What I’ve Come To Realize Over 30+ Guys (Page 2)

[FilmGuy93]

Wow, this is a really thoughtful take! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. The only thing I just want to add is that men really want women to bring them a sense of peace. American women especially do not understand how to bring peace to the people around them.

[Zolly99999]

Sorry but not all men are like this and you shouldn't generalize them ( women hate this right 🤔) I do agree with a couple of your statements though. Please don't lump us all together.

[Friendlybro79]

She did say this was her personal experience of all 30 guys had in trait. Not all men in general.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah trust me im not. But it would also be dumb not to keep these things in mind.

[Zolly99999]

You do realize these cam be applied to women too

[smilelots]

your right in what you say for you but not right in all you said for others ,, we are all different people men and woman ,, if i took every woman to be like my x the human race would be extinct, so now we are not all the same but your ideas and what you know are for you alone.

[Guy13]

This cracks me up !!! Now, if I had done something like this for women then I would have been from hell.

[1stupidrobot]

It takes a bad relationship or two to gain this kind of wisdom and I agree on every point. I hope some younger women take notice of this and take it to heart.

[Gangactivities911]

I agree with a lot of these but number 1 I think is bad advice

[myTake Owner]

It honestly depends on what you define as early. Early to me was as early as inviting him back home the day I met him once even. I was young and dumb

[myTake Owner]

I think anything within the span of at least 3 days from meeting him is too early no matter how close you've grown within those 3 days.

[Gangactivities911]

Well maybe not give sex too early but giving time and attention early on isn’t bad I think

[myTake Owner]

It is if it's a lot I still think. In my experience, guys I texted back fast and often within the first 3 days eventually ghosted for example.

[Gangactivities911]

Hmmmm I don't know I’ve noticed that for me I can actually seem to tell whether or not I’d date a girl just after an hour of knowing them or even less.

[EaterPeter]

Spot on baby. Is your mom available and as smart as you? 🙂

[myTake Owner]

Hahahaha 😂 nah but I am 👀

[EaterPeter]

Then now onwards you're mine ♥️

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Bismarck_96]

I can relate to the Man Cave XD that's definitely me

[myTake Owner]

I learned the hard way 💀

[VanillaSalt]

Solid points. I can’t argue with any of them. Not applicable in all cases but most.

[AviatorTom]

Wow, a long and well-thought-out post. Thank you.

[Pegases]

Most of these go both ways, because it's more human nature than it is exclusive to any gender, but even still this was a very insightful read. Well done.

[NYCQuestions1976]

As a full-time single parent, I care about chemistry and common free time. Everything else is negotiable.

[Vistus]

Now do women? Cause I’d say I can relate a little.

[myTake Owner]

hmm im not sure about women as a majority but I can tell you whats true for me
1. They never appreciated what was given too easily. Not the case for me
2. They LOVE genuine compliments. Yeah I can relate
3. Looks matter. Demeanor matters. Race matters too. look and demeanor matter to me, idc about race
4. There needs to be some space. yes as long as its not too much
5. Seriously space is very important.
6. Comfort early isn't always a good thing. if im comfortable early yeah its not a good thing.
7. They're horny beings. yeah im not as horny
8. They pull away when mad. well.. im more of a fighty type so.. yes im the annoying woman that sends books when mad
9. If he actually cares, he'll listen to what you want. of course this is the case for me
10. They don't want a women with a supreme amount of experience. as long as he is serious about me and not trying to make me another body count
11. They use excuses. Eh. there's only been one time I used an excuse. and it didn't work I ended up straight up having to tell the guy I want interested.
12. You shouldn't ignore how you feel.
13. You should watch out for patterns. yeah im capable of patterns
14. If there really was chemistry, there's a decent chance they'll come back. nah I rarely go back to people. once I've move on unless you come back to me first I usually dont think to go back to you

[Vegasrunner]

Your list is ok. You can tell that its written from a teenage girl perspective but in my opinion you're accurate on a few things. You also give great insight into what goes on inside the mind of a woman.

[DarkWinterNights]

Was expecting something a little different, but this is fairly straightforward and pretty good. A couple critiques here and there, but that could just be the types of guys you were seeing.

[Yeetboi__]

Of course there's more reasoning, but for the amount of effort put into this, this checks out from a guy.

[Anno2]

What I've realized after hitting 30. Many many many women seem to have daddy issues

[myTake Owner]

Huh? What do you mean daddy issues?

[PolyGamer]

Do you mean, Daughters being raised with no fathers in their life causing them to behave in a toxic way causing them to have toxic relationship-type daddy issues?

[HawkPerception]

I'm a guy and I can confirm that all of these are accurate for me except number 1 lol

[MountAverage]

Wait, is this simply you telling us about your personal experiences or are you saying that you believe most are like that?

[myTake Owner]

kind of? im really saying like over my experiences around at least 70% of the time these were the cases

[MountAverage]

How many men were they?

[myTake Owner]

30+. I'm probably forgetting some which is why I added the +

[MountAverage]

Ah, I wasn't sure if that was referring to their age.

[MountAverage]

So is your conclusion that that's how guys generally are, and those who aren't are merely exceptions?

[myTake Owner]

Nope. Like I said, this was just the case for the guys on my list who are from a younger age group.

[MountAverage]

Alrighty

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

These days men are rejected because of how sexist western society dictates women in the degenerate post-9/11 world

[myTake Owner]

I honestly feel like women are starting to be rejected more. or at least I am.. :')

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I don't reject women based on attraction. It may be what many men (and women) are doing to each other, but I'm old-school. I reject only if the girl's personality is not so good or if she is a narcissist or takes drugs or is a communist

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

For example if a girl customer around my age came to me asking for my number after she was satisfied with my service, I wouldn't be hesitant to give my number out. Most girls treat me like shit these days, sometimes they'll make excuses as to why they don't even WANT TO BE MY FRIEND. And I do emphasize friend, because contrary to popular belief, opposite-sex friendships aren't always romantic or friends with benefits

[myTake Owner]

Awwwh thats nice

[myTake Owner]

I wish there were more guys like you. I like your idea of giving women a chance

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Tbh I can't stand redpill/blackpill society. Shaming women just because they are single moms or made a mistake in the past

[myTake Owner]

Yeah. It makes me really scared to end up in those situations