useless to us at that point
@VanillaSalt well most of us young women are not looking for an old man to have kids with either. I know that when I’m 35 , I wouldn’t go date a guy any further than 40. most guys after 40 years old look like crap
@VanillaSalt women are gauraunteed a family/ children. If she wants kids , she can have kids. On the other hand , men like you can’t have children without finding love.
*leans back in his chair and marvels at the privilege on display*
@JesterRose I know right. You’re jealous
Of what exacly? A child that is barely old enough to know about the world around them or the hypocrisy of their positions? Relax, with age comes wisdom. We where all young and foolish once.
@JesterRose I don’t trust the wisdom of bitter hateful old men who hate women. There’s nothing trust worthy about anything that comes out of your mouth
You may project anything you wish onto me, but that does not make it truth. I have a great love for women and am rather happy with my life as a whole. But feel free to rage and hate. The only one effected by it is you after all.
@JesterRose So what? Just cus you said something , it doesn’t mean it’s true either. You’re just on here to project your hate on women
Many of my posts here have been toward women, and most have been with the desire to provide aid. The rest would be widely seen as a neutral response. But ill waste no more of my time here, the disingenuous will never seek to know anything more than what confirms their biases.
@JesterRose Any man who claims women have "privilege" is a woman hater. Its your way of shitting on women.
Women do have privilege, as do men. You use the myth of women having no privilege as an excuse to hate men that say otherwise. Not that is some pretty juicy irony.
@JesterRose if men also had privilege, so why remark at womens privilege with such an attitude? It was your tone that showed your nasty attitude.
Congratulations @Ayanna240 you are a bitch
@potatoechip29 I'm only a bitch to woman haters. I'm a nice girl to the rest of the world.
Ok lets go through the breakdown, your first post was dismissive and insulting to the original poster. You targeted them as "a little boy throwing a tantrum".
I pointed out the one that made the article was female and you turned your snark cannon onto me and others. So how is it my tone set all this in motion?
@JesterRose Your statement right here adds no real value to my post. If you do not have any genuine ideas to contribute. Do not bother replying. Because it WILL make you look like a hater.
I do not understand the purpose of this statement:
"*leans back in his chair and marvels at the privilege on display*"
You lack the power to make me look like anything. Not can i make you look a certain way.
That comment came after your snark session against anyone that spoke to you in this thread. I pointed out the flaw you made in your first post, and then retaliated when you went off on myself and others.
Its not a hard concept to grasp.
@JesterRose Your "snark" post. Got a snark reply from me. So why are you complaining?
@JesterRose You're just on here to cause a disturbance.
I was offended by your comment as well. Wth have women done for US? This is a 100% real question what have you women done for us? You fight sex. You demand we be the assertive one. Dear god don’t EVER ask what you want for dinner that’s gonna turn into a shit show. Your equal and make the same money but you want men to pay. I fail to see even 1 benefit for us to getting married or even humoring a relationship.
And if you just go off without answering like every single other woman around here then I don't know what to say waste of my time.
@VanillaSalt Its just human nature. Nobody is gonna do something for you, unless there is something for them to gain. why don't you go volunteer to help the homeless on your weekends off? you wouldn't because you would have nothing to gain from it right? you would have much more to gain from sitting back and relaxing saturdays and sundays.
If you work in a very prestigious firm, there are a million students who want to network with you in order to work there one day. You work 9 hour days. You're exhausted after work. Now a student calls you and says he wants to network with you after work. You get them asking you to network all the time. YOU'RE NOT GONNA BE NETWORKING WITH STUDENTS. There is a good chance you would be prioritizing networking with your supervisors so that you can get your next promotion. You would have nothing to gain from networking with students.
If you want a girl to go on a date with you, your best bet is to be nice to her, be a gentleman, make her feel good about herself. You do not treat her as if she is second priority, or tell her about how women always have it better than men, or how hard it is for you to get a woman's attention, or how all women suck.
You get the energy you give out. If you spread negativity, you will only get negative responses from others.
@Ayanna240 you’re an idiot.
And we all agree on that. So go embarrass yourself somewhere else.
