If you're a girl. You know nothing about what it's like to be a guy. The same way I know nothing about what it's like to bleed out of my vagina or push a baby out of me. If you knew anything about us, you would know that we're not taking the time to read 5 paragraphs of b. s.
Ehh, I'm not fitting under any of those categories. I just don't feel like it right now. I'm married, have a family, and I'm poly, but honestly over the past year getting romantically involved with anyone else besides my wife has just seemed like too much to bother with for too little pay-off.
Across the western world testosterone has decreased 30% in avg male body since 1990. This is because of increasing lvls of estrogenic pollutants in the environment.
There are some other reasons too. But this one is just fundamental to why men are less concerned nowadays with being "alpha".
Little dick fear for me mostly, but I'd love to find a woman who would be amused by it, or would mock the size, maybe take photos and send to her friends, even make me show them, as part of the SPH fun,,, But if the lady wasn't happy with the size and just put up with it that wouldn't be as much fun,,, It would be amazing to find a lady who just isn't bothered, but how do you broach the subject when dating?,,,
Friendship with benefits is where it's at. Friendship with benefits: choice of champions. Friendship with benefits is about getting all the pros of a relationship (sex and companionship) without the cons (responsibilities, being expected to spend money on her, having to refrain yourself from fucking her hot girl friends). Friendship with benefits is the answer.
Oh I see so basically women has similar issues but it’s not considered by women... that’s one way to see it I was thinking she was telling men off for not considering women...
Because pop culture garbage like 50 Shades of Grey make being worldly as being an alpha male like Christian Grey.
It never occurred to their fans, that not all of us are willing to go into deep debt to please women. So no. I refuse to date any women who will not approve of my monk lifestyle.
In short, you have not a clue what you are talking about. To even attempt to explain how far off the mark you are would be an egregious waste of time. Ducunt volentem fata nolentem trahunt!
ummm yeah there are men who fit your description but that is not the reason they have stop dating, men like these have existed forever but only has the feminist movement started recently and its the reason why men have stop dating, woman have call the bluff for too long of them calling the shot in the relationships and men are just calling their bluff, a lot of woman (not all) are just not worth the effort and the time
1. guys dont want to. Not every guy needs a woman or wants one. Some do hookups and have no other need for woman. 2 no bullshit/drama 3. It saves money 4. The girls past. Is this girl a hoe? why was she this easy to grab a meal with? 👌
Also, to be clear: I guess I'm not a woman because I hate men trying to "be generous" on dates by buying things or paying for me. I'm an adult and don't like to feel like someone is purchasing my time or feels as if they don't present me with items like a false idol I won't see them as worthy. It's weird as hell.
We don't want to get rejected for it. We get rejected for enough stuff, so that one would be too brutal for me to take. I'm sure you can understand that.
There is waiting too long instead of striking while the iron is hot, but the primary reason men can't get dates is because women consider 80% of men below average.* And, women will not date men they consider below average.
Because these days the amount of horse shit a man has to go through to get a woman it just isn't worth the hassle. And besides, women these days have become lazy animals that haven't got much to offer a man.
Even if you get her... know a young guy who has a good career but he's still building. He just had a baby with his fiance and she insisted on putting the baby in daycare when it was like 1 month old so she can keep pursuing her low paying bs career. She's too lazy too cook so the poor guy is running around doing everything. Guess he fell for the "she's hot" trap and forgot to check for the other qualities.
@hahahmm The problem is that when a man has a baby with a woman, she knows she has him trapped. She can emotionally blackmail him and play all kinds of messed up games, because she knows she can leave him and big brother government will look after her.
Women expect men to be over 6" tall, wealthy, and as attractive as a male model. I am none of those things, so I don't bother to try dating as I know from experience I will be rejected. 80% of women chase 20% of available men. The rest of the men aren't worth their time, but then women complain "there are no good men".
She removed my opinion but I basically said "you laugh at all these insecurities for men but would expect them to support you through all yours" what an insecure take writer
lol she removed your opinion? What a brave and courageous woman xD THIS is what feminism has brought us to..
I'm glad I know women who know how to introspect and emphasize.
There's way too many whores who just want to use guys for self-validation and resources. And then they act like us wanting sex is some grave sin when they are the gender that is capable of having multiple orgasms.
1) Feminism 2) They went to wear the pants 3) women don’t take care of themselves as in the past. 4) They use a guy fir money, until they find another guy with more money. 5) they think guys are their financial plan. 6) They don’t enjoy being feminine.
I would be the guy that waited too long. When I finally had the guts to ask out the girl, she was already seeing someone who eventually became her future husband.
Nervous Nelly's, I always had those thoughts like "why would she go out with me?", "She rather go out with someone", etc.
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If you're a girl. You know nothing about what it's like to be a guy. The same way I know nothing about what it's like to bleed out of my vagina or push a baby out of me. If you knew anything about us, you would know that we're not taking the time to read 5 paragraphs of b. s.
Ehh, I'm not fitting under any of those categories. I just don't feel like it right now. I'm married, have a family, and I'm poly, but honestly over the past year getting romantically involved with anyone else besides my wife has just seemed like too much to bother with for too little pay-off.
Across the western world testosterone has decreased 30% in avg male body since 1990. This is because of increasing lvls of estrogenic pollutants in the environment.
