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Girl You Are Precious. And Get That In Your Head. However You Look Or However Your Features Are doesn't Matter If You Are Really The Lady Of Class And Good At Heart. if your bf is do inconsiderate its better just dump him. or begin showing a tearing attitude. As long as you continue taking what you dont like as a fact YOU WILL GET IT. stop your " :-( :'( " this atitude right now n just begin to know yourself. you are worth ONLY appreciation and if he doesn't value u , just leave him behind n live yourself. He will value u wen he looses you. Begin to be around the people who really love uthe way u r. Such Dogs Will Then Follow.
That's similar to me and my wife. All the guys she like are completely opposite of me. I ask her why or if she finds me attractive give she says yeah. And she just says that she likes those guys because of their smile or style. Which i think is a lie. Instead of saying why she really liked them like your bf does. It sounds like he is really honest. Like me. Like four instance we went trick-or-treating last night with one of her friends and her friend had a really big butt. I jokingly said wow how come you didn't tell me she had such a big butt. But I will never say how good someone looks I think that is just disrespectful to her. Because that would mean that I was checking her brain out and even though I looked at her but it was obvious that she had a big butt because it was like three times the size of a normal butt.
The one who cares the least has the most power in the relationship. You need an equal, not someone who makes you feel like you're below them or not worthy. Don't think this is as good as it's going to get or that you can't do better. You can do way better and it's only going to get better when you make peace with yourself. Don't let other people, especially a man, determine your self-worth. Wouldn't it be a shame if we all were the same? Take pride in who you are - on the inside and the outside. Stand up for yourself because you're worth standing up for
You're not overreacting.. You should talk to him about how you feel when he say something that hurt your feelings so that he will be aware and stop his being insensitive.. Observe how he responds after you talk to him.. If he's still the same, then I would say its time to move on.. You'll find someone who'll appreciate your beauty, respect, and love you as you..
No, u r not over reacting, rather u not reacting enough! Please silently leave him, just like a test period (and please don't tell me I'm asking u to manipulate him lol). See what happens. He should stop saying those things if he really loves u. Hurting someone isn't love. Its laziness.
If he really loved you he wouldn't be complimentting other girls or comparing you to them- geez, talk about some who is faithful- geez man, a MAN wouldn't treat you like this- a MAN would love every single little thing you hate about yourself- this 'boyfriend' isn't right for you, please leave him
You ain't even overreacting. You just seem to realize what's is going on but you don't wanna be live it's true. He's putting you down and he's not even worth it. He's not accepting the real you. He's saying all these rude and disrespectful names. I'd say call it off if he can't accept you, you don't need him. KNOW YOUR WORTH. remember you are the only you. And no body can be you. Use those hurtful words to become stronger and better than before. Make him wish he could've but he can't !
If he truly loves you he wouldn't say means things like that about you, I would never say anything like that to you I would always give you compliments that would make you feel sexy. You don't need that loser if he can't see your beauty then why are you with him. You need someone that will think your the sexiest woman in the world.
Dump that douche bag he obviously doesn't find you attractive he's only there to put you down and verbally abuse you.
I don't get it why are u even with him still!!!
He shd be loving u for who u are..!
And give no negative comments which makes u insecure..!
Once I told my girl friend that she is not that girl i use to dream of when i was single. She felt bad and i understand why, but then i let her know that she is far better than any girl i imagined before knowing her.
I am sincere with her but there is a line between been sincere and been a fucking idiot, and your boyfriend is not even near to be sincere with you, he behaves like an asshole.
Dump his ass
that is not a good relationship
no one should make you feel that way about yourself
NO ONE
He has a girlfriend he shouldn't be saying if someone else is hot especially NOT IN FRONT OF HER
I'm not saying he shouldn't or won't find others attractive but it's not right to say it in front of his girlfriend
Just dump him and find someone better which believe me will not be hard
you sound awesome and you don't need this asshole in your life
I've been in your situation. We're not together anymore.
I believe that you deserve better than this. The person you're with should make you feel secure and he's doing the opposite. As a result, you'll always feel inadequate. You're not.
You deserve better. I hope you come to realise that and leave him.
I wish you all the best!
What an ass!! Dump him right away! You don't need his stupid comments and BS in your life. He is constantly hurting your feelings and saying other girls look good right in front of you. That's is soooo wrong in sooo many ways! Get rid of him and let him be with one if those other girls. I guarantee he'll be single in a couple of days coz he will pull the same shit with them! They won't put up with his nastiness and stupidity!
No, you are not overreacting at all. This guy sounds like a real jerk and you should have a talk with him or something about it, and if he can't stop, then you don't need the kind of put-down attitude in your life.
When you love someone, you love every little detail about them, because that makes them who they are. Of course, a guy can develop feelings for someone who they don't really feel that interested initially. Which I believe, is the case here.
I always thought my ideal girl was blonde with blue eyes, but after meeting enough girls, I know how my dream girl should be, and it's not blonde. It's all in the personality, not looks, if he doesn't get that, he's way too shallow.
EVERY guy I have dated has done this to me. It really makes a girl wonder what is wrong with her. Yes, I have flaws, I know this, but it makes a girl wonder if there is anything good about her. I have pretty much all but given up on finding a guy who will love me for me.
I am so sorry you are going through this - but you are worth more than he is treating you. I agree with those who say to talk to him, but if he doesn't stop, I would leave him. Find a guy who truly values you.
that's weird why he is still with you if you're the opposite of what he likes?
That's a good question!
I wonder if you gave him a picture of my penis and said "I want you to have one like that" how he would feel. Not great I should imagine.
Nah you are not over reacting but if it were me I'd tell him how bad he hurts your feelings. What's the worst that could happen? Another thing I do is when I meet somebody I point out all of their flaws but I never make fun of them you should talk about him too since he's always talking bout u
You need to tell him this bothers you and if it doesn't stop you need to break up with him. You are not overreacting and this is emotionally abusive behavior, even if he may not realize he is doing it.