The guy I like saw my boobs. How to kill awkwardness?

[Anonymous]

So my group of friend went swimming together. Of course my crush was there and I was too. When we started getting changed I realized I grabbed the wrong bikini top, and that this one was strapless (which are only good for tanning because my boobs are too big for that). But I wore it anyway and went swimming. Anyway we where playing and having fun in the water, but the waves started getting rough. At one point a huge wave came up and tipped me forwards, it knocke my bikini top of and my boobs where completely exposed. An to make things worse my crush was right in front of me and saw everything. He was nice and gave me his shirt and helped me look for my top (which we eventually found). But I don't want things I be awkward. he probably thought it was fine, but I'm so embarrassed. I honestly don't know how I'll be to look him in the eye (we made eye contact after he saw my boobs). I just don't know how I'll be able to talk to him

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I think our group is going out together next weekend and I do t want to spend the whole day avoiding him

[stevie123]

Don't be ashamed. Stuff like this happens all the time.
If you are crushing, chances are that he would be seeing them anyway if you started dating.
It is actually better that it happened this way, the ice is broken, and you have shared a moment.
Now you have something exciting to talk about, not avoid.
Go about your business, and maybe see if you chat him up before the next meeting.
Just chalk it up to experience, and laugh it off.
Wardrobe malfunctions occur frequently, and I am sure you have nothing to be ashamed of, anyway.

[rjroy3]

Honestly, just talk to him like you owe him one. Say, "Thank you so much for giving me your shirt the other night, I really appreciate it. That was cool of you : )".
Focus on the good feelings of him helping you instead of everything else and it won't be a big deal. You two had a moment, but it will only be a big deal if you make a big deal out of it.

[witchprincess]

He'll notice you're trying to avoid him and that's just going to make the situation more awkward. In reality, it's only awkward if you make it so. Talk to him. Say what's up, act normal, and acknowledge what happened light-heartedly, and the awkwardness will be dead.

[been_waiting]

Hahaha this is cute and funny. He's a guy. He probably enjoyed it. It's not like he is going to think less of you. He is probably also embarassed. Distancing yourself will make it more awkward. Try to pretend it didn't happen, and if you can't, try to laugh it off.

[misscoffeehead]

Omg! Poor you, in all honesty babe, make the situation fly right over your head. Dont worry about it 😏

[meatballs21]

OH NOOOOOO. He saw your boobs! I mean, panic! You have boobs. He knows this too. It was a funny accident, he helped you cover up and find your top. He knows you were embarrassed and so didn't make a big deal about it. Neither should you.

Besides, you like this guy, right? Wasn't there a chance he was going to get to see them eventually anyway? How do you think other girls are able to face their boyfriends, who see their boobs on a regular basis.

This is only a problem because you're making it one.

[OpinionnotHate]

It happens just don't talk about it because you'll wind up doing stuff with him more then likely because he may something to you about your boobs or compliment you on them and say he'd like to see them again sometime and y'all wind up doing stuff. Just don't be easy please.

[ljrobert]

That's not even a big deal. Either don't bring it up and act like nothing happened, or make a point to thank him for his help. I mean honestly, it's not like he's going to be freaked out by seeing your boobs. He's probably psyched about it

[dartmaul15]

Give this guy the MHO, seriously.
It's not a big deal unless YOU blow it out of proportions! Treat it casually, or even thank him. it's ok to be a little bothered (morght be good, oe else he might think he's friendzoned), but don't freak out!

We guys KNOW you girls acre contious about this, so if you act cool and calm, he won't react either!

[TrackisLife]

Trust me, you have nothing to be embarrassed about. He definitely enjoyed it, tease him about it and lol what bra size? Trying to imagine what happened.

[Asker]

Umm 32ddd

[TrackisLife]

Lol, well definitely tease him about it! By tease I mean, say something like "did you enjoy what you saw?" Or "what did you do when you got home?" Teasing will take the embarrassment of you and put a little on him. But, it will be fun and flirty.

[TrackisLife]

Thanks for the downvotws gals!

[james1989]

He's crush right? I'm not trying to be mean but can't be all feeling bad about it. Just say sorry about what happen and move on. However if you keep being negative or whatever about your mistake he might not care about you anymore. Now if he is dirty about the whole thing then I completely understand.

[Khakishro]

Well if you do avoid him, you can probably say goodbye to any chances with him

[Anonymous]

he's probably having a fap to it as we speak just be fully confident and dont give a fuck about it you'll be right

[Asker]

Haha I wouldn't even want to imagine that. That freaks me out a lot

[AdamThomas]

Just talk to him and acknowledge the fact that it was really embarrassing, he'll understand, shit happens. He sounds like a nice guy anyway.

[front2back]

What's the problem here?
You're already one step of the game now! It's just one less thing you need to worry about to get your man to like you!

[christopwt]

Don't worry u made his day ! Trust me just ask if he liked what he saw and laugh , flirt , at the end of of the nite ask him to dinner some nite tell split the bill

[Anonymous]

Man... you got me horny and I'm a girl! Lol! Maybe I have homo tendencies!

[PunkOfSteam]

Or maybe you just like the idea of accidentally showing off to your crush? I hear that's a thing.

[Asker]

@PunchOfSteam no not me, I'm way tell too shy for that. I once almost cried because I got super embarrased

[ThisAndThat]

Actually when it comes to opening up to your crush I think you have probably spoken the first word.

[writerguy220]

Look it's not a huge deal. If you care for him just try and move past it

[Falthzel]

Don´t worry, he will suddenly like you more and threath you better.

[Tripzz]

Show him them again on purpose, win win

[Anonymous]

Make jokes about it before anyone else can

[Anonymous]

he will like your big boobs