There are some other reasons too. But this one is just fundamental to why men are less concerned nowadays with being "alpha".
Little dick fear for me mostly, but I'd love to find a woman who would be amused by it, or would mock the size, maybe take photos and send to her friends, even make me show them, as part of the SPH fun,,,
But if the lady wasn't happy with the size and just put up with it that wouldn't be as much fun,,,
It would be amazing to find a lady who just isn't bothered, but how do you broach the subject when dating?,,,
Friendship with benefits is where it's at.
Friendship with benefits: choice of champions.
Friendship with benefits is about getting all the pros of a relationship (sex and companionship) without the cons (responsibilities, being expected to spend money on her, having to refrain yourself from fucking her hot girl friends).
Friendship with benefits is the answer.
What is the question?
Guys tend not to date nearly as much today for two primary reasons --
-- number one, it costs a lot more than it used to
-- and two, our chances, even months or years later, of ever getting sex are lower than at any time in history
Well here's a thought. If you are only looking to date men, you only notice the problem in men. Had you thought that it's the same with women?
Not sure I understood this.
@VanillaSalt I understood it loud and clear. This take completely bashed guys with no introspection at all.
Oh I see so basically women has similar issues but it’s not considered by women... that’s one way to see it I was thinking she was telling men off for not considering women...
Because pop culture garbage like 50 Shades of Grey make being worldly as being an alpha male like Christian Grey.
It never occurred to their fans, that not all of us are willing to go into deep debt to please women. So no. I refuse to date any women who will not approve of my monk lifestyle.
In short, you have not a clue what you are talking about. To even attempt to explain how far off the mark you are would be an egregious waste of time.
Ducunt volentem fata nolentem trahunt!
yea I’ve seen this lady belittle many people in many different ways. She’s a joke.
ummm yeah there are men who fit your description but that is not the reason they have stop dating, men like these have existed forever but only has the feminist movement started recently and its the reason why men have stop dating, woman have call the bluff for too long of them calling the shot in the relationships and men are just calling their bluff, a lot of woman (not all) are just not worth the effort and the time
@WowwGirl I don't date today because I consider dating to be high risk, little reward compared to hanging out with my bros.
Right On! I gave your comment a "thumbs up."
1. guys dont want to. Not every guy needs a woman or wants one. Some do hookups and have no other need for woman.
2 no bullshit/drama
3. It saves money
4. The girls past. Is this girl a hoe? why was she this easy to grab a meal with?
👌
So... the reason men don't date is that they have small penises, they aren't "alpha males" and expect women to... be equal partners?
This stinks with... sexism.
Also, to be clear: I guess I'm not a woman because I hate men trying to "be generous" on dates by buying things or paying for me. I'm an adult and don't like to feel like someone is purchasing my time or feels as if they don't present me with items like a false idol I won't see them as worthy. It's weird as hell.
We don't want to get rejected for it. We get rejected for enough stuff, so that one would be too brutal for me to take. I'm sure you can understand that.
There is waiting too long instead of striking while the iron is hot, but the primary reason men can't get dates is because women consider 80% of men below average.* And, women will not date men they consider below average.
* https://drhelen.blogspot.com/2011/06/vox-at-alpha-game-dont-listen-to-female.html
Because these days the amount of horse shit a man has to go through to get a woman it just isn't worth the hassle. And besides, women these days have become lazy animals that haven't got much to offer a man.
Even if you get her... know a young guy who has a good career but he's still building. He just had a baby with his fiance and she insisted on putting the baby in daycare when it was like 1 month old so she can keep pursuing her low paying bs career. She's too lazy too cook so the poor guy is running around doing everything. Guess he fell for the "she's hot" trap and forgot to check for the other qualities.
@hahahmm The problem is that when a man has a baby with a woman, she knows she has him trapped. She can emotionally blackmail him and play all kinds of messed up games, because she knows she can leave him and big brother government will look after her.
Yeah. She's playing 3D chess and the guy is playing rock, paper, scissors blind folded.
Women expect men to be over 6" tall, wealthy, and as attractive as a male model. I am none of those things, so I don't bother to try dating as I know from experience I will be rejected. 80% of women chase 20% of available men. The rest of the men aren't worth their time, but then women complain "there are no good men".
Typical lack of empathy for men and you missed the mark completely with all these weird stereotypes.
0/10.
She removed my opinion but I basically said "you laugh at all these insecurities for men but would expect them to support you through all yours" what an insecure take writer
lol she removed your opinion? What a brave and courageous woman xD THIS is what feminism has brought us to..
I'm glad I know women who know how to introspect and emphasize.
There's way too many whores who just want to use guys for self-validation and resources. And then they act like us wanting sex is some grave sin when they are the gender that is capable of having multiple orgasms.
Feels good to be bisexual right now.
1) Feminism
2) They went to wear the pants
3) women don’t take care of themselves as in the past.
4) They use a guy fir money, until they find another guy with more money.
5) they think guys are their financial plan.
6) They don’t enjoy being feminine.
Alternatively, men won't date you anymore because you are just not a very nice person.
I would be the guy that waited too long. When I finally had the guts to ask out the girl, she was already seeing someone who eventually became her future husband.
Nervous Nelly's, I always had those thoughts like "why would she go out with me?", "She rather go out with someone", etc.