Women are definitely to blame for it, but I'm not a hundred percent sure that boys raised by their dads are necessarily doing a lot better either. You have to remember it's about what's being taught, and even fathers are teaching their sons all the old, tired nonsense about how to be a gentleman that no longer has any place in today's messed up society.
I learned that the other day I’m a pretty lackadaisical guy and my girlfriend hates how I don’t react to anything and brush things off so easily
She came to me trying to argue
And I just yelled at her at the top of my lungs to Shut the hell up and do what i told her I needed her to do then she shut up and did it
Basically if you won’t take shit from another man don’t take shit from a woman either Especially YOUR woman
Those fathers you’re talking about need to realize and understand that you are first and foremost a MAN you teach people how to treat you and don’t let anyone walk all over you
Because they're afraid of the truth. But fear keeps them failing. Like nobody is saying a dude has to listen to Andrew Tate or Fresh and Fit, but he sure as hell needs to pull his pants up and toughen up out here.
Confront themselves first. Become more self-aware. Observe how women behave with them vs how they behave with other guys, and learn from what they're seeing. Don't be afraid to take steps and interact with women normally. If she isn't liking you, stop trying. And don't be frightened that she doesn't. Meet the next one. Be yourself. If a woman doesn't like you for who you are, don't try to be something you're not to appeal to her. Walk on from that nonsense.
love can do that. though, from what you've said--it wasn't unwelcomed. I firmly disagree with '' Demanding respect gets you respect'' if you have to demand... then, you don't deserve it.
So if you’re showing respect but someone else still won’t show it to you until you start putting your foot down about it, do you think that means you don't deserve it?
In my experience, when I show a person I want to be respected they wise up and change their behavior. If they ignore me, I ignore them. If they talk over me, I talk over them or just don't listen period. When they start seeing this, it makes them realize they must've done something to make me behave this way. You have to do this even with men. Other men will judge you as lesser if you don't fit their clique vision or don't appear dominant to them. When you show them otherwise they will get it.
@Jamesier pardon the typo. I remembered a fight with my father. I got pissed at how he treated me. instead of accepting responsibility, he blamed others finally dismissed me as nothing but a brat.
@Sabretooth Because he was angry that you called him on his bullshit. Even if he tried to deflect it by playing a blame game, I'm sure deep down he knew you were right. That's why he was angry.
That’s just simply a simp end of story lmao, she will run his back account to the ground if he lets her walk all over him 🤣. Nothing you can really do about it unfortunately just something you GOTTA WATCH FROM THE DISTANCE !!!📢
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90% of men are SIMPS!! One of the major reasons why Dating in the west has turned into a living hell for high value men.
treating women in a nice and respectful way isn't weak at all
I fully agree with you. But it's the women of today who stupidly view men who are 'nice' and respectful as being weak.
*shouldn't be
we are not allowed to be strong anymore due to the equality thing now.
we can't ask a girl out more than once or it harassment.
so I can see why women think we are week
And they made it that way.
O, Yes.
It’s women fault for raising weak men
Boys who were raised by their dads don’t act like that
Women are definitely to blame for it, but I'm not a hundred percent sure that boys raised by their dads are necessarily doing a lot better either. You have to remember it's about what's being taught, and even fathers are teaching their sons all the old, tired nonsense about how to be a gentleman that no longer has any place in today's messed up society.
Obviously it’s not 100%
But the majority of men who are raised by their dads are better off
Psychologist say Both parents or Single dad is the best option for children
I don’t care what the government says children belong to the Dad it’s his job to raise them
You have any idea how many fathers today are weak men who can't stand up to their own wives either? They're struggling too.
Women test for strength
I learned that the other day I’m a pretty lackadaisical guy and my girlfriend hates how I don’t react to anything and brush things off so easily
She came to me trying to argue
And I just yelled at her at the top of my lungs to Shut the hell up and do what i told her I needed her to do then she shut up and did it
Basically if you won’t take shit from another man don’t take shit from a woman either Especially YOUR woman
Those fathers you’re talking about need to realize and understand that you are first and foremost a MAN you teach people how to treat you and don’t let anyone walk all over you
Fully agree with that.
These weak men haven’t taken the red pill yet. They don’t want to take it and that is what makes them weak
Because they're afraid of the truth. But fear keeps them failing. Like nobody is saying a dude has to listen to Andrew Tate or Fresh and Fit, but he sure as hell needs to pull his pants up and toughen up out here.
What would you say these men should do?
Confront themselves first. Become more self-aware. Observe how women behave with them vs how they behave with other guys, and learn from what they're seeing. Don't be afraid to take steps and interact with women normally. If she isn't liking you, stop trying. And don't be frightened that she doesn't. Meet the next one. Be yourself. If a woman doesn't like you for who you are, don't try to be something you're not to appeal to her. Walk on from that nonsense.
These are not how the men are in my life, and no they aren't assholes either. Maybe this only applies to pussies🤷♀️
Well, I'm glad the men in your life are not like this. But others out there are.
Those guys are simps 🤣
They do anything to get into pants of women..😂
I'm never weak towards women, I'm just cautious.
i don't get treated like this at all. i don't know what you're going on about.
Great! So your one personal little world is fact and invalidates all other situations. Brilliant!😃
thanks :D
love can do that. though, from what you've said--it wasn't unwelcomed. I firmly disagree with '' Demanding respect gets you respect'' if you have to demand... then, you don't deserve it.
So if you’re showing respect but someone else still won’t show it to you until you start putting your foot down about it, do you think that means you don't deserve it?
Would it even be genuine?
In my experience, when I show a person I want to be respected they wise up and change their behavior. If they ignore me, I ignore them. If they talk over me, I talk over them or just don't listen period. When they start seeing this, it makes them realize they must've done something to make me behave this way. You have to do this even with men. Other men will judge you as lesser if you don't fit their clique vision or don't appear dominant to them. When you show them otherwise they will get it.
I only do so if I must.
@Sabretooth that's why he said demanding gets you respect. Just like you said you would if you have to
@Jamesier it doesn't always work, however. most of of the time, one is just brushed off.
@Jamesier pardon the typo. I remembered a fight with my father. I got pissed at how he treated me. instead of accepting responsibility, he blamed others finally dismissed me as nothing but a brat.
@Sabretooth Because he was angry that you called him on his bullshit. Even if he tried to deflect it by playing a blame game, I'm sure deep down he knew you were right. That's why he was angry.
I doubt it. He's never been one to take responsibility for these kinds of things. This was hardly the first time.
@Sabretooth Maybe. But that doesn't mean he doesn't know it's true. A proud heart never admits the truth.
"Demanding respect gets you respect"
You got a long ways to go buddy...
Because they are weak men who have no kind of self love nor self respect
And what do you think is the reason for that?
That’s just simply a simp end of story lmao, she will run his back account to the ground if he lets her walk all over him 🤣. Nothing you can really do about it unfortunately just something you GOTTA WATCH FROM THE DISTANCE !!!📢
I don't take orders from women, they are inferior to men.
You're not far from 100% accuracy. We are leaders, they are followers. We are the front and they are right behind us and important.
Eh, men hate me anyway. They keep their distance. I guess that’s a good thing I suppose.
That's his choice mind your business and let him learn on his own
Because they need opinions, appraisals, and approvals.
i liked the part about respect.
I'm not weak to women I care less about what women think of me cuz they are the most hypocritical ever
Good post. Simps are weird