Don’t Men play games?

[Anonymous]

First this not an attack on men. Women get a bad rap about playing games when men do it too.

The double standards. If a woman is too easy she’s a ho and he won’t think twice she hold out too long maybe if he sticks around. Guys can jus fuck.
Fuck boys. They play/prey on your emotions treat you like you in a relationship and the only one. Then boom use you up until they ghost you.
The Lone Wolf. No one understands me or no never stays. Well she did but it became emotional draining. While you’re stagnant.
Playboy/ Womanizer/ Lady’s man. this guy knows women but not enough. Very smooth. The guy that all girls want. Yet necessarily can’t have because he’s always on to the next person. Eyes always wondering. A Ho- tation on speed dial for just in case.

These are all opinions and observations that are subject to change if I see better.

[Nikola321]

I'm the "Lone wolf", but not cuz I want to be xD I can be friendly and nice and befriend every women without a problem, but if I happen to like her, then I don't know what to do, I can't even approach her and I'm very stagnant :/
And in my country all the women want men to approach first, a women NEVER approaches first, so, lucky me I guess :c
Anyways, as you saw from my example, I'm not doing it to "play games" but cuz it's my nature that I can't really fight sadly. Those men that do not have such problems usually are very direct cuz most men think being direct is the only way to show her ur intentions (romantic relationship), and I think that's right.

[myTake Owner]

But that being said there are other ways to show that you have romantic feelings about someone. Small little gestures that are indirect versus speaking to them directly.

[Nikola321]

yeah, but unluckily in my country people still have the "men must approach first" mentality, like we are in in middle age, so without doing that I guess no chances :D

[myTake Owner]

I in in western culture we were taught the same things. And actually prefer it but we have people like you and other guys that we have to express interest first in order for them to even come our way.

[Nikola321]

Wish we had more girls that understand the situation like u do :D

[ndensumbeauty]

Yes there do. They want the whole cake. No compromise

[Lionman95]

Of course we do. Most guys have led on a woman in their life. It´s nothing to be proud about but it´s true. One reason is that many of us guys are willing to lower our standards for a quick sex.

[myTake Owner]

My point exactly. I’ve seen a lot of guys settle to not just for sex

[Lionman95]

Yes we tend to settle for any kind of quick satisfaction and later we sometimes feel bad about it.

[myTake Owner]

Innoway that’s what you want right. My friend decided to stay with this girl because they ended up having a child He kept saying that he didn’t wanna be with her but she end up living together he still goes out and have sex with other people

[Relux47]

The lone wolf? I’m a loner… and I know a lot about myself to know that I’m not bout to play games with a girl that I like

[myTake Owner]

Honestly we all do. There’s somebody that likes us and we didn’t like them but we like the attention we don’t want to be mean to them so we brush them off

[Yourfriend2021]

Both men and women are playing the same games.

[myTake Owner]

What game is that sir

[Yourfriend2021]

People are playing mind games, cheating , dishonesty, multiple partners and so on.

[sullyk1234]

so true