I asked my ex to block me, will he ever unblock me and come back?

[Anonymous]

We dated for over a year and he broke up with me because Im constantly fighting and insecure. I begged and pleaded. I couldn't do NC and so I told him to just block me since he's getting annoyed. Im becoming a better person but I just feel so lonely. Its only been a week and I regret this and I feel like Im losing the perfect person. He doesn't rely on me and he wants to forget me. Do you think he will ever come back? I can tell he's sick of me but can a person really move on because of this after being together for so long?

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If he actually loved me once, how can he move on, how can he stop fighting?

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How can you guys be so sure he's just going to move on?

[Anonymous]

my ex when were together couldn't sleep without seeing me or saying good night to me every night, somehow she ended up not caring about me anymore since things went sour and she got me blocked on fb and keeps unblocking me few times every 3 months and now she seems to got over me completely and she never unblocked me again for more than a year and counting and forgot that she ever met me,

see people can forget, feelings fade, memories get replaced that's what time can do

[Asker]

why'd you break up?

[Opinion Owner]

long story, she couldn't be with me and i want us to be together and blink of an eye things started falling apart and never felt so helpless in my life, so i guess time made me to accept what happened has happened, i hope you also give it a break and focus on new things in your life

[Asker]

so you're telling me he's never going to come back...

[Opinion Owner]

i ain't saying that, i way saying focusing on new things, make new friends and don't keep holding on to the past, if he really cared about you he would comeback, i would certainly be for her if she needed me ever but truth is she doesn't need me nor care about me, i've learned to move on with life, you too should try to do that, things will get better if you try

[dartmaul15]

Yes he can. It's possible to move on from ANYBODY. You don't have to believe me, but i know.
Does he want to? i don't know. I'm just saying that it is indeed possible.

[Asker]

Then tell me how can I be okay with moving on from the perfect guy?

[dartmaul15]

Easy said, hard to do.
Firslty you need to realize it's over and that there's no way to get back. No if, but, maybe, what if or any of that bullshit. It's the past, and you can't alter that.
Then you need to look straight ahead and keep on walking, don't look back to see if he's crying over realizing what he lost, don't look back for one last glimpse; look straigh

[dartmaul15]

(derped the post, so contineud from the previous)
... look straight ahead and keep walking. It'll be hard, but if you look back it'll only be harder.

Live life as you used to do. Keep going to work/school as usual, attend social gatherings as usual, do your hobbies and have fun. Don't let it change your life, and try to preserve the stability in your life. This will be your fallback on hard days. No matter how hard, keep on living as normal!
It sounds cruel, but it helps you from thinking and overthinking. It keeps you focused on "today".

That's about what to do...

[Jeremias]

Tell him you are going to give him space and dont contact him in any way for a month.

[Asker]

he blcoked me so i can't do that anyways.. will he unblock me ever?

[Derosa]

Hey, I know it's long since you posted this. But am in the same exact position right now. Did it get easier with time?

[RationalMale]

Loving someone doesn't mean you're obsessed with them forever and you can't move on.

And a relationship worth having usually doesn't require "fighting" for it. Who was he supposed to fight, to keep the relationship alive? You?

[Asker]

I know Im wrong, is there anyway to fix this? Will love come back after anger?

[RationalMale]

There's always a way, for those clever enough to find it. :)

[DLofgren]

It's so annoying when girls do that.
Well, since you originally asked him to block you, then no, he probably has already forgotten.

[Asker]

What can I do? I want him back..

[DLofgren]

You could have a serious conversation with him. Ask him how he feels about you. Be very, very intuitive. Guys aren't very good liars.

[Asker]

He's really angry at me for kicking him out of the last fight.. When you stop being angry at someone does the love come back? Or will logic be more important. He says he never wants to be with me so stop trying..

[DLofgren]

Allow him some time to cool off. Keep in mind, there are so many guys in this world, not just him. I understand breakups are hard. I just went through one. She's absolutely insane. Just give him some time. If he wants you back, he'll make it known. And if he doesn't? Well, then you'll have to move on as he has.

[Asker]

Do you still love her? Why dont you go back to her? How can she win you back?

[DLofgren]

I broke up with her because she was a self-harmer, but for attention. She would fake having problems and one day I seriously got so fed up with her that I told her to delete my number and never contact me again, lol. I do not love her at all, and there is nothing in this world that she could ever dream of doing to get me back.

[Asker]

did you ever love her? and why

[DLofgren]

I did love her at one point, but her behavior became so out of hand that now she's nothing but an embarrassment.

[NZDSTR]

He's gone not coming back

[Asker]

why do you say that

[NZDSTR]

He left you is the first reason. When someone leaves the other person it's not a spare of the moment decision is been brewing for some time. Leaving means he's had enough. You asking him to block you just put the final nail in the coffin. You are young too he thinks he can find another girl being young he feels the right girl is yet to come