@lonliestmanalive its true though. If you're a homeless man, you're more likely to get money out of a lady , by complimenting her than glaring at her. This comes to show the power of pleasing people
Women are just entitled brats now a days. their main focus is looks. I used to see women as sweet kind people, who cared about others well being and feelings, I didn’t think they were shallow and truly believed they loved their partner for who they were not how they looked. But as time went on all of those points were invalidated. Women seem to want want want, want a large penis, want him to look amazing, to the point where even less desirable females have become picky and entitled. We’re in a day in age now where if you’re not held up to a certain standard you may as well not even try. I’m not great looking, I don't know what I genuinely look like to others but I personally think I’m your average joe, so I look for women in my league obviously, and even the woman in my league, are stuck up and believe they’re well above me. I’m going off of one specific instance though, cause I gave up approaching women years ago. But I did decide to go on a dating app, and talk to some women in my league. And got ignore after ignore after ignore, I’m by no means ugly either. They’re just stuck up shallow little women. And as time goes on I see it more and more. And just care less and less. And then when you open up about things like this, women just attack you and tell you you’re an incel or you’re cocks small, or your a virgin etc. I’d rather live my life work and better myself than constantly try to please women I really couldn’t care less about. Women have become so unappealing and shallow over the years that it’s just ashame.
@lonliestmanalive i didn't read your BS. Men focus even more on a woman's looks. Women focus on things such as status and money.
Thank you for proving my point, you’re an entitled brat, hence the massive amounts of dislikes on your comment.
Enjoy your rant. Lady. I’m finished with entertaining you. You’re pathetic.
Oh wait let me contribute to your massive amount of dislikes
@lonliestmanalive because GAG tends to attract a lot of woman haters and dumbasses. If you were so good with your love life, you wouldn't be here.
so which one are you then🤔🤣
Except it was a girl who posted
So if you think a large group of men are not dating, do you think there's also a large group of women not dating, or is your assumption that - more than in the past - women are having casual relationships with a smaller group of men who are seeing a lot of women casually?
feminism ruined women.
men are disposable now, they spread their legs to anyone because of "liberation"
"if men can be whores why can't we?"
liberals made them believethat every man is a whore so they should be whores too.
it degraded a woman's image.
the image of purity and faithfulness.
I'm mostly talking about blue states. red state women are hot and respectful knows what they want. good clean women
Red State women tend to be enormously obese and foul. Their rancid souls show on their faces
@dmgstarfleet
and obese tattooed faced blue state women are not?
Lets take the quintessential blue and red states-California and Mississippi. Which state is number 1 in obesity? Number 1 in type 2 diabetes? Hint-it doesn't have Redwood Trees. Dude-I have lived in both states. No contest-Red women are fat and foul; blue women tend to be more hot and sweet. Lots of you self-declared patriot types are pretty damned obese too-just like your morbidly obese President. You won't be able to rise from the couch to waddle off to what you think is the "Boogaloo"
@dmgstarfleet
too bad Texas represents red states not ghetto trap Mississippi. that should be a blue state with all the thugs and crime.
its the most Republican of all the states-80% of office holders are GOP. One of only 3 senators to vote against the electoral count was Cindy Hyde-Smite of Mississippi. It is a shithole-just like most of the red states.
filled with morbidly obese traitors
@dmgstarfleet red states shit hole? waahahah
blue states are the most corrupt, crime ridden, ghetto slums in the nation. so corrupt even the politicians are corrupted! 😂😂😂
they knew what they were doing an it worked. keep the blue population on drugs and welfare to keep them voting blue
Yeah right-everybody wants to live in Mississippi Alabama or Arkansas and no one wants to live in California-if that were true then supply and demand would mean California has the least expensive real estate in the US and these failed southern states would have high priced land. Instead its the opposite. Not only is the weather bad in red states but the environment is polluted, the populace there are ignorant and racist traitors.
@dmgstarfleet that explains why everyone is moving to red states they are tired of failed Democrat policies
Texas is in an oil shock-now a "taker" state being floated on the backs of the blue states. All your red states are right wing racist shitholes-we are better off without your welfare asses-you'd die on the vine without Blue State charity. Pathetic!
@dmgstarfleet it's not charity if we're paying big for it idiot. charity is a fancy way of saying "give me your money so I can buy a nice car and give scraps to the poor"
No asshole, Red states take far more in federal money than they pay in taxes. We have been carrying you assholes for years! Every single southern state except Texas and now since oil prices cratered Texas too takes more in Federal money than they pay in taxes. Red states are leeches!
@dmgstarfleet FAKE NEWS
"Fake News" is what Trumpholes yell when they don't like facts. Your hero is going to prison-as are the rest of you traitors.
The real reason why guys aren't dating as much anymore is because how society's standards has changed where men could be jailed for the sightest offence. So men have up. Yeah.
Thank you for acknowledging that.
Simply, because they can’t. Or at least, they can’t get what they want with the girls they want without effort, so they withdraw.
😂😂😂
"they can’t get what they want with the girls they want without effort,"
for once I agree with you on something but that is because the girls we want nowadays either dont exist or are NOT WORTH THE EFFORT
Excuses
Probably some truth to that not gonna lie.
I'm gonna tell you the same thing i tell every woman that has this train of thought.
It's 2020. I'm 30 years old, I've got my whole life ahead of me, and i'd rather not waste the better half of my life carting around dead weight.
You want me to make moves? You can start by showing you would actually be useful to me beyond being a trophy wife.
I get you don't want a trophy wife, how modern of you, yet how does saying "you can start by showing you would actually be useful to me" support an equal and fair partnership? Sounds like you might be the lifeless heavy one.
I mean things like bring your own money, be intellectually challenging to me, show me you're remotely competent and didn't spend half of your time in college on your knees for your professors.
"to me", "show me" "remotely competent" "on your knees". How about you grow up, and out of your misogynistic attitude.
Oh piss off you entitled white brat
Why bring race into it? I'm more than happy to walk from you.
You're probably the exact kind of person I'm talking about.
A dirty trust fund baby who never knew how to actually put effort into anything in their lives and got through life by whining, crying and playing the victim until they got what they want. Do us both a favor and shove it
A woman is never a "trophy wife" without a man seeing her as a trophy. You can pick the woman you love, who also loves you back. Or you can marry a woman who you don't care for but she's hot.
@malik00 Lovely how she is trying to shame you for being "selfish" and "misogynistic" for expressing your standards. But if the roles were reversed, then they will call it "empowerment" and it will be cheered on with "You go girl, men ain't shit!". Just got to love these wahmen's hypocrisy and double standards. If there is 1 thing I don't take from a woman, that is being called selfish. Because a woman's entire being runs on surival instincts. And survival instincts is all about themselves.
You surely don’t like modern soy boys lol. While this fits a large majority of younger men, I’d think that other men have different reasoning. Some are just hurt.
When I was cheated on... holy shit that hurt. I told myself I’d never date again. It put me in a deep depression that took me away from my goals. Just sex, fun, and vibes is what I was chasing for a while. I could only imagine what a man would feel like being cheated on a decade into marriage.
Me personally , no bitterness , I have a teen daughter , no misogyny whatsoever. I can't be bothered with BS and games in " dating " , quite content single , confident , but introverted , no great need for people , and being honest , I'm a single dad , there are several times more available men than women , so cannot compete in the sausage fest " dating market " even if I wanted to.
I don't date simply because I can't find an attractive woman who is single when I meet her, wanting a long term relationship, and wants me to be the only man in her life. It's been 7 years since I've even met a woman like this, I don't even get chances to try to start a relationship where I live.
move
I don’t date today because romance etc... is dead today. The reasons you wrote are bullshit, are you dumb or man hating scum? Think about it. What value can a woman add to a guys life these days? Nothing. If anything only bad things later come out from dating women.
Also, you women all think you’re so special don’t you. Take a look in the mirror. There’s an infinite number of girls that are way prettier and special than you are.
You take about penis size, I have a big penis 7.2 inches and thick. But you know what women still want more like 8 inches. I’m blessed with money yet girls still are attracted to those billionaire guys.
I’ve never dated and don’t intend to. I can see all girls these days are trash. I’m just happy I can control my life. You think we need you 😂😂😂😂😂
My experiences is different and speaking for the “good guys” it’s more so being used is the issue with me. I had exes who only wanted sex and things bought for them which as a man, for “MY” women I’ll go above and beyond but I haven’t had a girl do the same for me ever. 🤷🏾♂️ I put that to the side and “try” to date somebody different but they always tend to be the same without me unintentionally picking those types. I even had a good girl once dated for a year and a half and broke up with me for my friend (sucks I know). And she was somebody I brought back home, somebody who saw me going through something at the time (death of my brother due to suicide) and still treated me like shit on top of my other problems. So with me... you can say I don’t date because of being used and being left as a sucker again. Can’t do it.
Most women are narcissists who hate men. We are tolerated only because of the resources that they can extract from us.
For me, I simply fall on the unattractive side of things, I have come to understand that I am not the best-looking person and I'm not that tall as well so it puts me at a more disadvantage and it's not me being insecure, I have just accepted reality. Many women today are looking for a tall guy who is really handsome (rating 8-10) and that's not me. So at this point, I've realized that I might end up alone and now I just have to swallow the truth.
There are TONS of ugly girls out there. Also, i know ugly guys who landed hot girlfriend's who turned into wives. Mainly because of their weird religion and the dude's willingness to commit. :)
@supercutebutt The ugly guys were probably rich and the hot girlfriends were Gold diggers who wanted to be trophy wives and never have to work again.
Ya your better off honestly. Lack of sex sucks as does no kids but life’s so much easier when it’s about you and not a harpie.
@JuliaStyles Not true. The guys were broke but deeply religious and went to the same church as the hot girls. Religion can get you hotness... but then you have to deal with ridiculous superstition.
@supercutebutt Religion can get you hotness? How does that work? If people go to church to find hot girlfriend/boyfriend then you have to question their motives. I'm sure today's churches are full of them.
I’ve considered it. Church is meant to bring like minded people together. I’m not a godly man but I believe and follow the same principals as described in the Bible so church is a place for me... if I can stay awake.
I’ll be frank. at least religious people have standards to live their lives morally (not always). Other women really don’t have anything moral to cling to so they use and abuse men and their privileges. It’s a privilege to sit back and be pursued by the opposite sex. I know I know you don’t want that attention... don’t worry within 10-15 years it will die off. Or do you think men want a wrinkly old woman who almost for certain can’t have kids? Sure men want companionship but there’s no way you can say the number of men wanting you cause your attractive and/or can have kids is a minority.
I wouldn’t accept you’re not good enough at all. Just better yourself and let the woman who chase brads get lied to cheat on and abused like they always do. I see it on here almost religiously, a average girl gets fucked by a chad and wonders why he becomes distant, or cheats, or leaves her, then when women get older, 35+ and have a child with no father, or can’t find a man, they’ll wish they had you. Women are extremely shallow. Sure not all of them are like that, but the majority are, where we live in a day in age where you have to have a giant cock, perfect jawline, be funny, rich etc to be considered by women that are in the same league as you. Even genuinely ugly women that are overweight and not desirable in today’s age get the luxury of being picky, because even they have tons of incels and virgins chasing them. Best advice to you, focus on yourself and making YOUR life better, not some females. You’ll be a lot happier.
@supercutebutt Yeah but even here in LA even the less attractive ones still have the highest standards lol, And I get that, but that fairly rare and situational.
@JuliaStyles Yeah the ones with the most money will always get a trophy wife! sadly sucks more if you don't have looks nor money in this world
I think what she means is that people who grow up in religion tend to be more strict and not interested in constantly looking for guys and their ideal person will be someone who is also religious as they and the guys around them are usually are religious as well, so they commit even if the guy is not the best looking and the girl is hot. If people were entering a religion only for that then yeah that will be extremely concerning!
Don’t gotta worry about that the governments shouting religion down...
Bro this is way off base. Don't feel this way. I would encourage you to learn body language. Develope your own sense of style. Have something interesting happening in your life. Have a vision other people want to be part of.
One wonders why there are so many women on Russian Women dating sites looking to marry someone in the US so they can get out of Russia. Of course they have the same for Women of the Philippines who are willing to marry older American men in order to get out of the Philippines. They must be pretty desperate for 28 year old women to be wiling to marry 55+ year old men.
To be fair I enjoy dating forgien women more than American women.
@1031ent Well move to the Philippines and you can date all you want.
The dating market is full of overvalued entitled women, so finding something worth the effort is basically so rare that it's not worth the effort.
Friendship with benefits is where it's at.
Friendship with benefits: choice of champions.
Friendship with benefits is about getting all the pros of a relationship (sex and companionship) without the cons (responsibilities, being expected to spend money on her, having to refrain yourself from fucking her hot girl friends).
Friendship with benefits is the answer.
What is the question?